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Lifer
Just thought it would be interesting to see what the AT gals would contribute as tips for the guys.
First tip, spurred by a question a few days ago about gfs crying: if your gf's upset, don't be the problem solver. If you keep looking for a problem you can fix, she's gonna try to find one for you - and it's likely to be you! Because, after all, you're asking and the easiest answer she'll find to give, even if there's really not a reason for her to be upset, will be something about you. Let girls be upset once in a while without expecting a rational reason, just be there (or don't, depending on her preferences).
Now, to make this fair, I should probably open it to you guys too, and give your tips for girls.
First tip, spurred by a question a few days ago about gfs crying: if your gf's upset, don't be the problem solver. If you keep looking for a problem you can fix, she's gonna try to find one for you - and it's likely to be you! Because, after all, you're asking and the easiest answer she'll find to give, even if there's really not a reason for her to be upset, will be something about you. Let girls be upset once in a while without expecting a rational reason, just be there (or don't, depending on her preferences).
Now, to make this fair, I should probably open it to you guys too, and give your tips for girls.