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jEct2

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i've liked a girl for 2 and 1/2 years, she used to like me, but it didn't work out. We've had mixed emotions about each other ever since. Although I always told her I loved her, she said she never believed me because of bad experiences with other men. One of which was one of my most hated enemies. (Who went out with her just to spite me) Became suicidal, I got out of it about a year ago, and we've been trying to become friends again, but everytime we talked it seemed like all our past memories (bad memories) were being regurgitated and thus we argued everytime we spoke. Recently we've finally become good friends and then all of a sudden an 18 yr old fat lazy pervert starts feeling her and all of a sudden shes all over him. Although she normally hates perverted fat annoying guys. Not to mention the guy was one of my friends. I only remember my life since the age of 11 and im 15 so i only know of 4 years of my life, which is strange. Of those 4 years 2 and 1/2 were spent edicated to that one girl and now all of it is just crushed once again. Though this time I've finally decided to give up. It does also have to do with my previous post, http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1545117&enterthread=y btw shr was girl #2

So now I'm just utterly lost.
I know I'm young and crap but I could use some comfort right now. I'm desperate enough to post this on a forum anyway right?

no negative comments please
 
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aplefka

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You're 15?

You told someone you loved them at 13 years old? Give me a fvcking break, you have no clue what love is.

You sound just like my little sister, who, by the way, I think has some serious issues.
 
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tm37

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15?

Dude you will find someone hell at your age you can't even know what you want.
 
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Why haven't you off yourself yet? When you set a goal, follow through with it. No wonder the girl dumped you.
 
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jEct2

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Originally posted by: tm37
15?

Dude you will find someone hell at your age you can't even know what you want.
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i already know that but i want some comforting right now. its like saying ur arm is sergically amputated, you'll live but you still feel like crap don't you?
 
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tm37

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Originally posted by: jEct2
Originally posted by: LordNoob
"Became suicidal"

You, or her?
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me
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Trust me at 15 there is nothing that some little girl has done to you worth giving up your life for.

Trust me 20 years olds are better
 
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aplefka

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Originally posted by: jEct2
Originally posted by: LordNoob
"Became suicidal"

You, or her?
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me
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I officially will never respect any other post you make on this forum now.

And let me guess, your parents just didn't understand, because they don't know what it's like.

Damn I sure do hate teenagers and people my age.
 
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jEct2

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thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me
 
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artikk

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Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me
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I'm sure they have. It's just not worth to take your life for a girl that doesn't like you.
 
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jEct2

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Okay just to make this clear, I WAS suicidal.....right now i just feel lost, not suicidal
 
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yllus

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All girls are stupid at 15. Likewise, all boys including yourself are stupid at 15. I was stupid at 15. aplefka was stupid at 15. LordNoob was stupid at 15. Et cetera.

Sucks to hear what happened, but try to take comfort at her all-encompassing stupidness at her current age is wholly expected and what you're experiencing is really nothing any of us failed to avoid going through in your place. This is part of the road that every man treads on the way to the bitterness and cynicism that comes with age. Don't worry about it!
 
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aplefka

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Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me
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You're right, I did. I was also in 8th grade and it lasted all of a month. Then I realized how fvcking stupid it was and that if I had ever spent a minute more like that there's no way I'd be enjoying life as much as I am right now.

I'm only 16 but I was done acting the way you are by the time I was 14. Just grow the fvck up, do good in school, play sports, and have a lot of friends. If you don't try to get females they'll come to you.
 
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Fenixgoon

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Originally posted by: tm37
Originally posted by: jEct2
Originally posted by: LordNoob
"Became suicidal"

You, or her?
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me
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Trust me at 15 there is nothing that some little girl has done to you worth giving up your life for.

Trust me 20 years olds are better
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you're right.. 20 y/os are legal;)

on a serious note, you're 15, there will definitely be a better girl out there. i've been there (1.5 yrs for a girl) but it never went anywhere.. just gotta realize that it isn't worth the trouble and you're only gonna make it worse
 
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suse920

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Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me
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You're right, I did. I was also in 8th grade and it lasted all of a month. Then I realized how fvcking stupid it was and that if I had ever spent a minute more like that there's no way I'd be enjoying life as much as I am right now.

I'm only 16 but I was done acting the way you are by the time I was 14. Just grow the fvck up, do good in school, play sports, and have a lot of friends. If you don't try to get females they'll come to you.
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good point now what about this rosman's crew business. I want in.
 
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icejunkie

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Listen, I've been feeling something towards a girl for well over 5 years now. Thing is, around a year after we met I had to move from Israel to NYC for 4 years. I barely spoke to her for the first 3 years here, mainly time difference and me trying to get used to a new school/socia life... Anyways, I actually met her this summer when I was back home visiting, and the chemistry is still there... Sad thing is, now I've barely talked to her since... I ain't gonna go suicidal over it... I understand the situation I'm in and always remember things could be way worse, and I mean W-A-Y worse.

My friend's girlfriend just broke up with him after 18 months... Meh, he's depressed and all that, etc... but life goes on, no one is going to wait for you nor should you wait on anyone... Move on :) (Unlike me LOL)
 
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aplefka

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Originally posted by: suse920
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: jEct2
thanks for being so understanding people. Sorry for being a teenager, it's not like some of you haven't been through this kind of stuff at my age. Least you coud do is humor me
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You're right, I did. I was also in 8th grade and it lasted all of a month. Then I realized how fvcking stupid it was and that if I had ever spent a minute more like that there's no way I'd be enjoying life as much as I am right now.

I'm only 16 but I was done acting the way you are by the time I was 14. Just grow the fvck up, do good in school, play sports, and have a lot of friends. If you don't try to get females they'll come to you.
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good point now what about this rosman's crew business. I want in.
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Just a joke that came from Ventrilo. A lot of people also put stuff about being Ross's bitch or slave or whatever if they link to his GottaDeal site. :)

If you want more information, join us in Ventrilo sometime. See the stickied thread at the top for more information.
 
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