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Girl from high school wants to hook up, what to do?

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Originally posted by: dethman
if you're not getting any right now from anyone else, tap it.

Haha, that's an idea I suppose, but I'm not really that kind of guy. Plus, there is always that 1% chance of the contraceptive not working and nooo way do I want kids with her.

 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
I think this girl I met in high school wants to hook up with me and has since high school. After high school we lost touch but I ran into her at her place of work and we have done some stuff like go to the movies together since then, but not really officially dating. Just the other day she asked me to dinner and I went and now she wants me to go to dinner with her this Friday.

Thing is, she is nice and everything but to tell the truth I'm not really attracted to her physically or personality wise. Now she has my AIM screen name and has started messaging me off and on the past week. What should I do?

easy, not attracted to physically or personally = buh-bye
 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
This is like the only time I've been in this situation. In any event I don't want to tell her anything directly but maybe give some hints. The time before she asked me to this drive in movie and let me tell you guys, it really sucked. We met up with her neighbor and watched the whole movie with him and his kids.

stop being the girl. first thing you need to do is be a man. none of this behind the back, "indirect hints". seems like you're already whipped. if you're not enjoying spending time with her, stop going places with her.

3/10
 
Originally posted by: deejayshakur
Originally posted by: Dissipate
This is like the only time I've been in this situation. In any event I don't want to tell her anything directly but maybe give some hints. The time before she asked me to this drive in movie and let me tell you guys, it really sucked. We met up with her neighbor and watched the whole movie with him and his kids.

stop being the girl. first thing you need to do is be a man. none of this behind the back, "indirect hints". seems like you're already whipped. if you're not enjoying spending time with her, stop going places with her.

3/10

Well I don't mind hanging out, just that time sucked. I'll see how things go this Friday.

Edit: as far as being whipped no way. I'll be whipped when I'm married, until then I'm my own man. 😀
 
I'd tell her I was seeing someone. What exactly is 3/10 anyway? I have a friend who'll give a supermodel a 3/10 if she's under 5'10" or has an ounce of fat on her (ironically girls have told me he's only so-so looking). What is she on your scale?
 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: wkabel23
Originally posted by: AgaBooga
Originally posted by: dethman
if you're not getting any right now from anyone else, tap it.

friend rated it a 3/10, i dunno

Beauty is only a light switch away.......

LMAO, you guys are so bad.

what's wrong with that? .... believe it or not... your little friend down there is legally blind
 
Originally posted by: Gurck
I'd tell her I was seeing someone. What exactly is 3/10 anyway? I have a friend who'll give a supermodel a 3/10 if she's under 5'10" or has an ounce of fat on her (ironically girls have told me he's only so-so looking). What is she on your scale?

Yeah, people here shouldn't dwell to much on the 3/10. Some people are really shallow with their ten ratings. Most normal looking girls are a 6+ to me.

One man's 3/10 is another man's one night stand.

The RIGHT thing to do is to tell her you're not interested. Although I would probably just start ignoring her...sure its cold, but its so much easier.
 
You best tell her, I know it's probably a lot harder at this point than it was at the start... however it's not the end of the world... just make sure you don't lead her on, that would be bad.

Most guys I know will "lead a girl on" unintentionally mainly because they are having fun with the girl they aren't attracted to. In that case, let her know what a good "FRIEND" she is. Haha, it's a dilemma for sure though!

><GG)
 
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Don't have any. But let's just say she's not the hottest chick around. My friend rates her a 3 out of 10.

run! run like a mofo!!!

COLD... very COLD. I'm sure there are millions if not billions of people who are ranked lower than she is... so if you think of it THAT way... haha, just playing!

><GG)
 
Originally posted by: GoldenGuppy
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Don't have any. But let's just say she's not the hottest chick around. My friend rates her a 3 out of 10.

run! run like a mofo!!!

COLD... very COLD. I'm sure there are millions if not billions of people who are ranked lower than she is... so if you think of it THAT way... haha, just playing!

><GG)

haha i was just playing. but OP already mentioned he isnt attracted to her personality. so just let her know u arent interested
 
3 out of 10.. jeeze I was gonna say if you havnt gotten any.. take what you can get! ;-)

but 3/10... back away. lol
 
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