Girl gave me her #, but doesn't respond UPDATE #2

[zixxer]

Okay.. I was in hops with a friend (who is a girl.. but just a friend) and the hostess is imo flirting with me. the girl I was with agreed.

On our way out I casually asked her if she had a b/f (she asked me if the girl I was with was my g/f earlier) and she said no. .I asked if I could get her # and call her sometime and she said sure.

The next afternoon I called. left a msg (something generic.. 'not doing anything tommorow.. wanted to see if your interested in a movie or something)

next day.. called pressing *67 (she cant see whos calling.. ) and there was no answer. did that twice..

third day.. pressed *67 and called maybe three times ( more like twice i believe.. ) no answer. finally called for real, no answer, left msg.

today. called once, mid afternoon, left generic give me a call msg.


So what's the deal. Wouldn't she have just said no if she wasn't going to want to hang out?? It's a cell phone btw. Usually her msg comes on after the second or maybe third ring.. which seems rather early.


What do you think? Should I go back to the restaurant and talk to her or just drop it all altogether..? UPDATE!

Update 7/25
She called last night - we are meeting at a olive garden tonight.

So -
her cell phone really IS broken.. she dropped it the after noon she gave me her #.


And.. yeah.. I'll let you know what happens tommorow

 

[zer0burn]

dont call so often man give it a few days...

 

[MacBaine]

She's probably dead

 

[notfred]

After the 8th phone call in 3 days she probably thinks you're a stalker, so you're probably just going to have to give up now.

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: notfred
After the 8th phone call in 3 days she probably thinks you're a stalker, so you're probably just going to have to give up now.

rofl

 

[isasir]

I'm pretty sure when the voice mail on a cell phone comes on after the 3rd ring or less, that means either they're in a place they don't get service, or her phone is off.

But the whole stalker thing could also be playing a role...

 

[dude]

Dude, don't ask to go on a movie the first time you meet someone. Say go to a party or grab a byte or drinking or something! She's scared to death of you now!

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

Or maybe...... just maybe........







She's on vacation! Just maybe....

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

I'd go back to the restaurant and check one more time though...

 

[zixxer]

I might have said grab a bite to eat i don't remember.

I haven't called her 8 times.

I've called her like 3 i think.

the other 5 show up as like no number, so she couldn't tell it was me



and. she's not answering when i make it show no number, AND that dude that says when it goes to vmail after 3 rings .. i think that might be it.


so here's the thing.. is it weird to go stop by there to eat lunch or something? I dont want to look like a loser, but i do want to look interested

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: AgaBooga
I'd go back to the restaurant and check one more time though...

Yeah, stare at her while she's working, from outside the restaurant. Then call her up. If she looks at the caller ID, and chooses not to answer, then run in yelling at her about not picking up. Then ask her out again.

Edit: On a serious note, she prob. keeps her phone off when she's working. It's not quite professional to answer the cell phone if you're a hostess.

 

[AUMM]

ide hide in the bushes and follow her after work, assuming that u already have that is

 

[dartworth]

don't worry about it. we all know you're so money!

 

[anxi80]

also, if it doesnt seem like its ringing enough, she can be sending you straight to voice mail. when i dont wanna talk to someone and i dont want to hear a ring, if i tap my side volume button 2x, it sends the caller straight to voice mail. not saying thats the case, but just thought id throw that into the mix.

btw, thats for verizon. iunno if other services carry over the same feature.

 

[amnesiac]

Cripes dude, chill with the phone calls.

First, you called too early. At least you didn't call the same night, but still, too early.

Second, you blocked your ID. On purpose. That's just creepy. Don't ever do that.

Third, you not only called for multiple days, you called several times per day. Not only is it annoying, but it's borderline stalker.

Have you thought that maybe:
- She's busy?
- She's working?
- She's WITH HER BOYFRIEND
- She gave you her number just to be nice, with no intention of ever calling you back. Yes, girls do that.

 

[Xenon14]

lol. Allow me...

She's one of those girls that feels bad saying "no" to a guy, so she just gives you the number and doesn't respond. She fails to realize she gets your hopes up and then you just end up feeling worse. If u left a msg with your number, then don't call anymore... if she wants to get in touch with you, she has the means. Otherwise, you'll just look like a psycho that doesn't get the hint.

Girls are idiots. Hope that helps.

 

[wfbberzerker]

she's obviously not answering on purpose just to drive you insane so that you post on a forum filled with people you dont know for advice.

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: notfred
After the 8th phone call in 3 days she probably thinks you're a stalker, so you're probably just going to have to give up now.

not word for word, but i was going to respond almost exactly the same thing.. hah

 

[wfbberzerker]

oh wait...

 

[SpiderX]

Originally posted by: AgaBooga
I'd go back to the restaurant and check one more time though...

But just stare at her through the windows, while pressing your nose up against them and breathing hard.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: notfred
After the 8th phone call in 3 days she probably thinks you're a stalker, so you're probably just going to have to give up now.

 

[zixxer]

I KNOW its freaking stalker like. I get the point, and won't do it anymore.


If she was avoiding me, she would have answered the phone when i dialed *67.

I think her phone is fux0red up.


and my deepest fear is that she gave me her # to not disappoint me. I don't think that's the case though.

 

[NoReMoRsE]

Dude... perhaps she gave you the wrong number.

Or maybe you should just call LESS OFTEN as others have said.

 

[Bulk Beef]

Stalker

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: notfred
After the 8th phone call in 3 days she probably thinks you're a stalker, so you're probably just going to have to give up now.