Girlfriend of 4 years just broke up with me :(

[Warthog912]

This feeling is SUCK. Ever since 9th grade- we've been together. Then goes for ONE day down to a college to tour and decides she doesn't feel the same way for me- Man, I put my heart and soul into that girl, does anyone have anything to take out my frustrations?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

-Peace

 

[thereds]

chics is suck.

roger roger.

 

[Danman]

Man, that sucks. Maybe you guys can get back to get back together someday in the future?

 

[blueadobe2000]

.................

 

[Gonad the Barbarian]

If you are about to go off to college, you are better off without the baggage.

 

[eakers]

when me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up and i came here i got the best advice on how to mend a broken heart and i will share it with you:

learn linux.

*kat. <-- didnt learn it but bought a linux book and tried to read it...

 

[Warthog912]

<< Man, that sucks. Maybe you guys can get back to get back together someday in the future? >>


-that is what she said "how many times have we got'on back together........3" I said shut up and stop making me feel like I have a chance to rectify the situation-
Guess I missed out on the biggest chance of my life- sux to be me-

p.s. Learn from my mistakes- when it comes to the comp or the girl, take the girl- just to make her happy so she doon't leave ya

-Peace

 

[blueadobe2000]

.................

 

[b0mbrman]

Whatever, she would have done it when she left for school anyway...better now than later

 

[AreaCode707]

Miserable, isn't it? Seperate feelings and knowledge for a little bit - go ahead and feel terrible because it's inevitable, but know that you wouldn't be as happy together with her, where you're the only one all-out in love, as you will be when you find the girl that loves you back in that same head-over-heels way. God bless.

 

[Warthog912]

<< Whatever, she would have done it when she left for school anyway...better now than later >>



Guess so- But i'm the chap who actually ENJOYS having a girl to come home to everynight- I'm just stuck on it sorry fellas (chicks) for the rant-----

<---------------------Sure am glad that there are ATOT'ers on this late

-Peace

 

[zippy]

When stuff like this happens to me (well, actually, just severe rejection really) I always play basketball. When I was practically together with this girl for like 6 months (we were tight) and then finally asked her out officially and she shot me down, I played basketball for like 2-3 hours every day for about a week. I felt a lot better.

Kinda funny...I have a craptacular track record with girls...so now whenever I play really well, a few of my friends ask if I've been rejected lately. Really sucks, because usually I have. I don't know why, but when I get rejected, I play really well (even the same day, not after playing like a madman for a week)...and they noticed this! :Q

Anyway, you're lucky you two were together for so long! I don't really have much other advice besides trying to take your mind off of her and trying to appreciate and feel happy for the time you did have together.

 

[Aceman]

"My advice to you is to drink heavily."---Animal House

 

[Warthog912]

<< Miserable, isn't it? Seperate feelings and knowledge for a little bit - go ahead and feel terrible because it's inevitable, but know that you wouldn't be as happy together with her, where you're the only one all-out in love, as you will be when you find the girl that loves you back in that same head-over-heels way. >>

------But THIS was her for 4 years---- I think she got the freedom Idea from one of my fellow male cheerleaders in Valdosta---- this is when she started feeling this way

-Peace

the replies are making me feel better---

<---------------- Sux it up, and prepares to go chic huntin @school tomorrow just to piss her off!!!

 

[Red Dawn]

<< This feeling is SUCK. Ever since 9th grade- we've been together. Then goes for ONE day down to a college to tour and decides she doesn't feel the same way for me- Man, I put my heart and soul into that girl, does anyone have anything to take out my frustrations?!?!?!?!?!?!?! >>

Yeah try to get on with your life. Maybe she realized she was a lesbian and wanted to spare you the hurt. Of maybe she was having an affair with Goerge Clooney and didn't want to make you feel inadequate!! Maybe she was having an affair with Goerge Clooney and Ellen Degenerous and didn't have room in her bed for you?

Actually maybe since you guys have been an item since the 9th grade she felt that she wanted to sew her oats elsewhere. That's usually what happens... at least that's what they said in the Movie Valley Girl!!

Spicoli

<< Hear that?? That's my head!! >>

 

[Warthog912]

<< "My advice to you is to drink heavily."---Animal House >>



I don't drink-----yet but, afterall our Senior prom is this coming Saturday, Should I still go w/her, or find a new date? what'cha think?
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oh yeah, did I mention I have no life but her, my job(part time J.C. Penney associate), and my computers

Guess it's time to start goin out w/my friends on Friday and Saturday and getting f***ed up---

-Peace

 

[UDT89]

go to a golf driving range and hit the Sh** out of some balls. Its very good...................................................

 

[Lucky]

well, i just broke up with my GF of 4 years, so I guess it evens out.

you dont want someone if they dont want you.

 

[Warthog912]

Ne one wanna see some pics of us? We had our senior pictures together--- If someone can' host, I'll be glad to up-

I feel like buying a nice new piece of hardware.

 

[spanky]

<< Man, that sucks. Maybe you guys can get back to get back together someday in the future? >>




just think about the make up s3x!!!

 

[Warthog912]

I'm off 2 bed-- If I can't sleep, I'll come back

Whatcha think bout prom???

-Peace

 

[SmirnoffIsTasty]

Pics?

Don't bitch at me either, when I dumped my g/f, I posted her pic.

 

[yllus]

Regarding picture hosting, see my signature.

The part about it being right before your prom bites, but I guess she can't control the timing of what she feels. Go with her for old times' sake? I'd have really mixed emotions about that one. Good luck to you both.

 

[SuperTool]

Yeah, to help us better understand the magnitude of the loss, we need pics

 

[dude8604]

<< Go with her for old times' sake? I'd have really mixed emotions about that one. Good luck to you both. >>



I don't think that would be a good idea. She'd be doing it as a friend, but Warthog912 would be doing it to try to get back together with her (understandably).

Warthog912, good luck! I've never really had a girlfriend, so I don't know exactly what it's like to break up, but I know that it is hard. I'd recommend that you talk to people about it, not just in an Anandtech thread, but actually talk to people. If you can't find anyone, IM me and we'll talk. PM me if you want my screenname (if you have AIM) or ICQ number (if you have ICQ).