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suse920

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Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: suse920
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me

You're right, I did. I was also in 8th grade and it lasted all of a month. Then I realized how fvcking stupid it was and that if I had ever spent a minute more like that there's no way I'd be enjoying life as much as I am right now.

I'm only 16 but I was done acting the way you are by the time I was 14. Just grow the fvck up, do good in school, play sports, and have a lot of friends. If you don't try to get females they'll come to you.

good point now what about this rosman's crew business. I want in.

Just a joke that came from Ventrilo. A lot of people also put stuff about being Ross's bitch or slave or whatever if they link to his GottaDeal site. :)

If you want more information, join us in Ventrilo sometime. See the stickied thread at the top for more information.


ahhh. I just wanted to get laid though :eek:;)
 

aplefka

Lifer
Feb 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: jEct2
Okay just to make this clear, I WAS suicidal.....right now i just feel lost, not suicidal

This site should help: http://www.preventsuicidenow.com jEct2 :)

You're a helluva lot more patient and nicer than I'll ever be.

Cheers Zim :beer:

You deserve a whole case

:beer::beer::beer::beer:
:beer::beer::beer::beer:
:beer::beer::beer::beer:
 

MrYAK

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ppl who are suicidal should just go through with it and leave the gene pool, who wants more of these freaks who thinks life is to hard and trys to kill them self AT 15!! go the fvck outside and see the sun so to speak, get the fvck over this dumb cvnt of a b!tch you call the girl you like. find a chick who has hit puberty yer age, hit, tell here, gloat, wip it out, smack her with it, then say later b!tch......thats what i would do if i was still a Jr high student.....or just maybe grow up. either will work.
 

aplefka

Lifer
Feb 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: suse920
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: suse920
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me

You're right, I did. I was also in 8th grade and it lasted all of a month. Then I realized how fvcking stupid it was and that if I had ever spent a minute more like that there's no way I'd be enjoying life as much as I am right now.

I'm only 16 but I was done acting the way you are by the time I was 14. Just grow the fvck up, do good in school, play sports, and have a lot of friends. If you don't try to get females they'll come to you.

good point now what about this rosman's crew business. I want in.

Just a joke that came from Ventrilo. A lot of people also put stuff about being Ross's bitch or slave or whatever if they link to his GottaDeal site. :)

If you want more information, join us in Ventrilo sometime. See the stickied thread at the top for more information.


ahhh. I just wanted to get laid though :eek:;)

The coupon code ran out for that. The provider of that deal (AceMcMac) no longer frequents these forums supposedly. However, in Ventrilo, we do have a channel that gets you laid if you join it. :p
 
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girls dont want spineless sensitive romantic nice guys

grow some balls and go to the gym if you want to attract women
 

OREOSpeedwagon

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You're lost? If the girl likes the guy, so be it. Let it go, realize that there is lots of other sh!t in the world to do than worry about a girl. If it's meant to work out then it will, just don't stress over it. Live your life and stop worrying about hers so much.
 

Zim Hosein

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Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: jEct2
Okay just to make this clear, I WAS suicidal.....right now i just feel lost, not suicidal

This site should help: http://www.preventsuicidenow.com jEct2 :)

You're a helluva lot more patient and nicer than I'll ever be.

Cheers Zim :beer:

You deserve a whole case

:beer::beer::beer::beer:
:beer::beer::beer::beer:
:beer::beer::beer::beer:

:eek:

Thanks aplefka :beer:
 

OREOSpeedwagon

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Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: Amol
wow

dude, i'm like . . . YOUR AGE

we got a LONG WAY to go . . .

Nah, you're a little older and a lot more mature than the OP.

lol, I hope I wasn't like this two years ago...

if I was, *punches self in face*
 

aplefka

Lifer
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Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
You're lost? If the girl likes the guy, so be it. Let it go, realize that there is lots of other sh!t in the world to do than worry about a girl. If it's meant to work out then it will, just don't stress over it. Live your life and stop worrying about hers so much.

Wow, why does that sound so familiar?

Oh wait, cuz it was posted pretty much exactly the same in the other guy's thread. :p
 

desk

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Nov 6, 2004
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Originally posted by: MrYAK
ppl who are suicidal should just go through with it and leave the gene pool, who wants more of these freaks who thinks life is to hard and trys to kill them self AT 15!! go the fvck outside and see the sun so to speak, get the fvck over this dumb cvnt of a b!tch you call the girl you like. find a chick who has hit puberty yer age, hit, tell here, gloat, wip it out, smack her with it, then say later b!tch......thats what i would do if i was still a Jr high student.....or just maybe grow up. either will work.


wow....what helpful advice. :disgust:
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: Baked
Why haven't you off yourself yet? When you set a goal, follow through with it. No wonder the girl dumped you.
:thumbsdown: dude, there was no need for that comment.

 

aplefka

Lifer
Feb 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: Amol
wow

dude, i'm like . . . YOUR AGE

we got a LONG WAY to go . . .

Nah, you're a little older and a lot more mature than the OP.

lol, I hope I wasn't like this two years ago...

if I was, *punches self in face*

I think everyone goes through it a little bit in middle school, but teenagers in general are morons. They don't realize that nobody gives a sh1t about them and that the best thing they can do is just go about their business quietly and have a good time.
 

