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wow the OP sure is ridiculous. isnt this the guy who posted the other day who didn't know what she meant when she told him she wanted him to meet her friends ?!?

this thread is even sadder 🙁. sometimes the YAGT threads on here make me feel like a celebrity.
 
Originally posted by: frankierx
Originally posted by: blazert40
People who overanalyze suck
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I know....my relatives tell me the same thing about me overanalyzing. I have gotten better at not doing it.
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So when is this giong to start taking effect? this is your 2nd thread where you have gone way overboard with the analyzing.
 
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).

Well, the best advice you can take was given by Ryuson99, you have to understand from her viewpoint shes kind of torn between you and her bf and she might be taking a short break from you to reevaluate what she wants. Can you blame her for visiting her bf? I mean in the end, he is her bf, and they were togather long before you met - so its not like shes cheating on you, if anything, if mr bf were to find out hed feel like shes cheating on him.
 
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).
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What half do i fit in? I know they have taste so i don't bother trying...but i do have a super high post count. Oh the humanity!
 
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).

Well, the best advice you can take was given by Ryuson99, you have to understand from her viewpoint shes kind of torn between you and her bf and she might be taking a short break from you to reevaluate what she wants. Can you blame her for visiting her bf? I mean in the end, he is her bf, and they were togather long before you met - so its not like shes cheating on you, if anything, if mr bf were to find out hed feel like shes cheating on him.
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or maybe she wants to be just friends with him. OP, you do realize that friends are allowed to go bowling, rub each others shoulders, let you touch their hand, and .... yes, to your shock, even HUG!!!

just cause she talks to you doesnt mean she wants to be in wedlock tomorrow.
 
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).

Well, the best advice you can take was given by Ryuson99, you have to understand from her viewpoint shes kind of torn between you and her bf and she might be taking a short break from you to reevaluate what she wants. Can you blame her for visiting her bf? I mean in the end, he is her bf, and they were togather long before you met - so its not like shes cheating on you, if anything, if mr bf were to find out hed feel like shes cheating on him.
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You're right. I should take her email to me this morning as the fact that she most likely went to see mr bf and realized where her loyalty is and to wish me a good time on my vacation instead of thinking about seeing her again. I think maybe I may not hear from her for a little while. I should let this one go and not call her until I hear from her if any. I think I may need some time away from her so I can get myself going.
 
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).

Well, the best advice you can take was given by Ryuson99, you have to understand from her viewpoint shes kind of torn between you and her bf and she might be taking a short break from you to reevaluate what she wants. Can you blame her for visiting her bf? I mean in the end, he is her bf, and they were togather long before you met - so its not like shes cheating on you, if anything, if mr bf were to find out hed feel like shes cheating on him.
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You're right. I should take her email to me this morning as the fact that she most likely went to see mr bf and realized where her loyalty is and to wish me a good time on my vacation instead of thinking about seeing her again. I think maybe I may not hear from her for a little while. I should let this one go and not call her until I hear from her if any. I think I may need some time away from her so I can get myself going.




Originally posted by: AlStan1981
Originally posted by: chiwawa626
Not the place to get advice on the opposite sex, or the same sex for that matter - half of atot thinks girls are just walking boobs, and the other half thinks they're evil (hence theyre super high post counts 😉).

Well, the best advice you can take was given by Ryuson99, you have to understand from her viewpoint shes kind of torn between you and her bf and she might be taking a short break from you to reevaluate what she wants. Can you blame her for visiting her bf? I mean in the end, he is her bf, and they were togather long before you met - so its not like shes cheating on you, if anything, if mr bf were to find out hed feel like shes cheating on him.
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or maybe she wants to be just friends with him. OP, you do realize that friends are allowed to go bowling, rub each others shoulders, let you touch their hand, and .... yes, to your shock, even HUG!!!

just cause she talks to you doesnt mean she wants to be in wedlock tomorrow.
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You're right on this one also. I am such a newb. She did mention twice that I should meet her friend who has my same birthday. I get the feeling of a match-up here. I should just go with the flow here, like I normally do in everyday life happenings.
 
Originally posted by: frankierx
You're right on this one also. I am such a newb. She did mention twice that I should meet her friend who has my same birthday. I get the feeling of a match-up here. I should just go with the flow here, like I normally do in everyday life happenings.
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Go for the match-up. Could turn out to be a wonderful thing.
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Originally posted by: ragazzo
Originally posted by: frankierx
You're right on this one also. I am such a newb. She did mention twice that I should meet her friend who has my same birthday. I get the feeling of a match-up here. I should just go with the flow here, like I normally do in everyday life happenings.
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Go for the match-up. Could turn out to be a wonderful thing.
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exactly!

date people act cool with her friends,hey if she really likes you and wants to be with you she will find a way to let you know, trust me on that. same way girls let you know when they mad they let you know when the like you.
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Run, Run Far.

1. She is off limits, She has a BF.

2. You are actually thinking about the possiblity of affection when her BF has cancer? Then you get upset cause she cancels plans with you? How pathetic.

3. You over analyze sh!t.

 
Originally posted by: Ryuson99
Originally posted by: ragazzo
Originally posted by: frankierx
You're right on this one also. I am such a newb. She did mention twice that I should meet her friend who has my same birthday. I get the feeling of a match-up here. I should just go with the flow here, like I normally do in everyday life happenings.
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Go for the match-up. Could turn out to be a wonderful thing.
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exactly!

date people act cool with her friends,hey if she really likes you and wants to be with you she will find a way to let you know, trust me on that. same way girls let you know when they mad they let you know when the like you.
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are you referring to if my friend will end up liking me or her friend will end up liking me?
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taken from another forum:



QUOTE (frankierx @ Oct 21 2004, 12:25 AM)
Her bf has leukemia and is on the west coast, while we are on the east coast.

QUOTE (Pheran @ Oct 21 2004, 09:41 PM)
Sheesh, I can't believe that no one has ripped you a new one yet. Spidey, where are you?

QUOTE (spidey07 @ Oct 21 2004, 09:55 PM)
Well in this case, she's looking for an out.

And long distance don't work. For this reason alone - people need contact for a relationship to thrive.


my response:

Thank you spidey. I conduct myself with a carefree attitude. I think she likes this about me. Prolly why she wants to keep being friends with me. She knows I am going out of town for the next 3 days to visit my alma mater and some old friends of mine. She is wishing me a great 4 day weekend.

on a side note, she has mentioned to me her favorite song when it was playing on the radio. It talked about feeling dead inside. When we were bowling with her sister and sister's bf and sister's bf's friends, I managed to put a smile on her face most of the time. Especially when I gave her a small shoulder, arm massage saying that there 'seems to be some life left in her arm'. Also when i held her hands to notice that her newly done nails looked to be perfect as 'unreal nails' are.

On another side note, I just re-read my last email from her stating that she just got home and is sorry for canceling on our museum plans and is wishing me well on my trip out of town. The email was timed at 2 am, so I guess she really is at home and not on the west coast seeing another person in mind. I guess I'm really paranoid. I should trust what my friends say to me, they mean me no harm.

 
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