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girls that are friends...ever got with them?
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Koing
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Go for it man.
GROW some balls and talk to her about it.
I liked my gf for a while before we started to go out with each other.
I knew her for about 2 years or so before. Not really speak. But had the opportunity to spend a day with her and it was a great day. I was buzzed about it. Purely as friends though and I enjoyed that. Saw more of her and really got interested.
Cut a long story short I asked how how she felt about 'us' 'together' as a couple. I told her I liked her a lot and she was fun, great looking and fun to be with etc. She told me straight how she felt and things went on from their.
I was lucky and didn't encounter a girl that would play games or be dishonest with her feelings. She told me straight so I was saved all that BS that most of the guys seem to get here.........
Year and 4 months on we are still going on strong.
Koing
GROW some balls and talk to her about it.
I liked my gf for a while before we started to go out with each other.
I knew her for about 2 years or so before. Not really speak. But had the opportunity to spend a day with her and it was a great day. I was buzzed about it. Purely as friends though and I enjoyed that. Saw more of her and really got interested.
Cut a long story short I asked how how she felt about 'us' 'together' as a couple. I told her I liked her a lot and she was fun, great looking and fun to be with etc. She told me straight how she felt and things went on from their.
I was lucky and didn't encounter a girl that would play games or be dishonest with her feelings. She told me straight so I was saved all that BS that most of the guys seem to get here.........
Year and 4 months on we are still going on strong.
Koing
alkemyst
No Lifer
I had this same situation in a way. My friends ex long-term g/f (it was high school and he had to move)...we started hanging out a lot and eventually (it was summer in S. Florida) we'd be in our 'undies' watching TV in bed between going to the pool.
No real signs given and although I am not a prude, it was my best friend's ex....anyways one day she snapped. I mean like freaking psycho....apparently the deal was supposed to be I would date her and my friend was happy with that, the problem was no one filled me in. 🙂
I have had other friends that were also sex buddies...it's a lot more popular now than back in 1989 when I graduated. I have met quite a few women that request that and feel you out if you are going to be 'wierd' about it.
Forgot to add....don't assume she wants a friend with benefits, a lot of women just want a sleep mate (esp those in past long term, live in relationships)...she ask her, make it playful though if you can....you don't want to sound like that's been your whole goal. I got accused of that once (which was lame since I did a lot for the girl and never asked for a reciprication) and the friendship sort of feel apart since she wouldn't stop bringing it up (if I did something for her, she'd say 'this doesn't mean we are having sex'...she was no 'catch' anyway and I got tired with her implication I was like a 'lost pup'.).
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No real signs given and although I am not a prude, it was my best friend's ex....anyways one day she snapped. I mean like freaking psycho....apparently the deal was supposed to be I would date her and my friend was happy with that, the problem was no one filled me in. 🙂
I have had other friends that were also sex buddies...it's a lot more popular now than back in 1989 when I graduated. I have met quite a few women that request that and feel you out if you are going to be 'wierd' about it.
Forgot to add....don't assume she wants a friend with benefits, a lot of women just want a sleep mate (esp those in past long term, live in relationships)...she ask her, make it playful though if you can....you don't want to sound like that's been your whole goal. I got accused of that once (which was lame since I did a lot for the girl and never asked for a reciprication) and the friendship sort of feel apart since she wouldn't stop bringing it up (if I did something for her, she'd say 'this doesn't mean we are having sex'...she was no 'catch' anyway and I got tired with her implication I was like a 'lost pup'.).
Å
alkemyst
No Lifer
No man it's the opposite. Girls are used to having guys hit on them, so they make the 'like' part clear up front. Of course in a friends with benefits situation it doesn't go down like that....in fact you may be the opposite of what's she is really looking for.
One caveat....she may not like and may not mention because she assumes the guy is gay...that happened to my friend and was probably the worst day of his life (he did the flowers, candy, surprise her deal 🙁 ).
Å
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