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Girlfriend of 4 yrs is now moving out

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LuckyTaxi

Diamond Member
She still wants to be together but I dont know. I've ranted a few times about her on this forum, and I think this is my opportunity to let go. There's just too many flaws with her. I know no one is perfect but she's just too much for me. I won't go into all details, if you wanna know, just do a search.

Well, she states her reasoning is that we've lived together for too long. She wants to see how it feels to live alone. Thats fine and all, but this is the same girl that wanted to get married and buy a house next year. I'm going to take this opportunity and better myself. I'll continue to live alone in this rented house with my little dog. I have a lot of things to look forward to so I won't try to think much about this. She's messing me up big time in terms of finances but it'll make me work on my savings. Knowing that her income wont be available for me to tempt me to spend more, I'll force myself to save what money I have left once my bills are paid for.

Cheers :brokenheart: :beer:
 
If you start to bum out about it, take solice in the knowledge that as soon as she's gone, you can start banging Hotties like there's no tomorrow and the sun's already sinkin' low today. 😀:beer:
 
Originally posted by: lilcam

Well, she states her reasoning is that we've lived together for too long. She wants to see how it feels to live alone.
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She wants to see how it feels to bang other guys. This is your chance to just cut her loose and make a quick (if not clean) break.
 
AStar617 - I already have things planned. I kinda took her for granted knowing she was around so she can clean and do chores around the house. Don't worry I do my part. But lately it's like she's too fvcking lazy to do anything. So, with her out of the picture, this house will be much cleaner and my dog will be able to spend more time with me. I'll just have to force myself to do things that I didnt want to do before.

OrByte - Nah, I dont drink! LOL ... I'll celebrate when she's gone (1/2/06)

What a way to start the New Year's huh? I just told my mom and she demands to know why! LOL ... dang I called to ask for one of my tvs back but of course mom had to know why.
 
Originally posted by: sm8000
Originally posted by: lilcam

Well, she states her reasoning is that we've lived together for too long. She wants to see how it feels to live alone.
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She wants to see how it feels to bang other guys. This is your chance to just cut her loose and make a quick (if not clean) break.
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Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
 
When she says she still wants to be together it means. S will go out and bang some guys she has had her eye on. You will wait while she does this. If the banging or step up in there income level is not better then you shewill move back in.
 
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.

 
If you're already seeing someone behind her back, then you just need to cut her loose. There's no reason to keep dating her. That'd be my suggestion.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.
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Understandable. I didnt want to cheat but I guess when you're unhappy you do things to make you feel better. Could I have just left first and then saw someone else, well yes but it would be too hard for me to do. In a way, I want her to break it off, maybe this is it.

This reminds me of 3 yrs ago when she cheated on me. She said I didnt have time for her cuz I was working and going to school at the same time. Well, now it's just work but I'm dealing with a lot of pressure from work and my own companies.

 
Originally posted by: Rage187
If you can be friends with benefits, then...
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Thats how it started with the other girl. Look cheating is wrong and I know it.
It started as friends with this other girl but then as I spent time with her, time that I couldnt spend with my own gf, well it went from there.
 
Originally posted by: Baked
You never proposed to her during those 4 years? Gee, I wonder why she's leaving you. :roll:
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Actually I did ... we never set a date and I'm guessing she probably doesnt think I'm serious with her. I dont want to get married now, it's way too early.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.
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I think he's shensing to save face.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.
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me too, now all that's left to say is thumbs up to a smart gal. Sounds like he was just using her for money anyway.
 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.
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me too, now all that's left to say is thumbs up to a smart gal. Sounds like he was just using her for money anyway.
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If only you knew what I go through. Everyone who knows us thinks I'm crazy to be with her. Cheating is wrong, how many times I gotta say that. Money is a minor issue but I do love the girl. I changed her life and she knows that. If we did break up, all I want from her is a thank you for changing her life. Before me she was a huge spender. Together, I've gotten her to build her credit, better herself in certain ways and she's a better person (somewhat).
 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: lilcam

Yea, she's not the type to come out and tell me what she really wants/thinks. This might be her way to cheat one me. Then again, I wouldnt care to be honest with you cuz I'm seeing someone else behind her back anyways. The feeling isn't there anymore. No sex, no cuddling, no nothing! it's like we're living as regular roommates.

No, she still wants to get married but mannnnnnnnn, I know how she really is now so I doubt it.
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you had my sympathies, until right about then.
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me too, now all that's left to say is thumbs up to a smart gal. Sounds like he was just using her for money anyway.
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But her cheating on me was ok?
 
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