OREOSpeedwagon

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Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
You're lost? If the girl likes the guy, so be it. Let it go, realize that there is lots of other sh!t in the world to do than worry about a girl. If it's meant to work out then it will, just don't stress over it. Live your life and stop worrying about hers so much.

Wow, why does that sound so familiar?

Oh wait, cuz it was posted pretty much exactly the same in the other guy's thread. :p

yeah, i had them both open and posted in the wrong one :eek:

:p
 

AgaBoogaBoo

Lifer
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Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
You're lost? If the girl likes the guy, so be it. Let it go, realize that there is lots of other sh!t in the world to do than worry about a girl. If it's meant to work out then it will, just don't stress over it. Live your life and stop worrying about hers so much.

Good advice :beer:
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: desk
Originally posted by: MrYAK
ppl who are suicidal should just go through with it and leave the gene pool, who wants more of these freaks who thinks life is to hard and trys to kill them self AT 15!! go the fvck outside and see the sun so to speak, get the fvck over this dumb cvnt of a b!tch you call the girl you like. find a chick who has hit puberty yer age, hit, tell here, gloat, wip it out, smack her with it, then say later b!tch......thats what i would do if i was still a Jr high student.....or just maybe grow up. either will work.


wow....what helpful advice. :disgust:
somebody needs anger management :/
 

Taejin

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Aug 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: jEct2
i've liked a girl for 2 and 1/2 years, she used to like me, but it didn't work out. We've had mixed emotions about each other ever since. Although I always told her I loved her, she said she never believed me because of bad experiences with other men. One of which was one of my most hated enemies. (Who went out with her just to spite me) Became suicidal, I got out of it about a year ago, and we've been trying to become friends again, but everytime we talked it seemed like all our past memories (bad memories) were being regurgitated and thus we argued everytime we spoke. Recently we've finally become good friends and then all of a sudden an 18 yr old fat lazy pervert starts feeling her and all of a sudden shes all over him. Although she normally hates perverted fat annoying guys. Not to mention the guy was one of my friends. I only remember my life since the age of 11 and im 15 so i only know of 4 years of my life, which is strange. Of those 4 years 2 and 1/2 were spent edicated to that one girl and now all of it is just crushed once again. Though this time I've finally decided to give up. It does also have to do with my previous post, http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1545117&enterthread=y btw shr was girl #2

So now I'm just utterly lost.
I know I'm young and crap but I could use some comfort right now. I'm desperate enough to post this on a forum anyway right?

no negative comments please


Dude, I know it seems like the whole world now, but you'll get over it, you'll look at yourself and laugh embarassedly, and you'll hope that no one else knows about your little situation.

Except we know. We all do. Now.
 

Kadarin

Lifer
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So you were 12 1/2 when you guys first met and began to "like" each other... And you wonder that things have changed?

Also:

I only remember my life since the age of 11 and im 15 so i only know of 4 years of my life, which is strange.

What's up with that?
 

aplefka

Lifer
Feb 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: OREOSpeedwagon
You're lost? If the girl likes the guy, so be it. Let it go, realize that there is lots of other sh!t in the world to do than worry about a girl. If it's meant to work out then it will, just don't stress over it. Live your life and stop worrying about hers so much.

Wow, why does that sound so familiar?

Oh wait, cuz it was posted pretty much exactly the same in the other guy's thread. :p

yeah, i had them both open and posted in the wrong one :eek:

:p

Hahaha nice. Happy 6000.
 

VirtualLarry

No Lifer
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Originally posted by: aplefka
You're 15?
You told someone you loved them at 13 years old? Give me a fvcking break, you have no clue what love is.
Isn't that a tad bit harsh though? I fell in love with this girl when I was, IIRC, 11, and she was of a similar age, and I still thought about her, all the way through HS.

Love is love, and IMHO, it can happen at any reasonable age. Granted, there might not have been sex included at that age, it was a younger love, not an "adult love", but the emotion is the same at the core. I agree with you though on one point, at that age, you have no idea of various responsibilities that may result from a "serious love" relationship, but I do feel that the desires of the heart themselves are more or less timeless.

To the OP: Heartbreak is a harsh thing, but like many parts of life, you'll get through it. Offing yourself at that age, is pretty lame, honestly. Although I was once in a similar boat. I alternative couldn't decide if I wanted to off myself, or blow up the entire rest of the world. Eventually, though, I managed to find my way out of that.

You just need to find something to do, that you enjoy, something that you're good at, and spend time doing that. Gotta repair yourself, and nobody can do that for you.

Oh, and ignore the a**h*** comments from some of the others in this thread, suggesting that you go through with it. They're actually joking, I sure, but they're just saying that to make fun of your sorrows.

Originally posted by: aplefka
You sound just like my little sister, who, by the way, I think has some serious issues.
Judging by your comments about your peers and your own age, I think you have some issues too. Wait until you're 22-25, and then you'll wonder where the heck your teenage years went to, and probably be sad that you didn't enjoy them more. At least, IMHO, speaking from someone that was likewise more interested in conversing with adults than those of my own age group around that time in my life.