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isekii

Lifer
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Originally posted by: klee58
Originally posted by: Nocturnal
ROFL all this time I thought you were a guy. I was like WTF leading him on?
Heheh a common misconception. For whatever reason, many people here think I'm a guy. No biggie.

Pics ? ;) prove us all wrong :D
 

MithShrike

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Originally posted by: Aquaman
Eh ...... not that harsh. It needed to be done :D

on a sided note you could have told him you were a lesbian ;)

Cheers,
Aquaman

Ah, but then he might want to watch... Anyways, women please don't be so harsh; I'm completely clueless about things that other guys are saying... women are worse. They are far more subtle and expect you to know what they mean... Anyways... just tell us straight but be a bit nicer about it eh?
 

Originally posted by: klee58

If you want, I don't mind if you post any one pic of me from your archive.:p
Wait, how did you know the web cam was on???

Ohhh, that archive, yeah... Let's see.

edit: pics removed because some people had to resort to ad hominem attacks.
 

TuffGirl

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Jan 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: dwell
Wait, how did you know the web cam was on???

Ohhh, that archive, yeah...
Grrrrrrrrrrrr

/me smacks her bb with a large brown trout
 

Cuda1447

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Nope, usually if I dont want to talk to someone though I just don't respond to them. That way incase I ever need help from them they just think I was gone for a few months and forgot to turn my computer off :)
 

TuffGirl

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Originally posted by: mrCide
harsh and bitchy, but you girls (most of you) are bitches so you think its normal... :)

what's even more harsh is how girls are to each other for NO reason.. 'look at that ugly bitch with her <insert snide remark about how she looks or what shes wearing>..

or how you are to guys who are just trying to be friendly.
Oh my, are you a judgmental person, sheesh. I couldn't agree with you more about "harsh and bitchy" girls and how they are to friendly guys and with other girls. Personally, I don't prefer to hang out with or get to know girls like that. They tend to be superficial, flaky, and moronic. So we're on the same page in that respect, even though I am female. In fact, I consider myself to have the mindset of a guy in some ways. Any of my close friends can attest to that.
if you wanted to be nice you would of just said you're not interested, not making him feel stupid for 'not getting the hint'. it's not like he was being an asshole or a perv or an annoying 'cmon go out with me' guy.
He actually falls into the category of annoying 'cmon go out with me' guy but only slightly annoying, which is why I felt kinda bad after saying what I said and made this post.
edit; i like you guys defending her just because she's an atot chick :)
Uhh not only are you judgmental about me, but other random AT'er guys? FYI, 2 of the guys "defending" me (sully and dwell) are people I have met in real life and actually know me and what I'm like. What they say and judge about me in their posts is actually more accurate and relevant than anyone else's in this thread because they actually know me. Some others may just know me from when I used to be more active on the forums and know from my posts that I am a nice person. In any case, it's certainly not because I'm an "ATOT chick". Most people don't even realize I'm a chick in the first place. Sheesh.

</end rant>:p


 

EvilYoda

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lol, DAMN, everyone here seems to think you're a bia for all that...but I don't think you were. Not entirely, at least...you should've told him from the get-go, since you don't seem to be afraid of telling him the truth, but that's just about how I would've gone about it if that's how past "conversations" went.

No worries. I'm sure he's used to rejection, as are most people here. ;)
 

Shaftatplanetquake

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I read the entire post with the impression that you were a male. I was really wondering why you were such an asshole. Now I just know that you are a total stupid bitch. You don't know a whole lot about this guy. Just because he didn't open up with you (it probably is not because he is inherently boring) does not make him useless.

For all you know this guy is one of the greatest men to ever walk the earth, and you have foregone one of the greatest experiences in life (knowing him).
 

Shaftatplanetquake

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I always give people a chance. I slam a lot of people with some very crucial insulting foul sh!t- but I always am all ears when someone wants to talk. When said person slips up and says something totally stupid and reveals himself as totally unredeaming, then I really let said person have it. I am direct but totally fair.

I don't want to miss out on anything in life- because I do not know what may be is in store for me.

btw... I do not know that you are a total bitch, but I do know that you were too hasty in writing off this man- and if I were him I would feel seriously cheated because of your arrogance.
 

isaacmacdonald

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Originally posted by: mrCide
harsh and bitchy, but you girls (most of you) are bitches so you think its normal... :)

what's even more harsh is how girls are to each other for NO reason.. 'look at that ugly bitch with her <insert snide remark about how she looks or what shes wearing>..

or how you are to guys who are just trying to be friendly.

if you wanted to be nice you would of just said you're not interested, not making him feel stupid for 'not getting the hint'. it's not like he was being an asshole or a perv or an annoying 'cmon go out with me' guy.

edit; i like you guys defending her just because she's an atot chick :)

hehe. true.

 

WinkOsmosis

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Edited because I felt bad about being an asshole.

Edit: No wait.. you posted this thread hoping to get a pat on the back and to feel better about being a b!tch, so I'll post what I had before:



I don't tell people they are ugly. I'll make an exception for you and take the karma hit, since you are such a b!tch. YOU ARE UGLY, KLEE58. There you have it. You are an ugly bitch.
 

melly

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klee, i'm rather surprised that you did this! in the first place, why did you bother to give him your contact info if you probably knew you wouldn't talk to him? i know you mentioned that over time he grew to be boring...anyhow, i do think you should have been forthright the first time you blew him off. you should not have dragged it out and then go postal on him, lol :) this is actually a person whom you know in real life--not just some random person. if i don't want to talk to a person there is usually very good reason-- (being boring isn't one of them)--so i bitch them out and be done with them for some time. i tend to reassess the situation at that point, but in the meantime i don't lose sleep over it, either.

btw, dorito has ketchup-flavoured chips now, and they're amazing ;)
 

Marauder-

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Originally posted by: isaacmacdonald
Originally posted by: mrCide
harsh and bitchy, but you girls (most of you) are bitches so you think its normal... :)

what's even more harsh is how girls are to each other for NO reason.. 'look at that ugly bitch with her <insert snide remark about how she looks or what shes wearing>..

or how you are to guys who are just trying to be friendly.

if you wanted to be nice you would of just said you're not interested, not making him feel stupid for 'not getting the hint'. it's not like he was being an asshole or a perv or an annoying 'cmon go out with me' guy.

edit; i like you guys defending her just because she's an atot chick :)

hehe. true.

Eh - I think most of these guys complaining how klee was a B! are just bitter that similar situations have happened to them before. That guy needed to get a clue. I can totally understand if he was just trying to be friendly but if he wanted something more like a relationship, he should've had a clue.