Intel's official specs call for an absolute maximum of 1.875V for VDIMM for the core i7 platform, but I've heard somewhere ( can't remember) VDIMM and QPI voltage should be within .3 or .5V of each other or you'll run into problems. Because the memory controller is integrated into the CPU, you run the risk of frying your (expensive) CPU if you set your VDIMM too high.
You automatically OC your RAM when you OC your CPU ( unless, of course, you have the Extreme chip) because the BCLK affects most if not all clocks in the CPU, which includes the DRAM clock. (On the Extreme chip you can OC the lazy way by just dialing up the multiplier.) Most MB should allow you to adjust the DRAM multiplier if you don't want to push your RAM too hard ( or the other way around).
You automatically OC your RAM when you OC your CPU ( unless, of course, you have the Extreme chip) because the BCLK affects most if not all clocks in the CPU, which includes the DRAM clock. (On the Extreme chip you can OC the lazy way by just dialing up the multiplier.) Most MB should allow you to adjust the DRAM multiplier if you don't want to push your RAM too hard ( or the other way around).