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Getting Serious About Pornography

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Lifer
http://article.nationalreview.com/429884/getting-serious-about-pornography/anonymous

Getting Serious About Pornography
It is ravaging American families

Imagine a drug so powerful it can destroy a family simply by distorting a man’s perception of his wife. Picture an addiction so lethal it has the potential to render an entire generation incapable of forming lasting marriages and so widespread that it produces more annual revenue — $97 billion worldwide in 2006 — than all of the leading technology companies combined. Consider a narcotic so insidious that it evades serious scientific study and legislative action for decades, thriving instead under the ever-expanding banner of the First Amendment.

According to an online statistics firm, an estimated 40 million people use this drug on a regular basis. It doesn’t come in pill form. It can’t be smoked, injected, or snorted. And yet neurological data suggest its effects on the brain are strikingly similar to those of synthetic drugs. Indeed, two authorities on the neurochemistry of addiction, Harvey Milkman and Stanley Sunderwirth, claim it is the ability of this drug to influence all three pleasure systems in the brain — arousal, satiation, and fantasy — that makes it “the pièce de résistance among the addictions.”

Earlier this month, the Witherspoon Institute released a report examining “The Social Costs of Pornography,” signed by more than 50 scholars representing a wide array of professions, academic disciplines, and political views. The report details the considerable social costs that pornography exacts upon men, women, and children.

The findings of the report hit particularly close to home for me. By his own account, my husband of 13 years and high-school sweetheart, was first exposed to pornography around age ten. He viewed it regularly during high school and college — and, although he tried hard to stop, continued to do so throughout the course of our marriage. For the past few years he had taken to sleeping in the basement, distancing himself from me, emotionally and physically. Recently he began to reject my sexual advances outright, claiming he just didn’t “feel love” for me like he used to, and lamenting that he thought of me “more as the mother of our children” than as a sexual partner.

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Oh noes! They want to take our porn away!
 
Ugh...

These people spent way too much time analyzing the actions of other people. Porn is quite low on the totem pole of whats fucked up with our society.
 
The findings of the report hit particularly close to home for me. By his own account, my husband of 13 years and high-school sweetheart, was first exposed to pornography around age ten. He viewed it regularly during high school and college — and, although he tried hard to stop, continued to do so throughout the course of our marriage. For the past few years he had taken to sleeping in the basement, distancing himself from me, emotionally and physically. Recently he began to reject my sexual advances outright, claiming he just didn’t “feel love” for me like he used to, and lamenting that he thought of me “more as the mother of our children” than as a sexual partner.

How does this have anything to do with porn? The entire thing is an absurd argument.
 
Sounds like the bitter mother hen who wants to blame all her problems on something. Husband not into you anymore? Society has a problem with porno.
 
The author is a psychologist who lives with her children in Virginia.

Of course she is.

Being a psychologist, she knows that sex = love. Everyone knows this.
 
This is what happens when society stigmatizes sex/sexuality like we have done in the US (although certainly not limited to the US).

-KeithP
 
This is why me and my gf look at porn together! Everyone in a relationship should, really helps. Everyone knows this...except bitter ugly female psychologist...
 
http://article.nationalreview.com/429884/getting-serious-about-pornography/anonymous

Imagine a drug so powerful it can destroy a family simply by distorting a man’s perception of his wife. Picture an addiction so lethal it has the potential to render an entire generation incapable of forming lasting marriages and so widespread that it produces more annual revenue —

they are blaming divorce on porn?
lol
bit one sided, i guess when men leave their wives its because of porn addiction or their wives are watching too much porn as well😛
 
I tend to agree with the sentiment in this thread about this having more to do with her personal issues. Granted, the affect of pornography on society at large is a legitimate issue, but likely not the cause of the disinterest of her husband. There is a deeper issue at work for that to happen.
 
How does this have anything to do with porn? The entire thing is an absurd argument.

Pretty much any argument against porn will be based on bad data and hideously flawed logic. When that fails the arguer usually goes to religion, which is even worse than bad data and flawed logic.
 
Pretty much any argument against porn will be based on bad data and hideously flawed logic. When that fails the arguer usually goes to religion, which is even worse than bad data and flawed logic.

No, say it isn't so! SAY IT ISN'T SO, SHORTYLICKENS! SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!!
 
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