It's not really a pain, I was just trying to be thorough and probably wrote a little too much.
Step 1: Recover all the gamertags that are to be entered into the family plan onto one console.
Step 2: Sign up for the family plan while signed into the account that you want to be the primary account holder.
Step 3: Add those recovered gamertags to the family plan when it asks you to.
Step 4: Have all of the secondary accounts go back home and recover their gamertags on their own consoles.
That's it. As long as the secondary account holders are aware that they'll not be able to attach a credit card to their account and that the primary account holder has the ability to change their privacy settings, then you're good to go.
Quick question on this step as I am about to do it myself.
On those accounts that are already setup (ie my kids and my nephew) what do I need to know to recover them to my XBOX and thus add them to my family pack? Just their gamertag or do I need their main email and password as well?
LMK
Thanks
Greg
You need to know the email and password to recover a gamertag on your console.
OH! And I asked tech support if we could just break the accounts back up into individual gold memberships again and they straight up told me NO. That I could remove them from the Family Plan but that they would then have to reapply for a gold member package. Basically all the time they had on their accounts they had paid for was gone. No reimbursement, no "sorry about this inconvien", no nothing.
After the first week my half brother wanted to add some points to the account. No big deal right? F'n WRONG! We tried it from my console and online at xbox.com. I was able to add the points to my account but it WILL NOT allow me to grant him or any other member of my account ANY microsoft points. I've been talking to the peeps at customer support and they haven't been helpful at all. It is now going on 1 month that my other family members haven't been able to add anything like downloadable content or expansions to any of the games we own. VERY F'n LAME.