Georgia mom praised for having 5-year-old daughter 'pay rent'

highland145

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A Georgia mom says it’s never too early to teach children the value of money, which is why she is “charging” her 5-year-old daughter for rent, food and utilities.


In a viral Facebook post, Essence Evans from Atlanta said that she makes her daughter pay household bills from her allowance.


“I MAKE MY 5-YEAR-OLD PAY RENT. Every week she gets $7 dollars in allowance,” she wrote. “But I explained to her that in the real world most people spend most of their paycheck on bills with little to spend on themselves.”

Evans explained that she “charges” her daughter $5 a week - $1 for rent, water, electricity, cable and food each.


“The other $2 she gets to save or do what she wants with,” Evans added.

As for the $5, Evans said she is putting it in a savings account that her daughter will have access to when she turns 18.


“So if she decides to move out on her own she will have $3,380 to start off,” she wrote. “This strategy not only prepares your child for the real world. But when they see how much real bills are they will appreciate you giving them a huge discount.”


The post, shared on Sunday, has since gone viral with thousands of people chiming in.


“My dad did a similar scheme he gave me half my pocket money and wrote the remaining amount in a book. This was a saving account before banks allowed children’s accounts,” one person wrote. “I think this gave me respect for money and enjoyed saving. I didn’t get interest but I enjoyed watching the amount grow and made me think before I withdrew the money and this is a lifetime skill I have taught my children.”


Another wrote: “I support it. Even from a young age, everyone has their part to contribute and learning it early isn’t hurting anything at all! I applaud this mama for an out-of-the-box approach.”


However, some were not as supportive.


“What’s next? Charging her every time she goes in the car so she learns about cab fares? Charging her for meals but making sure she leaves 10% as a top? Seriously. Let her have a childhood.”


Another wrote: “It’s the parent’s responsibility to take care of their kids. I think this is going a little to [sic] far.”
 

momeNt

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She gets the allowance for free, how is that teaching her the value of money, this is teaching her to be an entitled little shit.

You don't get an allowance, you get paid for your chores, dishes, sweeping, etc. Then she gets charged for rent.

All this kid is going to learn is I got $2 a week for doing jack shit.
 

zinfamous

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She gets the allowance for free, how is that teaching her the value of money, this is teaching her to be an entitled little shit.

You don't get an allowance, you get paid for your chores, dishes, sweeping, etc. Then she gets charged for rent.

All this kid is going to learn is I got $2 a week for doing jack shit.

yes but I feel that is actually unclear from the article. It's generally assumed that an allowance is earned based on household duties. It could be that the article assumes that we all read it that way? But if not, I tend to agree with you.

Also, the Mom's math is way off: "rent" should be roughly 30% of her income. So she should actually be charging something like $2.30 or so for rent, but then having her spend what, 80% of her take home is a little nuts? Or maybe that is kind of reasonable for most people....

where are they living where rent is essentially the same cost as power, water, food?
 

IronWing

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My parents paid us for chores and held back half the wages for our college funds and a quarter of our wages for short term savings. When we found outside jobs shoveling or working fast food we were required to deposit half of our wages in the college fund.
 

GagHalfrunt

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All this kid is going to learn is I got $2 a week for doing jack shit.

As opposed to begging when they want something? "Mommy!! Buy me this!!!" is better in your book?

Kids should be on an allowance and forced to make decisions on what they want to buy with their money. It's something that's good to learn at an early age, budgeting, saving for big ticket items, controlling impulse purchases are important skills. If more kids learn that stuff early there would be fewer young adults who set themselves up for long term financial troubles by living beyond their means.
 
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yes but I feel that is actually unclear from the article. It's generally assumed that an allowance is earned based on household duties. It could be that the article assumes that we all read it that way? But if not, I tend to agree with you.

Also, the Mom's math is way off: "rent" should be roughly 30% of her income. So she should actually be charging something like $2.30 or so for rent, but then having her spend what, 80% of her take home is a little nuts? Or maybe that is kind of reasonable for most people....

where are they living where rent is essentially the same cost as power, water, food?

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH *breathes* HAHAHAHHAHAHA
 

Genx87

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What does ATOT say?

