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Originally posted by: TwinkleToes77
Your friend is screwing your soon to be ex-wife... get a new friend.
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Pretty much sums it up. And your version is actuallly readable 😉
 
First off, I hope there are no children involved. If not, then maybe it's time to get that divorce. If you're in the habit of going out by yourself to casinos and getting drunk with your "friends" while your wife stays home, then I have to wonder what you expect her to do...
 
I'm not gonna harp on the grammar BUT

1) divorce and move on slowly. take your time. I think your young.
2) get rid of worthless friends
3) get your life straight and find a good woman. i don't know your wife but she sounds like the tramp type who likes to screw around.
4) Drama???? It ain't worth all that. No B!tch is worth going to jail.
5) This is life. Learn to deal with it.

oh yeah. almost most important. STOP DRINKING. unless you know for a fact its under control. i don't even drink every week. Maybe every 2 weeks if that. life can be good without alcohol and drugs in the mix.
 
On the bright side, if you were ever holding anything back while having rough sex with your wife and ever get the chance again, you can now totally drop that barrier. Treat her like the slut that she is!
 
give her herpes, and then mention to your friend you gave her herpes, see if he gets mad that you gave him herpes too.
 
Dump them both. He's no friend if he won't respect your wishes re: your wife. She's getting something from him that she doesn't want from you.

And stop drinking. It makes you even more depressed and makes you act like a fool. Why do you think they're sneaking around behind your back? Obviously, they know the worst that will happen is that you'll go on a drinking binge.
 
Originally posted by: logic0010
ok me and my wife are splitting up. I still want to stay with her and work things out. shes been talking to a friend of mine. he isnt helping things out.i ask him not to talk to her anymore. so a few weeks go buy there still taking. ok so i dont say anything . i go over to his house shes there, ok NOT COOL. i dont say anything to her and she finally leaves. few beers later i leave. i get drunk one night last week and say some things to him i dident mean, like "damit i asked you not to talk to her i guess you just dont get the point if theres any more of this crap theres gonna be drama...ect really drunk. he says ok im just not gonna talk to eather one of you theres to &*^% going on later. ok about a week later we talk everything is still cool, still trying to work things out with the wife told her last night i was going to the casino witch i did then i stoped by his place to chill for a couple of hours. today next day i get a call from my current wife"3 months till its finalized" with her calling me a liar you werent at the casino so that tells me there still chilling what should i do what would you do?
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Ummmm..... I cant read that.

But it sound like your buddy is porking your wife. Sucks for you man.
 
Originally posted by: logic0010
yes drunk will fix when not drunk but you get the just current wife means legaly papers signed now i have to wait 3 months
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Maybe she just got bored with you 3rd grade education, I mean, wow. I have no idea what that means. No, Idea.
 
Originally posted by: logic0010
ok me and my wife are splitting up. I still want to stay with her and work things out. shes been talking to a friend of mine. he isnt helping things out.i ask him not to talk to her anymore. so a few weeks go buy there still taking. ok so i dont say anything . i go over to his house shes there, ok NOT COOL. i dont say anything to her and she finally leaves. few beers later i leave. i get drunk one night last week and say some things to him i dident mean, like "damit i asked you not to talk to her i guess you just dont get the point if theres any more of this crap theres gonna be drama...ect really drunk. he says ok im just not gonna talk to eather one of you theres to &*^% going on later. ok about a week later we talk everything is still cool, still trying to work things out with the wife told her last night i was going to the casino witch i did then i stoped by his place to chill for a couple of hours. today next day i get a call from my current wife"3 months till its finalized" with her calling me a liar you werent at the casino so that tells me there still chilling what should i do what would you do?
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Wow! So much drama and drinking problem in your marital life. I remember your original post in regards to your wife wanting to divorce you. You were drunk that night too. I think you also spoke of custody of the kids.

I think you should seek professional help here. It certainly isn't all about your friend and your soon-to-be ex-wife. She obviously couldn't trust you and isn't patient with you. Who knows, she may be befriending your friend just to compete against you and provoke you. There's a whole lot of issues, drama and complications here. This one is too complex and needs professional intervention.

P.S. The irony of your nick!
 
Sorry you're having marital problems, sounds like she's already bailed on the relationship.

If your friend isn't enought of a friend to stay away from her, get another friend.

Tell us more stories...
 
update .....friend told her last night to F%&k off, woot woot he showed me every email she has sent and all 168 text messages

i have full custody of the kids thoes papers were singed 2 weeks ago

she wants to work things out with me...this she told me face to face last night my responce was"i got a sheet of paper balled it up and said that was our realationship, followed up by saying i dident want used goods"

now i can stop drinking atm

also did anybody know any cell phone can have gps tracking on it?
 
Originally posted by: logic0010
update .....friend told her last night to F%&k off, woot woot he showed me every email she has sent and all 168 text messages

i have full custody of the kids thoes papers were singed 2 weeks ago

she wants to work things out with me...this she told me face to face last night my responce was"i got a sheet of paper balled it up and said that was our realationship, followed up by saying i dident want used goods"

now i can stop drinking atm

also did anybody know any cell phone can have gps tracking on it?
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I find your username ironic.
 
Originally posted by: logic0010
ok me and my wife are splitting up. I still want to stay with her and work things out. shes been talking to a friend of mine. he isnt helping things out.i ask him not to talk to her anymore. so a few weeks go buy there still taking. ok so i dont say anything . i go over to his house shes there, ok NOT COOL. i dont say anything to her and she finally leaves. few beers later i leave. i get drunk one night last week and say some things to him i dident mean, like "damit i asked you not to talk to her i guess you just dont get the point if theres any more of this crap theres gonna be drama...ect really drunk. he says ok im just not gonna talk to eather one of you theres to &*^% going on later. ok about a week later we talk everything is still cool, still trying to work things out with the wife told her last night i was going to the casino witch i did then i stoped by his place to chill for a couple of hours. today next day i get a call from my current wife"3 months till its finalized" with her calling me a liar you werent at the casino so that tells me there still chilling what should i do what would you do?
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