Girlfriend cheated on me

[jjones]

that sux. that's why i always cheated on my gf's first; doesn't feel so bad then.

 

[Beau]

<< that sux. that's why i always cheated on my gf's first; doesn't feel so bad then. >>

Scumbag

 

[Azraele]

I'm really sorry that happened to you. It's going to hurt for a long time, but it will get better. Drinking, however, to drown your woes will only create more woes, so don't rely on that to feel better. If/when you do talk to her, try and have a straightforward discussion. A heart to heart. Perhaps she will shed some light on what happened.

 

[SCSIfreek]

sorry to hear that man. for the first couple days its ok to get yourself drunk and sleep all da time but after that you better pick yourself up and do the things you mentioned about. one important thing to remember!!!!! never look back at her and give her a second chance man!!!!! move on with your life, there are lots of other girls out there. be proud of what you are and go on with life. I have been there and done that!!! It feels great knowing you're not the one who have cheated.


--SCSI

 

[busmaster11]

You mentioned dieting your cats twice... must be pretty bad.

I feel for you man... IM me anytime if you need some support.

 

[Nutdotnet]

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<< My advice- go find a girl and cheat on your gf with her.....let her know how it feels. >>



Sorry but that's dumb advice. She's probably cheating on him to distance herself from the relationship and has probably decided that she doesn't love him, or something. Cheating on her back will just make him almost as bad as her. I'd suggest taking the high road and not sinking to that level. >>



Yeah it isn't the best advice in the world, but that is what I would do if it was me.

 

[AreaCode707]

We need to get another AT UCD meet together for you dude. Online support's one thing, real life support's another.

 

[statetech]

I'm sorry to hear the news. My gf and and I are on the rocks a little ourselves. I know it hurts a lot since most, if not all, of us have been there. I hope it doesn't get you too down. I hope you don't, but if you get to the point of feeling suicidal, feel free to give me a call since I live in Sacramento.

good luck my friend.

 

[Croton]

good luck on that man......

your cats must be really fat if u have to diet them twice............................................................

 

[whalen]

LOL Croton

 

[jbod]

Sorry to hear about this mate. I, like many here have been through something similar. I don't know what else to say besides take care.

 

[killmeplease]

Man...........I really feel for you.

The woman doesn't deserve you. Kick her to the curb.

It doesn't make it any easier, but know that some of us have been there and it gets better. Use the experience.

Good luck.............................Don't answer ANY calls from her unless you want to relive the experience. Move on.

 

[Czar]

I wish no one had to go through this


My advice to you is get some agression out of your system if you can, register at a gym and do some practice boxing or somethinga like.

Best of luck to you

 

[goodoptics]

Sorry to hear about this but you did the right thing. Hope things will get better for you. Good luck.




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[Xenon14]

virtuamike,

Bro's b4 hoes. We feel the pain, we're here for you. I had/am having a really hard time getting over a girl (a girl who I haven't even dated! I just hooked up with her once, but i've known her for years. I'm a senior in high school, and I see her every day at school, she's in many of the clubs I'm involved with, and we have mutual friends.) I can't even begin to imagine how you feel, but I know what it's like to be miserable, and in the end know this; you were true to yourself and to her. You'll feel a cycle of emotions towards her...hate, love, regret, contempt, but you are better than she is, regardless of how you feel. And any girl you meet is lucky to be with someone so caring as you.

 

[virtuamike]

many many thanks for all your support guys. yes, my cats are very fat, they really need to go on a diet. i've been passed out for the last 5 hours, occasionally interrupted with me throwing up. yes, jose kicked the crap out of me this time, now there's a mess on my rug , doesnt look like i got any of me amazingly. kept wakng up ina ll sorts of differnt places, usually on the floor though. i'm a little bettter now but not by much, i'll be rational again when the hangover goes away, then i'll start on those resolutions (like getting my cats skinny).

 

[Croton]

hey since i am too far from u to take u out to see nekkid girls...........

if u want a link to the mecca of nekkid girls, PM me.

That's my way of taking u to a strip club.

 

[Adul]

i been there before two,. being cheated on sucks. move on with your life and forget anbout women for a year at least. That way you can focus on taking care of yourself.

 

[Croton]

heh i've had someone already PM me about the nekkid girls. hahaahaha

 

[Linux23]

<< many many thanks for all your support guys. yes, my cats are very fat, they really need to go on a diet. i've been passed out for the last 5 hours, occasionally interrupted with me throwing up. yes, jose kicked the crap out of me this time, now there's a mess on my rug , doesnt look like i got any of me amazingly. kept wakng up ina ll sorts of differnt places, usually on the floor though. i'm a little bettter now but not by much, i'll be rational again when the hangover goes away, then i'll start on those resolutions (like getting my cats skinny). >>




see now you got a broken heart and a messy rug.

i'd take the broken heart over the messy rug anyday, it's a real b!tch to clean up vomit out of carpeting!

 

[Kadarin]

Virtuamike, I really feel for you, as I have been there myself. It hurts, hurts a lot, and unfortunately, it will keep on hurting. There area only two things I know of that will make it feel better: Lots of time (depending on the depth of feeling you had for this girl, this could take years), or seeing someone else.

Best of luck to you. Be safe.

-j

 

[woodly6]

My advice is to get revenge and burn those bridges down!

 

[Angrymarshmello]

That sucks dood...sorry to hear about that. Take the rest of her belongings that she owns, put them in a box, and light them on fire. Then put it out on the curb with a sign that says "B1tch cheated on me"

 

[uclaxman]

sucks

f vck her one more time and leave her

 

[kranky]

Sorry to hear what happened. I agree there is no excuse for what she did when she should have talked to you about her apparent unhappiness. That would be a painful thing to go through.

I agree with what maetryx said way back at the start of the thread. Better to know now, as bad as that is, than to find out after you were married.

I think it's great that you are resolving to improve things in your life (pay off debts, work on school and job, etc.) and that's how you'll come out of this a better person. You'll hurt for a while, but don't dwell on it. Best of luck to you!