Whats your budget? I have Logitech G430's and they work great. 7.1 surround, and you can usually get them around $60
I use AKG K712 headphones and a CAD U37 Condenser microphone.
It's a higher end setup than most, but the microphone is only about $55 and you can use whatever headphones you want.
recently bought a g930 (wireless and 7.1) from logitech. sound is great. they seem a bit heavy but not too bad. I was using the little extender that dongle connects to and I would have to keep reseating the dongle between uses to get it to "pair" or whatever. I started using the dongle directly connected to PC and so far I haven't seen the issue, but only tried it 1 day so far.
can get a bit hot since they completely cover your ears.