A Georgia mom says it’s never too early to teach children the value of money, which is why she is “charging” her 5-year-old daughter for rent, food and utilities.


In a viral Facebook post, Essence Evans from Atlanta said that she makes her daughter pay household bills from her allowance.


“I MAKE MY 5-YEAR-OLD PAY RENT. Every week she gets $7 dollars in allowance,” she wrote. “But I explained to her that in the real world most people spend most of their paycheck on bills with little to spend on themselves.”

Evans explained that she “charges” her daughter $5 a week - $1 for rent, water, electricity, cable and food each.


“The other $2 she gets to save or do what she wants with,” Evans added.

As for the $5, Evans said she is putting it in a savings account that her daughter will have access to when she turns 18.


“So if she decides to move out on her own she will have $3,380 to start off,” she wrote. “This strategy not only prepares your child for the real world. But when they see how much real bills are they will appreciate you giving them a huge discount.”


The post, shared on Sunday, has since gone viral with thousands of people chiming in.


“My dad did a similar scheme he gave me half my pocket money and wrote the remaining amount in a book. This was a saving account before banks allowed children’s accounts,” one person wrote. “I think this gave me respect for money and enjoyed saving. I didn’t get interest but I enjoyed watching the amount grow and made me think before I withdrew the money and this is a lifetime skill I have taught my children.”


Another wrote: “I support it. Even from a young age, everyone has their part to contribute and learning it early isn’t hurting anything at all! I applaud this mama for an out-of-the-box approach.”


However, some were not as supportive.


“What’s next? Charging her every time she goes in the car so she learns about cab fares? Charging her for meals but making sure she leaves 10% as a top? Seriously. Let her have a childhood.”


Another wrote: “It’s the parent’s responsibility to take care of their kids. I think this is going a little to [sic] far.”

This is so funny. First it is an allowance. So how is it teaching them anything? Second, 5 bucks for housing on a 7 dollar budget? The kid should teach the mom a lesson and move out citing excessive cost of living.
 

ponyo

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You don't need to teach your kids how to be poor. They can learn that fine on their own.
 

momeNt

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As opposed to begging when they want something? "Mommy!! Buy me this!!!" is better in your book?

Kids should be on an allowance and forced to make decisions on what they want to buy with their money. It's something that's good to learn at an early age, budgeting, saving for big ticket items, controlling impulse purchases are important skills. If more kids learn that stuff early there would be fewer young adults who set themselves up for long term financial troubles by living beyond their means.

No... as opposed to exactly what I said. Doing chores and getting your allowance that way, the mom can still charge rent off earned allowance. It is unclear if the kid is earning an allowance or just being given $7 a week.
 

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Start, sure, but rent and utilities is maybe a bit abstract for a five year old.

I agree, although I'm not sure the child really has to understand/appreciate what the mom is doing if it is conferring useful attitudes toward money. As far as criticism goes, this seems to be a very small part of the mom's parenting, so I would not say that this is, in itself, spoiling a childhood. I think whether this is valuable depends on the execution. It could certainly be harmful if it's contentious or part of a parental attitude that love and respect are not guaranteed but instead earned by a child's concrete contributions to the household.
 

highland145

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This is so funny. First it is an allowance. So how is it teaching them anything? Second, 5 bucks for housing on a 7 dollar budget? The kid should teach the mom a lesson and move out citing excessive cost of living.
lol
 

amdhunter

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I'm going to send my kids to a shithole to teach them about the real world. Somewhere along the bible belt should suffice.
 

Kaido

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You don't get an allowance, you get paid for your chores, dishes, sweeping, etc. Then she gets charged for rent.

Agreed.

Although, we split things...there are certain things you are required to do just for living there, which you don't get paid for. So some items earn allowance money, others are just required responsibilities.

I do like the idea of charging rent though, it instills the idea that not only do you have to pay for stuff, but you gotta pay it first before you get your fun money. I had zero concept of budgeting when I moved out at 18. Burned up all of my month's money my first shopping trip & had to live off leftover ramen for three weeks...I still can't eat that stuff to this day :D