Girl Problem

[Chrono]

Time to get a clue. She does not want to get to know you. Got it? You creep her out. Maybe there is a reason why she ignores you even though you two exchange "heys" once in a while. Advice is to suck it up, ignore her, and eventually you'll stop feeling the way you feel. Also, it is BS saying no one wants to get with whomever before college. There are always circumstances... like if a girl really liked you, you think she'd give up the chance to be with you? Even though you two only have uh.. 2 semesters left? That's still a bit of time.

 

[silverpig]

Do her mom.

But yeah, you had all year to talk to her and you didn't. She had all year to talk to you and she didn't. You tried once, she turned you down, take a hint, move on. Or better yet, ask her if she wants to grease your slide and blow your spit valve to just get it all over with.

 

[SaigonK]

Originally posted by: digitalsnare
If you guys recall earlier in this school year, I got the guts to tell a girl in my grade how ive felt about her for a long time, only to be told that she doesnt think she feels the same way, and we could be friends, if i wanted. We dont have any classes together except band where we dont get to talk at all anyways, but when I see her in the halls, it is often quite awkward, as she usually kinda ignores me, even though we still do exchange heys. Its been well over 4 months since then and I had completely gotten over it until now. All of a sudden ive had wierd dreams where we are having conversations and everything is cool. Ive had these about 4 nights in a row now. I am beginning to get feelings for her again, but I know with us being seniors, nothing serious could/should start now cause of college. I just dont know what to do about my affection towards her for the time being. And for those of you who are certain I also have a physical lust for her, its not that at all. It is purely emotional. I really wanna be friends with her cause there is a slight possibility we will both end up at the same college. She doesnt go online ever, and I cant talk to her in school, so I dont know what to do. I called her back when I first asked her out, but that was awkward enough leaving a message, assuming it wouldnt get returned. I just dont know what to do, and need some advice. Thanks guys

I have a crush on a girl at work..I asked her to go out once when i was drinking..then the next day I apoligized and made it sound like I didnt want to ask her out...since a week or two after that incident, we dont say Hi like we used to or joke/flirt...I feel bad, because she is very nice, attractive and I thinkw e would get along well...did I mention i think she's hot....

My point being is I pined oabout it for awhile after I made my seriously lame move, thinking if i could just get to talk to her abit again I could smooth it over and then Imight have achance..then I realized I didnt have a chance to start with..we were acquantinces and she was being friendly....so I moved on....

Anywho! get over it, move on and dont worry about it, if things change maybe she will come around, maybe not. Dont sweat it..you're young..go see the world..blah..blah...blah...

 

[nakedfrog]

If you're having girl problems, I feel bad for you, son.
I got ninety nine problems, but...

 

[Juice Box]

I guess you guys are right... this is the first time in life ive really gotten into this type of thing, and its just hitting me pretty hard.... I guess Ill have to wait till college for anything, but seriously, thanks for the advice