Girl trouble...

[brandonb]

Nothing else to see here, the questions have been answered.

 

[jlbenedict]

Originally posted by: brandonb
My other friends (RL) told me to just ignore her for now. She will eventually come to her senses and want me back and call me. If I try to pursue her, its just playing into her game...

What is RL friends??

 

[Canai]

No cliffs + loong post = no read sorry

RL isn't that real life?

 

[amdhunter]

Maybe = She is trying to see if she can get together back with George. :brokenheart:

 

[jlbenedict]

Originally posted by: Canai
No cliffs + loong post = no read sorry

RL isn't that real life?

So I guess ATOT is make believe?
Looks like we are chopped liver here

 

[moshquerade]

Sounds like she isn't really into you anymore. How long do you want to be a doormat?

 

[Encryptic]

Hit the road. The stress of a funeral/losing her mother aside, she's fscking with your head. You don't need to get sucked into a bunch of drama with this chick. This "George" thing is an immediate red flag, to say nothing of the other crap she's spieling.

 

[Juice Box]

Originally posted by: brandonb
So yeah, I'm having a bit of girl trouble. I need advice.

To make a long story short...

Who do you think you're kidding?

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
Sounds like she isn't really into you anymore. How long do you want to be a doormat?

Agreed.

 

[Wapp]

You've only been with her a month?

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: brandonb
So yeah, I'm having a bit of girl trouble. I need advice.

To make a long story short

Very sorry man, but how does that massive thing constitute a short story. I try not to do this, but........

CLIFFS, STAT!

Edit: I did finally read it, and you should be DONE with that. OUT! You don't need that. You seem like a nice guy, so run. Fast.

 

[Riverhound777]

Is this a story from a soap opera? Seems like one. Good luck with that man, I would be out of there in a heartbeat. Sounds to me like you are being a complete pussy, letting her drag you along as the other guy. She is probably dating her Ex and having you as a backup. Yeah she is going through a hard time, but turning to her ex instead of you should instantly tell you to get the hell out.

 

[captains]

sounds like your both 10

 

[eLiTeGoodGuy]

I think she's trying to get back with him. She didn't want to break up with you, so the easiest way would be to cause a fight where you left. That's why she's not taking any responsibility for the fight, it's all your fault.

 

[buck]

Cliffs for that novel.

 

[brandonb]

Lol. If you can't read 1 page, then don't bother to respond.

I do appreciate the comments so far tho... I figured most of it but you know how things are in a relationship. You get a bit blinded.

EliteGoodGuy, thats exactly what I was thinking...

 

[Cookie]

I think she is nuts.
If my mother died, I would request that my boyfriend be there with me the entire time.
I would not invite my ex to the wake
I would not point fingers and blame and start fights with my bf (unless maybe he was hitting on chicks at the funeral)


...but like you said.... maybe she is just different.

Regardless, playing mind games with ex's, etc, especially during emotionally unstable times such as a parents funeral. Not cool. I wouldn't even bother trying to maintain a relationship with someone like that.

 

[Rage187]

she is crazy, run don't walk away from this one.

 

[Chryso]

I think she wanted to have a fight to blow off some steam and then have make up sex.

 

[Cookie]

Originally posted by: Chryso
I think she wanted to have a fight to blow off some steam and then have make up sex.

....with George

 

[pontifex]

how is any of this your fault? i don't see where anything was your fault.

get rid of her. sounds like she's playing games now with the MSN messages.

 

[stars]

drop her like 75 cents in a condom machine.

 

[Chryso]

Originally posted by: Cookie

Originally posted by: Chryso
I think she wanted to have a fight to blow off some steam and then have make up sex.

....with George

Not necessarily. Since they have only been together a month her family probably knows George and even though she is no longer with him it would be polite of him to go to the wake to show respect.

 

[spidey07]

Wow. That's the largest amout of baggage I think I've ever seen one woman have.

Get the heck away from that one.

As to your questions. You cannot ask why or what her motives are. She's a chic, they have no motives...only feelings. Best bet is to just tell her you're done with her and not to contact you under any circumstances.

Then if she comes crawling back just use her for sex. It's amazing how quickly they knock the pyscho crap off when you let them know you have the power and won't put up with her crap.

 

[JohnAn2112]

WTF she asks her ex to come to the wake and she tells you not to come? Drop that b!tch. You don't need that crap.