Friend (Infamous ATOT member) surprizes g/f of one month with a break-up... ***NOW WITH PICS***

[OneOfTheseDays]

Originally posted by: DearQT

Originally posted by: Syringer

I tore the pictures & card you gave me and threw the frame onto the roof where it can lay with the stupid pumpkin man.

Ha.

And obligatory pic:

http://www.xanga.com/item.aspx...logs&uid=181828949

Although you're being a dick here for posting a link to her website, I have to admit that you seem to be the more mature person in this relationship. She is very emotional in her post. What I mean is, you could sense that she has poured her emotions into what she wrote. However, she is extremely naive and in denial here:

Maybe you need time to realize that and that it doesn't really matter how the relationship started or fast it is going. In the end you still can get to know the person if you really wanted to.

Yes, it does matter how the relationship started and how fast it is going. For, although things could be changed by slowing down and mending the relationship, if it remains the previous way, the relationship is doomed. The fast process is simply nature's way of attraction, but once that happens, it's time to slow it down, really get to know each other and build up a mature relationship.

Furthermore unlike you I really regret the time we have spent together because it was then you had me thinking everything was well when it wasn't. If you had problems in the begining with feeling awkward with nothing to say to me you could have said something. I don't always have something to talk to you about and silence I find sometimes can be soothing.

There's another problem. Yes, it is true that silence is sometimes soothing, but in this case it isn't applicable. She's mixing up purposeful silence for meditation, calm and reflection, for instance, with silence because there's simply nothing to talk about (e.g., no commonality) or silence due to upset.

Lastly I don't want to be friends with you because I dont want you to think about me or hold onto me. As of right now I can say I am over you because there is no reason to hold onto someone who in the begining told me that he was out to prove that not all guys are assholes but only turned out to be one himself.

LOL! I can't believe it's the reverse role here. Women who do this amaze me. If the guy's a complete jerk, I could understand. I guess she wears her heart on her sleeve. Chicks that are so sensitive operate solely by emotions instead of reason, but they could be very motherly and kind too. They just tear everything like that ... and could easily hold grudges. I have to admit that you're the reasonable person in this case. Maybe she'll one day understand that it was the right thing to do ... or maybe not.

I am erasing you from my life because I do deserve someone that is great.

Yes, she does deserve someone better if she didn't see you as a good person.

Do you ever shutup or stop giving relationship advice? Jesus, your like a damn internet Dr. Laura. And who do you think you are to give such advice, when did you become the expert? Your prob. a guy for all we know.

 

[Taejin]

man..not nice to string a girl along like that..

I guess its up to the guys if they get offered free pussy, but imho I think it's downright dishonorable/immoral to have that kind of relationship with a girl who thinks you're going to be more than just a single fuck. It may be true she surrendered herself, but you misled her on purpose, just to get some.

I guess I'm old fashioned that way - I would never use a girl like that.

 

[Syringer]

It definitely was more than just the physical aspect to it..but not enough "other stuff" to continue the relationship.

 

[t0n]

Man, a bunch of you are straight crab lilies.

I don't know the girl at all, she seemed like a nice girl, but if Spidier-Man felt that the relationship wasn't going to work out then he did the right thing by not prolonging the inevitable. He did her a favor by letting her get on with her life. Jeez. Tien ain't that special.

Can't wait until break so the boys can play more poker again, no Karamo (synonym for no homo).

 

[Syringer]

Originally posted by: t0n
Man, a bunch of you are straight crab lilies.

I don't know the girl at all, she seemed like a nice girl, but if Spidier-Man felt that the relationship wasn't going to work out then he did the right thing by not prolonging the inevitable. He did her a favor by letting her get on with her life. Jeez. Tien ain't that special.

Can't wait until break so the boys can play more poker again, no Karamo (synonym for no homo).

:thumbsup:

 

[Syringer]

OMG it just doesn't end..

Just had a convo with a friend from downstairs who lives next to my ex..

