Girl gave me her #, but doesn't respond UPDATE #2

[Thegonagle]

Originally posted by: Richdog
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I cant believe you posted this, fricking hilarious. Should only ever leave 1 message. If a girl likes you she'll phone you back. Period.

Stop calling and move on.

 

[TJN23]

dude u called waaaaay too much...she probably called sprint, cancelled her cell phone number, took out a restraining order, and now the cops have a warrant for your arrest

 

[zixxer]

for the last time.

it wasn't my waitress, and she was flirting with me, she gave me her # after spending like 10 min talking about how she likes it when i come in, etc. etc. etc.

 

[alexruiz]

I will be against the majority, but I say give it time.... There are persons that don't check their voice mail very often, sometimes after days (I am a case...sometimes I check it until the weekend) Some others just let the phone battery die and don't bother to recharge it until they need it (my wife....) Dead phone means voice mail picking up fast.... How do you know this is not the case????

Be patient, romance is a 2 ways road.... it goes back and forth. For something to happen, it is required that she ALSO does her part..... She will call you. No call after a week, try once more. If no response after another week, it is time to move ON as she obviously lied to you. ..... Time is the key here. You are not stalking, you only have interest in her.... if your initial description is accurate (she asking you about a girlfriend) she likes you, then calling her this often can in fact give you points...... Remember also that every head is a whole different world, you will get a lot of different answers. Make your heart and your mind reach an agreement.

Be patient, don't give up yet. Some girls even want in fact to make sure that your interest is strong enough to call a few more times...... vanity??? Who knows!! Who understand women???

Alex

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: se7enty7
for the last time.

it wasn't my waitress, and she was flirting with me, she gave me her # after spending like 10 min talking about how she likes it when i come in, etc. etc. etc.

oh now u talked to her for 10 minutes! funny how these new details are arising. keep em coming stalker.

 

[wyvrn]

You called too much. Maybe she was planning on getting back to you but you look desperate. Leave it alone for a week or two and then approach her again, would be my advice.

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Okay.. I was in hops with a friend (who is a girl.. but just a friend) and the hostess is imo flirting with me. the girl I was with agreed.

On our way out I casually asked her if she had a b/f (she asked me if the girl I was with was my g/f earlier) and she said no. .I asked if I could get her # and call her sometime and she said sure.

The next afternoon I called. left a msg (something generic.. 'not doing anything tommorow.. wanted to see if your interested in a movie or something)

next day.. called pressing *67 (she cant see whos calling.. ) and there was no answer. did that twice..

third day.. pressed *67 and called maybe three times ( more like twice i believe.. ) no answer. finally called for real, no answer, left msg.

today. called once, mid afternoon, left generic give me a call msg.


So what's the deal. Wouldn't she have just said no if she wasn't going to want to hang out?? It's a cell phone btw. Usually her msg comes on after the second or maybe third ring.. which seems rather early.


What do you think? Should I go back to the restaurant and talk to her or just drop it all altogether..?

 

[josphII]

you need to seriously watch the movie Swingers

 

[zixxer]

Alright.. I went and ate lunch there.


As soon as I walked in the door, her face lit up.. she wanted to know why I hadn't called. She seemed rather upset actually.. like, "I gave you my #, and you didn't even call me!" (in a joking sort of manner?)

I told her.. I was like I called you at least twice (not gonna admit I have stalker-like tendencies..)

She said her cell phone voicemail doesn't work (the display doesn't work on it) and it doesn't ring half the time..

So, she asked for my #.

There. everything fixed. Now I don't have to bother with the bullsh!t of calling her, she can call me.


Now.. where to go for first date? Nice restaurant? semi nice? fast food? putt putt? bowling?

 

[MrDingleDangle]

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Alright.. I went and ate lunch there.


As soon as I walked in the door, her face lit up.. she wanted to know why I hadn't called. She seemed rather upset actually.. like, "I gave you my #, and you didn't even call me!" (in a joking sort of manner?)

I told her.. I was like I called you at least twice (not gonna admit I have stalker-like tendencies..)

She said her cell phone voicemail doesn't work (the display doesn't work on it) and it doesn't ring half the time..

So, she asked for my #.

There. everything fixed. Now I don't have to bother with the bullsh!t of calling her, she can call me.


Now.. where to go for first date? Nice restaurant? semi nice? fast food? putt putt? bowling?

lol...u think shes gonna call?!?!?!...haha she was just covering her ass!

j/k...yeah go out for dinner thats always a safe first date

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

You are a freak. Seek counseling.

 

[rudeguy]

"my voicemail is broke...and so is my display"


when she doesnt call it will be because she lost your number


take a hint and move on

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

Originally posted by: MacBaine
She's probably dead

...and buried in se7enty7's basement.

 

[ElFenix]

i'm a big fan of guys giving their numbers and letting the girl call. less legwork.

