Girlfriend studying in Italy for 9 months...

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CrazyDe1

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I tell u even if u don't break up w/ her and u both wanna remain together...shes gonna come back changed and you're gonna think shes a different person than what you knew...she'll be tryin to figure out what she wants...and you probably won't be apart of it...I've known tons of people to go off to diff countries for over a month and the relationships never work...either becuase of cheating or the girl comes back changed and wanting more...not the same old normal status quo
 

gopunk

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<< mansfield university, PA >>



sure... why not? use the time to concentrate on your studies and getting a good job, preferably one that you can use on your resume when you graduate. like an internship or something.
 

pulse8

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<< breaking up is not an option.... i thought i already explained that as best i could... >>

You did. I was just explaining how naive your thinking is. It's your decision though, so it really doesn't matter.
 

StageLeft

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9 months? Unless she's ugly she's getting some italian sausage. Just come to terms with it now :(

EDIT: Geeze I didn't see that somebody below had said the same thing!

BTW long distance relationships CAN work. They normally don't but they definitely can. In fact my brother and I have both had successful long distance ones in the past and mine is still goin :)
 

Torghn

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<She'll be banging Guido within a month.. >

Thats not very nice, probly true, but not very nice.

Well I guess the question is how sure are you that "breaking up" is not one of her options?
 

Pastore

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We have talked about this and beat it to a pulp... She is positive she wants to stay with me and is convinced everything will be ok...

I on the other hand don't think everything is going to be ok... but what am i going to do?


damnit i wish she was ugly :(
 

Koing

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good luck mate and I hope you work it out.

if you guys were meant for each other then she'll be back and be with you again. Can you trust her not to take on any advances by Italian guys? BTW they are NORTORIOUS for swarving girls over........

Hope it works out foryou mate........
 

zbalat

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Italy has the best looking men in the world. I'm happily married but I might turn gay if I lived there for 9 months.
 

dbzwukan

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<< We have talked about this and beat it to a pulp... She is positive she wants to stay with me and is convinced everything will be ok...
I on the other hand don't think everything is going to be ok... but what am i going to do?
damnit i wish she was ugly :(
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if she was ugly, you probably wouldn't be with her in the first place. (was going to say 'banging her" but that wouldn't be nice)

got any pics? :D
 

Pastore

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<< got any pics? >>



it took 37 posts, that must be some kind of record...

and no, not for the viewing pleasure of you horny midgets
 

db

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Beast, please tell me she's not blond....
Italians go nuts for blond women.
And whether she's blond or not, guys will be following her and touching her. She needs to prepare for that. So do you.
You poor bastard.
 

Pastore

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nah shes brunette... so basically your saying italian guys are just like us accept they arent fat disgusting pigs like us huh? cool
 

GermyBoy

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Dump her man. I dumped my gf when she went to spain, and my lady friend dumped her bf when he went to visit the Aussies.

You'll enjoy it better. There is a hottie blond right around the corner waiting for you.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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I know exactly what you're going through, Beast1284. Unfortunately I don't know what to tell you. I, too, am a flogging mess.

nik (is hanging in there with you)
 

isekii

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My girlfriend will be going to Japan for studying abroad... but i'm not worried ;)

She knows better....
 

db

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Man, keep frequent contact.
Those guys are impressed with themselves. They're persistant. Good BSers. Some women fall for that.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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<< Unless she's butt-ugly she's going to have a bunch of Italian guys hitting on her constantly. >>

That's not something you rub in the face of someone who's going through this, asshole. :|

nik
 

zbalat

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<< My girlfriend will be going to Japan for studying abroad... >>



Unless you are hung like an eyelash and are less than 5' tall you will have no competetion.

Japan is the anti-Italy as far as guys go
 

NikPreviousAcct

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<< and no, not for the viewing pleasure of you horny midgets >>

Don't worry about it. No matter how much you praise your significant other, posting pics gets them skewered.

nik