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[Alienwho]

Lets Begin,

First of all, my ex-girlfriend is going out with a really good friend of mine and this is totally bugging the hell out of me, I mean I still like her and he never stops talking about her.

Next, in one of my classes I sit next to a really hot/nice girl. She's always saying I have sexy eyes ( I have no idea how to interprate this message, tell me girls, this is the 3rd time girls have told me that) and always kind of touching and hitting my arm. Well my friend (who's now going out with my ex) sits on the other side of me, and he always tries to butt into our conversations and now him and the girl I like are always talking about my ex and the last date they went on and shte right infront of me.

This is totally driving me nuts. And i'm not sure if the girl that sits next to me likes me or what.

Post any comments or problems of your own.

 

[Looney]

I think your 'friend' deserves a beating.

 

Next time your friend says a word about your ex, tell him straight up you don't want to hear it at all.

Next time he trys to butt in your convo, tell him to butt the fsck out, your on the prowl.

The only way to do things is straight up, keeping things in and complaining about them on forums does nothing.

 

[SphincterLord]

I'll second that beating suggestion... a swift kick to the nuts usually works...

SL

 

[Alienwho]

Oh I consider giving my friend an ass beating on a daily basis, he's just an idiot and doesn't get it. Oh and I don't keep things in, I let him know and he lays off for like 5 minutes and then is back on it, he's just an idiot.

Oh and when he and the girl I like are talking I don't want to tell him to back the fvck off right infront of her cause I don't want her to think i'm a jerk.

 

[EagleKeeper]

Does not the prefix ex indicate that something is no longer yours, in the past or does not exist.

If that is the case, why is it bothering you that somebody sees the ex.

Butting into your conversations is different. Handle it properly or you will lose a friend.

 

[pamchenko]

I think you're just frustrated cuz you are the one that's single right now...just stop being so bitter and grow some balls and ask that girl you like out...if you're friend was smart, he'd lay off a little...he sounds kind of self-involved
as for whether or not the girl likes you...you don't know until you ask her out! depending on what kind of girl she is...either ask her out for drinks/party or dinner

 

[LordThing]

I will tell you this, as for the girl that is hitting you and touching you, she likes you and is waiting for you to make a decisive move. If she doesn't take the bait the first time, use the 3 strikes your out method. Wait a week or so and ask her out to another party, ect. I have found out way too many times I would like to admit that girls I thought only liked me was ready to jump my bones if I only persisted and asked them out more than once. They never want to seem eager.

Which in of itself drives me insane too. If you like me.....TELL ME!!!!


Sigh

 

[Alienwho]

Good Idea Lordthing i think i'll do that.



<< Does not the prefix ex indicate that something is no longer yours, in the past or does not exist. If that is the case, why is it bothering you that somebody sees the ex. >>


Well it wouldn't bother me so much if he wasn't always rubbing it into my face, and talking to the girl I like. I mean he's using the excuse about talking about my ex, to talk to the girl I like. I'll put it this way, those two would never have anything to talk about if they weren't talking about my ex.

It's bad enough he broke the unspoken rule to date your friends ex's (well not that bad, i've done it before), but then to rub it in there face is crossing the line.