 

[loup garou]

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Alright.. I went and ate lunch there.


As soon as I walked in the door, her face lit up.. she wanted to know why I hadn't called. She seemed rather upset actually.. like, "I gave you my #, and you didn't even call me!" (in a joking sort of manner?)

I told her.. I was like I called you at least twice (not gonna admit I have stalker-like tendencies..)

She said her cell phone voicemail doesn't work (the display doesn't work on it) and it doesn't ring half the time..

So, she asked for my #.

There. everything fixed. Now I don't have to bother with the bullsh!t of calling her, she can call me.


Now.. where to go for first date? Nice restaurant? semi nice? fast food? putt putt? bowling?

Hahahaha....this is priceless.

 

Originally posted by: werk

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Alright.. I went and ate lunch there.


As soon as I walked in the door, her face lit up.. she wanted to know why I hadn't called. She seemed rather upset actually.. like, "I gave you my #, and you didn't even call me!" (in a joking sort of manner?)

I told her.. I was like I called you at least twice (not gonna admit I have stalker-like tendencies..)

She said her cell phone voicemail doesn't work (the display doesn't work on it) and it doesn't ring half the time..

So, she asked for my #.

There. everything fixed. Now I don't have to bother with the bullsh!t of calling her, she can call me.


Now.. where to go for first date? Nice restaurant? semi nice? fast food? putt putt? bowling?

Hahahaha....this is priceless.

I agree - it seemed like it worked out, but I'll only believe it when I read, "First date went great! She called me the day after!" from se7enty7.

I'm glad things seem to be working out though. WTH did she give you her number if her cell phone is broken though?

 

And put the goddamn update in the first post - it's gonna be impossible to find it as the thread goes.

I HATE when people don't update the first post!

 

[huey1124]

i can't believe no one asked this yet....

PICS?

 

[notfred]

UPDATE see last post

That's a fantastic way for me to locate the update... until someone else posts.

 

[waylman]

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Alright.. I went and ate lunch there.

As soon as I walked in the door, her face lit up.. she wanted to know why I hadn't called. She seemed rather upset actually.. like, "I gave you my #, and you didn't even call me!" (in a joking sort of manner?)
I told her.. I was like I called you at least twice (not gonna admit I have stalker-like tendencies..)
She said her cell phone voicemail doesn't work (the display doesn't work on it) and it doesn't ring half the time..
So, she asked for my #.
There. everything fixed. Now I don't have to bother with the bullsh!t of calling her, she can call me.
Now.. where to go for first date? Nice restaurant? semi nice? fast food? putt putt? bowling?

LOL, there's not going to be a first date you impossible loser.

 

[Yax]

I'll believe it when she calls you. She probably didn't want to upset you after the 8 calls in 3 days. You might go bullistic on her so she simply asks for your number and tossed it. Next time you approach, her excuse may be: Oh, I misplaced it somewhere or I lost it.

We'll see.

 

[zixxer]

She showed me her phone.. asked if it was possible to fix or some crap. I was like.. uh. no..



I don't believe she was covering her ass.. anyhow.. if it works, great. if she doesn't call then no big deal...

 

[Richdog]

Originally posted by: huey1124
i can't believe no one asked this yet....

PICS?

LOL yeah just follow her with a camera and take some shots just for us, wont look too scary...honest!

No seriously though listen up, if you do go on a date, then well done, but speaking from experience women have PERFECTED the art of acting interested/innocent/polite and making up seemingly innocuous exscuses, so dont crack open the champagne until you hear that phone ring...

 

[BCYL]

Why would she give you her number knowing full well her phone doesn't work???

 

[Keego]

Damn dude, I think you should make sure to change your obsessive ways!

 

[jdogg]

Originally posted by: se7enty7
Okay.. I was in hops with a friend (who is a girl.. but just a friend) and the hostess is imo flirting with me. the girl I was with agreed.

On our way out I casually asked her if she had a b/f (she asked me if the girl I was with was my g/f earlier) and she said no. .I asked if I could get her # and call her sometime and she said sure.

The next afternoon I called. left a msg (something generic.. 'not doing anything tommorow.. wanted to see if your interested in a movie or something)

next day.. called pressing *67 (she cant see whos calling.. ) and there was no answer. did that twice..

third day.. pressed *67 and called maybe three times ( more like twice i believe.. ) no answer. finally called for real, no answer, left msg.

today. called once, mid afternoon, left generic give me a call msg.


So what's the deal. Wouldn't she have just said no if she wasn't going to want to hang out?? It's a cell phone btw. Usually her msg comes on after the second or maybe third ring.. which seems rather early.


What do you think? Should I go back to the restaurant and talk to her or just drop it all altogether..? UPDATE!

YOU ARE A FREAKIN LOSER ... EOM