Girl Situation!!!

Chrono

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Hey people! another story here about a girl that I sort of like.. hehe
another addition to the many advice threads in this forum!!!

Well, there's this girl at work... i've seen here for about 5 months or so but never really said anything to her except for hi to be curtious... well about 2 weeks ago she let her hair down instead of keeping it up... as well as highlighting it... my gosh this girl is so cute like that!!! she's incredible.. well, i finally had enough courage to open the door in her department [my office is right next to hers] and start a conversation... :) she's awesome... I've been talking to her for about 2 days [I only work two days].. and all I can say is that I like her a lot... when you look in her eyes she looks back with a face so nice and sweet it makes you want to go :Q and :)

Well, when my shift ended I decided to ask her for her cell phone number and she gave it to me!!!
:)
What's my game plan now? I don't know... I hope more will come out of this *crosses fingers*

any suggestions or advice :)?
 

Spikesoldier

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<< Hey people! another story here about a girl that I sort of like.. hehe
another addition to the many advice threads in this forum!!!

Well, there's this girl at work... i've seen here for about 5 months or so but never really said anything to her except for hi to be curtious... well about 2 weeks ago she let her hair down instead of keeping it up... as well as highlighting it... my gosh this girl is so cute like that!!! she's incredible.. well, i finally had enough courage to open the door in her department [my office is right next to hers] and start a conversation... :) she's awesome... I've been talking to her for about 2 days [I only work two days].. and all I can say is that I like her a lot... when you look in her eyes she looks back with a face so nice and sweet it makes you want to go :Q and :)

Well, when my shift ended I decided to ask her for her cell phone number and she gave it to me!!!
:)
What's my game plan now? I don't know... I hope more will come out of this *crosses fingers*

any suggestions or advice :)?
>>



um call her and talk more then ask her out next time you see her
 

kami

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<< when you look in her eyes she looks back with a face so nice and sweet it makes you want to go :Q and :) >>


LOL that's classic. but the :) comes after the :Q:Q:Q:Q:Q right?
 

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<< Well, when my shift ended I decided to ask her for her cell phone number and she gave it to me!!! >>



Get off ATOT and call her :p



<< Tell her that everytime you see her you get hard. >>



LMAO Skoorb :D
 

StageLeft

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<<

<< Well, when my shift ended I decided to ask her for her cell phone number and she gave it to me!!! >>



Get off ATOT and call her :D
>>

yeah this is true. There is NOTHING as bad as a missed opportunity. Don't sit here on AT for 5 days wondering what to do, cause then it's too late.
 

Chrono

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bahahaha
wt skorb lol
I'll call her sometime soon.. I don't want to be in too much of a hurry
I'd be like I was desperate or something...
 

AreaCode707

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If she gave you her number, she's both willing to have you call and wants you to. Don't call the same day, but a day or two later wouldn't be a problem. Just ask her to do something casual with you, coffee's always the starting point, or lunch. She knows you're planning to ask her, since you asked for her number, and so she'll likely say yes.
 

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<< If she gave you her number, she's both willing to have you call and wants you to. Don't call the same day, but a day or two later wouldn't be a problem. Just ask her to do something casual with you, coffee's always the starting point, or lunch. She knows you're planning to ask her, since you asked for her number, and so she'll likely say yes. >>

This is true. Stop watching swingers and waiting for a week. Call now!
 

Chrono

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yah...
awesome
:)
more advice please...
the funny thing is that when I asked her "have you seen this movie yet?"
then she smiled and I asked "well..." then she smiled even more..
then I told her I had it on divx (shhh)
then she's like "oh... sweet"
but still smiled
i told her i'd bring it for her

what are some signals that a girl likes you? or is interested?
she already talks to me more than any other person in the department/work area...
she stopped what she was doing and started talking to me...
it's so delightful seeing her smile :Q:Q:Q:Q:Q
:)
 

fastz28

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What? No "Pics" yet? ;) I'm disappointed at you ATOT people.

Ok, call her tomorrow and ask for lunch or coffee for Wed or Thu. Whatever you do, don't ask for a weekend date, especially weekend night date.

edit: btw, need to know the age of people involved for reference.
 

Ns1

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<< then I told her I had it on divx (shhh) >>



soundsl ike something a geek would say =P
 

Deeko

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Here's what you do, you get OFF your computer. Then go talk to her. Call her or something. It works wonders...
 

AreaCode707

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<<

<< then I told her I had it on divx (shhh) >>



soundsl ike something a geek would say =P
>>



Yeah, actually that's true. Inviting her over to watch it on divx might freak her out a little - it does involve going to your house. Start somewhere neutral.
 

Rent

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<< lol
no..not my house... at work!!!
i'm 21... she's 23 :Q
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Well, don't overreact... You have to play your cool until you feel confident enough to progress a little farther with her.

So bring her the divx and if you have more movies, you can offer those. Tell her you'd give them to her over lunch or something.

Better yet, you made it as far as getting her number without ATOT, so figure something out yourself. :p
 

Presence

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Dont wait to long.

Go bowling
Go kart racing
Go to a place where theres lots of people invloved so it doesnt look like you are trying to get her alone

Have fun, if she gave you her number then obviously she has some interest in you. Stop hanging around ATOT too many perv fap fap fap boys here whos advise you are seeking from wouldnt know what to do anyways.
 

Pabster

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Chrono wrote:

"lol
no..not my house... at work!!!
i'm 21... she's 23"


OMG, ran in to the same exact situation. She finally approached me after several months and it's been smooth sailing (I certainly enjoy riding the waves, anyway :D).

My advice ... get at it. If you are lucky, she wants you every bit as bad as you want her. :D

Coincidentally, I'm also 21 and she's 23. ;)
 

VTHodge

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Good advice from Spike. . . . call to talk, then ask her out in person. It will seem much more genuine. And she will love to hear, "Just calling because I was thinking about you."

We're all so proud of you Chrono

PS: get pics soon!
 

Chrono

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OMFG!!!!
you serious? *crosses fingers*
everybody hope for me
:)

I just wanted to see what my fellow friends from ATOT would say :)

I think at first she didn't know what kinda person I was... but now that I talked to her and etc... she knows I'm a kidding/joking kinda guy but can be serious when I have to be
 

Chrono

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well, i called twice but she never picked up!!
:eek:
heh
oh well
i'll call in a lil bit.. maybe she'll pick up
I'm not rushing
i just called twice at 5pm (in case she couldn't get to the phone in the first time because her VM answered in 4 rings)
same thing for the second time (4 rings)
heh