Google shows nothing for "xtreme full phase power", and it sounds just like LLC, I'd leave it off. You can turn off the C sleep/halt states yourself.
Google may not, but if you downloaded his manual, which took all of two minutes, you'd see that LLC is NOT the same as extreme full phase power.
To quote the manual:
Xtreme Phase Full Power Mode Enabled---Enables full power mode to ensure the best CPU overclocking performance.
So, the answer is to enable Xtreme Phase Full Power Mode.
Also, don't use offset mode. Put the VCore Over Voltage setting into Manual mode, not offset. This will allow you to set a fixed cpu voltage, not a drifting one that the offset allows. This setting appears when you put VCore Over Voltage in Manual.
In VCore manual mode, pick a voltage that's around stock and start there.
Turn off your Load Line Calibration.
Turn off Speedstep, at least when setting up and testing your OC stability.
Turn off Turbo Mode.
Put your memory voltage into manual mode and set it at what the manufacturer recommends for the speed it's rated for......
All the above is in the Ai Overclock Tuner BIOS page.
Then, go to the Advanced tab/page.
Enter the CPU Configuration section.
Turn off C1E.
Turn off Turbo Mode.
Turn off SpeedStep.
Turn off C-State.
You want to turn off all the energy saving features when you're first setting up an overclock. After stability testing, you can then start turning them back on if you wish, but check stability after you turn them back on.
Also, the reason you want to turn turbo mode off is you don't want a 3.6GHz overclock to suddenly become 3.9GHz or faster when the cpu is only using one core. Your voltage you're using, while stable at 3.6GHz or whatever OC you finally decide upon, may not be enough for that sudden kick in of turbo and can cause crashes, lockups, etc., not to mention higher temp.
And have fun. That cpu of yours should kick right up to 3.6GHz without too much difficulty at all.