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Friends sister very flirty...

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Brother , the same situation came up with me a few years ago. My best friend of almost 15 years. (I just turned 30) and my roomate at the time.
It was around Christmas , and he had just met his biological father , and his sister , his moms doing pretty well for herself , so dad and sister pop back into the picture. We are all over at moms house (they are almost family to me) hanging out , and bam , SIS is HOT. I mean , SMOKIN hot and she was acting like this....all flirty for the whole night. We stayed and watched a movie over there that night , and she plants her little ass on the floor in front of me , and is laying down in her pj pants and t-shirt and got her foot up on my knee.
To make a long story short......EVERYONE noticed. Mom , Dad , and my friend how she was acting. And they all said hey , we've been in Italy , not many boys around where she's been. Leave her alone , and give her a chance to get settled in.
The next weekend , same thing , kickin it over at friends moms....except this time Mom and Dad want to go out together. They are rekindling their relationship. And sister is coming to brothers to stay the night....(where the EVIL roomate is) we drink till the wee hours , and roomate goes off to his room to pass out, sister is set up on the couch....yea this is gonna last. And I head off to bed.... Next thing you know , my door is opening , and there she is , with her pillow , wanting to come lay in bed and watch TV with me..so I yeild...IT'S JUST A LITTLE TV FOR GODSSAKE!!!
Bam , she's under the covers letting me take her temperature , and then I'm shagging her rotten on the end of my bed with my door wide open. (My roomate's door , her BROTHER's room is straight across the hall , and his door is shut. Could get up at any moment. Wild Crazy Monkey Sex ensues...in about every position you can think of. And then a few that I made up!!!!
Well , to wrap this up, dude afterwards , she's talkin about me to the fam , and they are all telling me to leave her be. AFTER THE FACT!!! I break down and tell my friend what happened , because he's like my brother. And dude , he starts to cry. And wants to know how I could do him like that. But we talk about it , and all is cool. FOR 6 MONTHS!! Then something happens and DAD FINDS OUT. OMG dude the crap hit the fan like you don't know. I've still got the tapes from the answering machine with him cussing at me and threatening me over this happening. Ruined my friendship with my friend almost. Needless to say , I had to move out , and it was over a year before we even SPOKE again.
The right thing to do would be to leave her alone. And just be cool. But you are a guy , and we all know you are going to hit it. I'd smack her A$$ and send her to bed with no dinner. Brother , you'd better knock the brakes off that.
 
Originally posted by: BullyCanadian
So I was over a friends house today just chilling talking to people on the computer, when his sister (I'm 20, shes 21) comes over stands right next to me, pressing her legs against mine while talking. Next thing I know she starts flirting with me, with her brother sitting about 4 feet away, he really didnt think anything of it (i think he was too busy watching something on youtube) anyways next as she goes to grab a chair next to me, she walked behind me, so that I'm facing straight shes directly behind me, I dont turn around and she begins talking and while doing so she presses her chest right firmly against the back of my head and continues to talk/flirt, i turn my head around and my face is literally in her cleavage (all the while her brother has no idea, right there but watching the computer screen) she looks at me smiles and grabs a chair and sits down (also I should mention, we were in the study room, which is a big room so she didnt press up against me either time because it was too cramped there was tons of space in either direction).

The rest of the night (more people came in, everyone was playing xbox) but I left to talk to her in the living room, I was getting really good signals. She had changed into her pajamas and was looking really sexy, sitting very close next to me whilst both of us were making sexual innuendo.

Now I know she has a bf, and also shes my GOOD friends older sister.... I wouldnt mind doing stuff with her, but me being close with her brother and knowing she has a bf, should I go for it and hope none of them find out?

