Girls.

[chiwawa626]

Hi, im 16, male, straight. Ive never had a girlfriend, let alone had a really good friend that was a girl. I guess im just shy, i mean very shy....(btw i still like girls.) Last week was Jr. Prom and my friend set me up with this girl i know...well we went and all had fun and stuff. I just wanted to know how do u persu things with girls....what do u talk about, how do u ask them to go somewhere (movies, bowlin...), and how do u ask em out?....im confused, please advise me......and please please..no neffing or stupid posts.

 

[Mucman]

I'm 22 and have the same problem... or is it really a problem??? Hmm... life is sweet without a ball and chain

 

[Tanner]

I think that someone around here has a sig w/ something along these lines from American Pie 1

"Suck me Beautiful"

hehehehe, yeah, THAT will DEFINATELY do the trick! hehehehehehe

maybe I shouldn't be giving advice on this... hmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[Tanner]

<< I'm 22 and have the same problem... or is it really a problem??? Hmm... life is sweet without a ball and chain >>



I happen to LOVE my "ball and chain" !!!

 

[Aves]

If you had fun with the girl and she had fun with you then you should just ask her out.

Tell her that you had fun with her at the prom and you would like to go out with her again sometime maybe to a movie or whatever if she's interested.

As far as what to talk about, it doesn't have to be scripted, just let things come naturally.

 

[FrustratedUser]

Just a hint;

Girls are not aliens. They eat, sleep, talk, takes a dump, farts and make jokes.
Move on if the object of desire ignores/treats you like sh-t.

<fart>
Done for now.

 

[Mucman]

Tanner - Good to hear! I think I've become jaded because all I hear is about how some guys GF is holding him back from doing the things he wants... I guess women are great, I just haven't had time to fit them in.

 

[MrDingleDangle]

just got to treat them like u treat anyone else...and dont worry if they are a bitch and reject u...

if u dont care when u get rejected its easy =) and u are more confident and more likely you wont be

 

[Soccer55]

Do you see this girl often in school? (Even if it's just passing in the hall between classes) If so, then just stop her and talk to her. Ask her what she's doing that weekend and/or ask her if she wants to go somewhere (bowling, movies, etc). If you don't normally see her, then call her and do what aves2k suggested.

-Tom

 

[CraigRT]

How do you persue? you honestly just ask them to do whatever, in your case...

you wanna go to a movie? say it like that ...... no worries, nothing bad can come of that, just think of it that way.. if she says no, ask if she would want to go another time cause maybe she is just busy that day.. meh, it's not a hard thing to do at all really.

 

[yobarman]

im so drunk in this =thread i have no idea whats going on .

 

[dummy2001]

Dingle Dangle is right. The first step is accepting that you might get rejected but its not the end of the world if you do. Then go ahead and let her know you like her and would like to go out again. If you go out remember to keep it low key, you'll probably be nervous and if you try too hard you will go overboard. Tell her about cool things you do and know about, and ask her about the things she likes. Keep talking about things you're both into, but don't be a simp and just agree with whatever she says. If things seem to go well and she seems to be expecting it then kiss her. Even if you are awkward the whole night don't worry about it. If she's into you she'll give you time to settle down, and if she's not then who cares.

 

[Ionizer86]

Just find some time to talk or IM or be together. Be her friend first by being nice and smiling and stuff
"Converse often and cleanly" -- Ionizer86

 

[joohang]

"sup b!tch, [what you want from her]?"

Works like a charm. Try it.

 

[Aves]

<< "sup b!tch, [what you want from her]?"

Works like a charm. Try it. >>


And I thought you were only kidding about that line.

 

[PsychoAndy]

You could always talk over coffee at the local trendy coffeeshop. If it wasn't so late i could think of more...but my brain is mush

 

[Eli]

Girls rule.

Don't worry dude.. You're only 16.. hehe... Just be yourself..

 

[Lithium381]

Being shy sucks...i'm starting to be come less introverted myself....just be nice and courtious.....and then ask her if she wants to go to _______ with you....nothing big, just hang out, get to know her before making any sort of commitment...but good luck with that..

 

[chiwawa626]

I think the reason im shy is im scared of rejection, even when i goto parties and stuff i bearly dance beacuse im too scared to ask a girl....I dunno...mabey i should smoke out to lax me lol....but anyways...well last time i called and i said we should all do somehting as a group (all firends from prom) and she said she was gonna go outa town for the week so i havent called her this week....when u talk to girls, do u talk about them, urself or both? I been watchin MTV blind date thingy magigy....and the girls are very self centerd and want all the talk about them.... jeeze..mabey i should go find a forum for this kinda stuff thanks for the advice guys.

 

[weezergirl]

Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *)

 

[Aves]

<< I think the reason im shy is im scared of rejection >>

Rejection sucks big time but you can't let the fear of it rule you.

 

[chiwawa626]

Oh eyah and last time i talked to her we talked about if we ever were in relationships, well she told me about her unsucessful ones and stuff, then she brought up sex and our opinions on when should couples have it, and then about fooling around and kissing... i duno does it sound like shes intrested? Another thing is i think back in 8th grade she usedto like me i hope its still there. Should i arrange a group thing again, (my friend his gf and me and her) like to go somewhere? or should i go for us alone? Im really not totaly sure about what she thinks bout me....

 

[Aves]

<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *) >>


You take all that away and the mouth simply becomes an intake for food!

 

[weezergirl]

<<

<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *) >>


You take all that away and the mouth simply becomes an intake for food! >>



haha

btw, chiwawa. i think u are analyzing everything too much. you are young, just go with your gut feeling. that's the only way you'll learn. and don't worry about doing something stupid. it's a part of growing up!

 

[Aves]

<< btw, chiwawa. i think u are analyzing everything too much. you are young, just go with your gut feeling. that's the only way you'll learn. and don't worry about doing something stupid. it's a part of growing up! >>


Agree 100%