Girls are mean!

[rubix]

here is a little tip for you:

you know that guy she was giving a lapdance in public at school in front of hundreds of students?
she likes him more.

 

[AreaCode707]

How old are you?
I get the impression that the only reason you're interested in this girl is because you saw her giving some guy a lap dance and you hope you're next. Obviously you're not attracted by her charm and wit and friendliness. :disgust: Not like you'd want to date a girl with a decent personality or anythingl like that, heaven forbid!

 

[pyonir]

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<< you are about the first guy in AT history to actually have some balls. I'm not just saying because you initiated the first encounter (most people here can't), but also because you went for seconds like a stubborn ass! >>


Haha, finally someone acknowledged that instead of the other people here, who has yet to talk to a girl, try to play Dr. Freud.

But yeah, that was still pretty humiliating, especially when I did it in front of her whole class. Oh well, I'll get over it eventually. >>


if you didn't want advice from the people that are "yet to talk to a girl" why did you post a thread about it and ask? I have talked to many girls, and i don't think it takes balls go up to them a second time. the first time was balls, the second time is mandatory in my mind when she treats you like that.

 

[Hammer]

Persistence pays off, always. And remember...be an @sshole.

 

[SpearBritney]

<< if you didn't want advice from the people that are "yet to talk to a girl" why did you post a thread about it and ask? I have talked to many girls, and i don't think it takes balls go up to them a second time. the first time was balls, the second time is mandatory in my mind when she treats you like that >>


I wasn't asking for advices, just wanted to rant and get some comfort (can you blame me for that?). As for the questions about her liking me or not, they were rhetorical since I didn't expect anyone to know what she was really thinking about me. And besides, that comment about how some people here who never talked to girls, it wasn't aimed at you (maybe it was your admission of guilt to suddenly feel like I was talking to you), but towards the people who seemed to be jumping into the Psychologist's Chair to analyze my situation so they can feel high and mighty.

 

[cthulhu]

Dude, understanding girls is man's holy grail. You can spend your entire life trying to figure them out only to realize on your deathbed that you don't know a damn thing. I always met girls when I was "not trying to meet anyone." If you want to be the "next" recipient of one of her lap dances, then go for it. If you want more than just a lap dance, I would think about it some more.

$.02

 

[dfi]

<<

<< you are about the first guy in AT history to actually have some balls. I'm not just saying because you initiated the first encounter (most people here can't), but also because you went for seconds like a stubborn ass! >>


Haha, finally someone acknowledged that instead of some of other people here, who has yet to talk to a girl, try to play Dr. Freud.

But yeah, that was still pretty humiliating, especially when I did it in front of her whole class. Oh well, I'll get over it eventually. >>




I'm not sure if that whole "Dr. Freud" thing was directed at posts like mine, but I'll pretend it was.

I applaud you for talking to her. I also understand you want some comfort, and it totally sucks she blew you off. But from what you have told us, I see little to no indications that she was interested. Just because a girl looks your way and smiles doesn't mean she is interested. Cuz if I'm wrong, then I've passed up a lot of opportunities! :Q

In which case, doh!

dfi

 

[silverpig]

Dudes, what ya gotta do is shoot down a few girls for once. Make 'em think you like 'em (preferably have a few going at once), then shoot 'em down (nicely mind ya). It makes you feel like you're the one being chased for once (it's cool), and then you'll be able to tell who really wants you by seeing who keeps trying. Of course shooting down fat chicks is just plain fun

j/k

 

[dfi]

<< Dudes, what ya gotta do is shoot down a few girls for once. Make 'em think you like 'em (preferably have a few going at once), then shoot 'em down (nicely mind ya). It makes you feel like you're the one being chased for once (it's cool), and then you'll be able to tell who really wants you by seeing who keeps trying. Of course shooting down fat chicks is just plain fun

j/k >>



Wait, scratch my post. I like his idea better.

dfi

 

[lawaris]

<< Dude take a hint! Fall back regroup and give her a few weeks. NO MEANS NO >>

 

[deerslayer]

*cough*bitch*cough*

run away while you still can!!!!!!!!!
you'll be lucky if she isn't a PSYCHO bitch

 

[y2kc]

Ignore her. If you try again too soon she'll view you as another desperate loser vying for her attention. If you do get in proximity it's ok to say "hey" or something, just don't say it with much enthusiasm, have that "whatever" tone thing going. Give the impression that if she gave you the chance you would treat her like dirt and she'll be giving you more than lap dances buddy.

 

[pyonir]

<< I wasn't asking for advices, just wanted to rant and get some comfort (can you blame me for that?). As for the questions about her liking me or not, they were rhetorical since I didn't expect anyone to know what she was really thinking about me. And besides, that comment about how some people here who never talked to girls, it wasn't aimed at you (maybe it was your admission of guilt to suddenly feel like I was talking to you), but towards the people who seemed to be jumping into the Psychologist's Chair to analyze my situation so they can feel high and mighty. >>


so you posted on THIS message board and didn't want advice? ummm ok then. and i realize that comment wasn't aimed at me, i was talking about the fact that a previous post said you had balls of steel for talking to her a second time. that is why i said i have talked to a lot of girls. it was the comment about being a big man and talking to her again, not the initial contact. and people on here are not analyzing your situations to feel high and mighty (well most are not) they are trying to help you. excuse us for trying to help. maybe you should post rants like this if you don't want our suggestions.