Cliffs:
-Over friends house
-His sister = Very flirty, boobies pressed up against my head
-more flirting/talking
-she has a bf
-should i go for it and try to "hit it"?

pics or ____ (ban)
 
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: quakefiend420
the only women i avoid are the ones that are married, and my good friend's gfs...if you're just an acquaintance and you have a hot gf who's giving me the look, better believe i'll be all over it

Why does the world nowadays deify the concept of sex? :roll:

i'm just a selfish prick :shrug;
 
Here's a fact: if you mess with the sister, your friend will find out. To think otherwise is very naive. No matter what clever plan you might come up with to keep it a secret, it will fail.

Originally posted by: alien42
when you are 90 the friendship will mean nothing, so hit it.
Good friends are a lot more difficult to come by than casual hookups.
 
Originally posted by: n7
Heh.

I hate sluts.

She's obviously one if she's that happy to ****** around behind her bf's back...

But depending on hawtness level, a part of me would go for it i'm sure 🙁

well ill pick up where you leave...😉
 
you guys are dumb.

any exceptionaly hot girl is always "seeing someone" this is read as hooking up with someone. She doesnt wan't to be a slut so she calls this person a boyfriend......in reality its jsut some guy she has no real attatchment too. There are instances though where they have a legitamate guy that they have been with for a long time. Unlike guys, Girls like have a new boy to play with in line before they ditch the old one.

so in all reality she mentioned a boyfriend to make herself seem desirable but iunavailble. She may not have any attatchment to him at all. Talk to your friend see how he would feel. I wouldn't hook up with a friends sister with out getting the ok. But don't worry about this likely imaginary boyfriend.
 
Originally posted by: Maxspeed996
Brother , the same situation came up with me a few years ago. My best friend of almost 15 years. (I just turned 30) and my roomate at the time.
It was around Christmas , and he had just met his biological father , and his sister , his moms doing pretty well for herself , so dad and sister pop back into the picture. We are all over at moms house (they are almost family to me) hanging out , and bam , SIS is HOT. I mean , SMOKIN hot and she was acting like this....all flirty for the whole night. We stayed and watched a movie over there that night , and she plants her little ass on the floor in front of me , and is laying down in her pj pants and t-shirt and got her foot up on my knee.
To make a long story short......EVERYONE noticed. Mom , Dad , and my friend how she was acting. And they all said hey , we've been in Italy , not many boys around where she's been. Leave her alone , and give her a chance to get settled in.
The next weekend , same thing , kickin it over at friends moms....except this time Mom and Dad want to go out together. They are rekindling their relationship. And sister is coming to brothers to stay the night....(where the EVIL roomate is) we drink till the wee hours , and roomate goes off to his room to pass out, sister is set up on the couch....yea this is gonna last. And I head off to bed.... Next thing you know , my door is opening , and there she is , with her pillow , wanting to come lay in bed and watch TV with me..so I yeild...IT'S JUST A LITTLE TV FOR GODSSAKE!!!
Bam , she's under the covers letting me take her temperature , and then I'm shagging her rotten on the end of my bed with my door wide open. (My roomate's door , her BROTHER's room is straight across the hall , and his door is shut. Could get up at any moment. Wild Crazy Monkey Sex ensues...in about every position you can think of. And then a few that I made up!!!!
Well , to wrap this up, dude afterwards , she's talkin about me to the fam , and they are all telling me to leave her be. AFTER THE FACT!!! I break down and tell my friend what happened , because he's like my brother. And dude , he starts to cry. And wants to know how I could do him like that. But we talk about it , and all is cool. FOR 6 MONTHS!! Then something happens and DAD FINDS OUT. OMG dude the crap hit the fan like you don't know. I've still got the tapes from the answering machine with him cussing at me and threatening me over this happening. Ruined my friendship with my friend almost. Needless to say , I had to move out , and it was over a year before we even SPOKE again.
The right thing to do would be to leave her alone. And just be cool. But you are a guy , and we all know you are going to hit it. I'd smack her A$$ and send her to bed with no dinner. Brother , you'd better knock the brakes off that.

:thumbsup: wow man....wow. Finally someone else around here that htinks like me.
 