[02:20] Friend: hey
[02:20] Me: hey
[02:20] Friend: your ex was here
[02:20] Me: oh yeah
[02:20] Me: for what
[02:20] Friend: to bitch about you
[02:20] Me: ha
[02:21] Friend: haha
[02:21] Friend: i came home
[02:21] Friend: and shes sitting bitching to matt
[02:21] Friend: im like what the fuck
[02:21] Friend: u guys went out for a month
[02:21] Friend: i didnt say that tho
[02:21] Me: yeah really

 

[CTrain]

Originally posted by: Yo_Ma-Ma

Originally posted by: CTrain
I thought she looked very cute but if you see a PIC of her and Syringer together, she looks kinda plain.

His beauty is too great?

NO, but just from my point of view, she looks totally different from the pictures on her site front page.
PICTURE

I find it funny alot of you guys are calling him names for taking advantage of the girl.
When I posted my YAGT, I could have totally taken advantage of this girl on our 2nd night out and everyone called me a pussy and telling me I should have ride for as long as I could.

 

[Syringer]

We actually had an argument once about me taking "ugly" pictures of her and wanting to keep them rather than "letting" her delete them. That was one of the "ugly" pictures she hated.

 

[cheapgoose]

dude, there's nothing wrong with breaking up with someone who obviously is not very stable. but girls do that. they get all crazy and shit. what you should've done was be the bigger man and just let her letter slide. by posting on here just put you on the same level as her.

with that said, i'm glad you did, 'cause this thread is entertaining. so what's this spider that everyone speaks off?

by the way, it doesn't take much for girls to give it up on the first night. it's all about connection. some of you guys are pretty sad. i do hope your sister, or someone you care about gets fvcked and all his friends calls her a slut.

 

[cheapgoose]

Originally posted by: Syringer
We actually had an argument once about me taking "ugly" pictures of her and wanting to keep them rather than "letting" her delete them. That was one of the "ugly" pictures she hated.

that's a pretty bad pic.

 

[CTrain]

Originally posted by: cheapgoose

Originally posted by: Syringer
We actually had an argument once about me taking "ugly" pictures of her and wanting to keep them rather than "letting" her delete them. That was one of the "ugly" pictures she hated.

that's a pretty bad pic.

Yes it is.
From her front page....those pics of her is HOT.

 

[Muadib]

Nothing to see here. I'm just here to hopefully see the end of the spider story.

 

[dejacky]

oops double post..sorry

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: dejacky
WHERE ARE THE PICS?!

Yes, and please host them at the llbbdd site. Whatever it's called. Most pic sites are blocked at work, but not that one.

 

[dejacky]

jwilliams,
you have proven that you are obtuse. Please re-read and edit your post accordingly.

 

[IHYLN]

wow not another YAGT breakup post.

these topics should be bannable by now.

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

Originally posted by: IHYLN
wow not another YAGT breakup post.

these topics should be bannable by now.

I don't think this counts as a standard ATOT YAGT

 

Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Do you ever shutup or stop giving relationship advice? Jesus, your like a damn internet Dr. Laura. And who do you think you are to give such advice, when did you become the expert?

Still crying because my prediction was right? I see that you haven't even grown one bit! Take your aggressiveness, abrasiveness and frustration elsewhere. I'll whoop your a$$ if you dare....

Your prob. a guy for all we know.

So what? :roll: Why would you give a damn?

Hey Syringer (aka Tien), it looks like you just enjoy talking about your ex even though you've supposedly gotten over her--except you cannot be bold enough to do it openly and explicitly. Let's see if we'll soon hear of you getting a bootycall again with the supposed psycho. :roll: Why guys like you couldn't be gutsy enough to tell the girls what they want escapes me really. Why get into a relationship instead? Whatever...!

P.S. It's strange to me that this ex couldn't kiss an LLCoolJ look-alike (dimples) the first night because it was tacky, but she could do more than that with Tien? Ummm ... where did people get this idea from? Something doesn't add up.