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Triforceofcourage

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I have been hanging out with my gf and her friend. Went to dinner with them twice in the last two weeks. I picked up the tab for them both those times. I'm going to dinner with them tomorrow and don't really feel like picking up her friends tab again. Should I just pay for her? Do I look like a cheap ass if I don't? How should I go about it without looking cheap?
 
I hateeeee this. I cover it, but I definitely don;t like to do it, haha. I'd look like an ass though if I said "umm yeah you're paying yourself"
 
You have 2 choices:

Hook her friend up with one of your buddies. Then your buddy can take turns picking up the tab.


2 chicks at one time.
 
If she is an invited guest, then she should not pay for dinner.

Whether you or your gf should pay is between you two.

Who invited her?
 
unfortunately it will only get worse for you now. you've now got two mouths to feed but only one will give you the vajayjay.
 
Are you getting FFM's from the two girls?

Or are you getting action at all from the gf's friend?

If the answer to the above questions is "no", then why the fuck are you paying for her?
 
Originally posted by: Ns1
Tell your gf that next time you pay for her friends dinner, a 3some better ensue and have a live webcam setup just for ATOT
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You are slipping in your old age.
 
Ask for a split check, from the beginning, when the waiter takes your order this time. You+gf / friend.

Did she at least offer to pay her own tab at those previous dinners? If not then, IMO, that's incredibly rude and presumptuous of her.
 
just throw a hint, be like, oh man there was this really cool transformers something or other that i saw at walmart today but i cant afford it! *cryface*
 
If you can get a threesome going, pick up the tab. If not, tell the girlfriend that her friend needs to start paying for her own food, or that she needs to take care of her friend's tab herself.
 
You need to nip that shit in the bud pronto. It's now expected. Just get separate checks for you as a couple and the third wheel gets her own. Otherwise why wouldn't the friend want to tag along, they're getting a free meal.
 
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I have been hanging out with my gf and her friend. Went to dinner with them twice in the last two weeks. I picked up the tab for them both those times. I'm going to dinner with them tomorrow and don't really feel like picking up her friends tab again. Should I just pay for her? Do I look like a cheap ass if I don't? How should I go about it without looking cheap?
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Whenever you invite friends out to dinner, do you pay for them? No. Make her pay. She must be a freeloader if she hasn't offered. It'll be awkward to ask now since you've already paid twice. Have you mentioned this to your gf?
 
"I don't mind paying for my gf's meal but she usually blows me afterwards. What do you have to offer?"
 
As you are ordering just say you and girlfriend are on a check together. Don't mention anything about the other person at the table and they will get the hint.

You will get a check with you + gf. GF's friend will get a check for her. If she can't cover it or didn't bring money then you tell your GF that next time your friend is no longer invited.
 
Originally posted by: effowe
When you get the bill, just look it over and tell her what she owes, don't ask.
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But set it up with a large quantity of girly drinks. Sea breezes are a great choice. Make sure her and your gf are well lubricated, then head back to your place for a movie. Stop and get some Mike's on the way home. You don't want either of them puking, just maintaining their buzzes. Once you get home, put in a funny movie. You don't want anything sexual or serious. Once both chicks are laughing, compliment your girlfriend on how pretty she is. Her friend should pick up on this and agree with you. Then tell her friend that she is very pretty as well. Girls love to compliment each other when they are buzzed. Now is the time to kiss your gf. If she gets into it, you are gold. Her friend will either join in or leave.

 
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