Originally posted by: MrChad
DANGER WILL ROBINSON, DANGER

Seriously though, regardless of who's sister or girlfriend she is, I would be suspicious of any girl who comes on that strong with no alcohol involved. 😉 Tread carefully.

OMG girls get horny too!!! SAY IT AINT SO!!! :roll:
 
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
you guys are dumb.

any exceptionaly hot girl is always "seeing someone" this is read as hooking up with someone. She doesnt wan't to be a slut so she calls this person a boyfriend......in reality its jsut some guy she has no real attatchment too. There are instances though where they have a legitamate guy that they have been with for a long time. Unlike guys, Girls like have a new boy to play with in line before they ditch the old one.

so in all reality she mentioned a boyfriend to make herself seem desirable but iunavailble. She may not have any attatchment to him at all. Talk to your friend see how he would feel. I wouldn't hook up with a friends sister with out getting the ok. But don't worry about this likely imaginary boyfriend.

motherfvcking .

the more i see you in YAGT's the more i like you :thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: kranky
Here's a fact: if you mess with the sister, your friend will find out. To think otherwise is very naive. No matter what clever plan you might come up with to keep it a secret, it will fail.

Hmm...not necessarily. You just have to be a little smart. Of course, I'm hoping the OP's best friend isn't aware of his username and Anandtech Forums habit. You gotta cover all the tracks. I know I made some bad choices with friends and their female relatives...but that was when my dating life was the suxorz. Nobody ever found out...but I would always feel very paranoid about the 'what if word got out' bit.

BullyCanadianDude,
1) If you are decent-looking, smooth, have a halfway-decent personality, kinda funny and are capable of hitting on 10 women and getting even 2 numbers, forget the trampy sister and strike gold in a bar/mall/convention somewhere.
2) If you are fugly, haven't touched a breast in years and have zero self-esteem (no offense intended), go for this girl:thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
Originally posted by: kranky
Here's a fact: if you mess with the sister, your friend will find out. To think otherwise is very naive. No matter what clever plan you might come up with to keep it a secret, it will fail.

Hmm...not necessarily. You just have to be a little smart. Of course, I'm hoping the OP's best friend isn't aware of his username and Anandtech Forums habit. You gotta cover all the tracks. I know I made some bad choices with friends and their female relatives...but that was when my dating life was the suxorz. Nobody ever found out...but I would always feel very paranoid about the 'what if word got out' bit.

BullyCanadianDude,
1) If you are decent-looking, smooth, have a halfway-decent personality, kinda funny and are capable of hitting on 10 women and getting even 2 numbers, forget the trampy sister and strike gold in a bar/mall/convention somewhere.
2) If you are fugly, haven't touched a breast in years and have zero self-esteem (no offense intended), go for this girl:thumbsup:


haha nope he doesnt know of my anandtech name,

Anyone for anyone still wondering, Im not going to pursue her as it looks like it will get complicated (based on majority of the opinions here), also on a related note, at work today I got the number of a nice spanish chick.

Also for those who questioned her relationship with another guy, my friends sister really does have a bf I know this because I am an acquaintance of her bf and so she is not just saying she has one, I know for a fact.
 
Originally posted by: Xylitol
answer = NO
Friends are too close to you espeically if they're your best/good
Find another girl at a club
and do what Tom Leykis does and I say:
Ding Bang Ditch

Best advice I've heard all day. Leykis 101, anyone?
 
BF doesn't matter, don't worry about that. If she's doing that to you she's probably looking for someone else anyway.

If you're interested, and you're as good of friends with the guy as you say you are, just talk to him. If he's cool with it (and he may well be), tap dat.
 
Originally posted by: GuideBot
Originally posted by: BullyCanadian
-she has a bf
-should i go for it and try to "hit it"?

Hrm, let's see.

-she has a bf

😕

What part do you not understand? There are 6 billion people on the planet, find your own goddamn girlfriend you piece of sh|t!

atot pussies strike again!
 
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