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French Families Adopt U.S. Graves in Normandy

I'm curious what the usual resident France haters would think about this story?

French Families Adopt U.S. Graves in Normandy
by Eleanor Beardsley

Morning Edition, May 26, 2008 · Eight years ago, a French couple founded an organization that adopts graves of American servicemen who died during the Normandy invasion of World War II. The volunteer group encourages French families to lay flowers on the graves when the Americans' own families can't do it.

High on a bluff above Omaha Beach, the American cemetery at Colleville-sur-Mer is a place of stunning beauty and tranquility. Rising from thick, manicured grass, rows of white crosses and stars of David face westward, towards America.

It's hard to imagine that 64 years ago, war raged here. But there are the 10,000 graves to prove it.

Among them is the uncle of a North Carolina NPR listener, Jennie Malcolm. Walter Malcolm was killed near here, two month after D-Day. Last summer, while investigating her uncle's death, Jennie Malcolm came across the French volunteer organization, Les Fleurs de la Memoire, or Flowers of Memory.

Malcolm said she mustered up her best French and asked if flowers could be placed on her uncle's grave. Two months later she received a photo of his grave in the mail. "It was quite an emotional experience," she says.

Malcolm was particularly touched because her uncle's immediate family are all now dead, and no one had ever visited his grave. MarieTherese La Vieille, who founded the organization eight years ago with her husband, says its important that each soldier be remembered when their own families cant come anymore.

"When we joined, we promised to visit the grave once a year and to lay flowers on the grave," she says. "Sometimes people take flowers from their own gardens. And they say it is like a son, like a cousin, like a brother. It is a member of the family."

This year dozens of members of Les Fleurs de la Memoire have shown up at Colleville-sur-Mer for the annual Memorial Day ceremony, which begins with a flyover by U.S. fighter jets in the missing-man formation.

A French priest recites the Lord's Prayer, then a rabbi chants the Kadish. And a French military band plays the "Star-Spangled Banner."

But behind the grand ceremony, a simple tribute unfolds at the back of the cemetery. Jean Michel Miette, 50, kneels in front of the grave of Jennie's uncle, Pvt. 1st Class Walter C. Malcolm. Miette is the one who adopted Malcolm's grave and he has come from Paris this morning to honor him.

Miette, like Jennie Malcolm, discovered Les Fleurs de la Memoire last summer. He says the organization has enabled him to honor the American soldiers who sacrificed their lives for his country and for liberty.

"With enormous emotion in my heart, I want to say thank you, Walter," Miette says. "I will never forget you or your heroic compatriots."

Since Les Fleurs de la Memoire brought them together, Jean Michel and Jennie Malcolm now speak regularly on the phone. She says she feels her uncle finally has family to visit his grave.

What a heart-warming story! :thumbsup:
 
Do I believe my eyes? A positive story about the French regarding the US? 😉

Seriously though, kudos to the people involved with this project. :thumbsup:
 
Originally posted by: Genx87
Wow, a big :thumbsup:

This is the America we were and can be again, and the France which also is and which the retarded xenophobic haters that are our vocal minority will never begin to know.

It is high time we took back our country and our ideals from the Fox led right wing. When we have done rightly in the world, we have been justly loved. When we have been Bush league, we are rightly feared and distrusted.

I want my country back. At our best, we are a LIBERAL nation, which can truly bask in the probity and pragmatic idealism of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Harry S. Truman, Dwight David Eishenhower, and John Fitzgerald Kennedy, NOT Nixon, Reagan, Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld and Rove.

May God once again bless the United States of America! :thumbsup:

 
This is about respect for human beings and the sacrifices that they made. It has nothing to do with nationalism whether it be French or American.

If only everyone were able to reach this level of understanding.
 
I give this two thumbs up, :thumbsup: :thumbsup: , because its a private organization doing it and not the French government.
 
Personally, I don't care if it's the French government, a private organization, or just a group of thankful citizens who is doing this. I'm just glad to see them do it.

Far too many people are trying to turn Memorial Day into a "Support our Troops" day, when in reality, it's a day to recognize and remember those troops who didn't come home. Memorial Day is to remember the dead; Veteran's Day is the day to remember the living.
 
Originally posted by: Robor
Do I believe my eyes? A positive story about the French regarding the US? 😉

Seriously though, kudos to the people involved with this project. :thumbsup:

Edit: To clarify, I didn't mean my original reply as a 'dig' on the French. I mean it to say it seems like every time I read or see anything about the French it's negative and it's nice to see a positive story.

Edit2: Oops, I just quoted myself instead of editing. 😱
 
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.
 
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.

If only the French had realized earlier what asses the US would foster they may have thought twice about aiding the Revolutionaries in their struggle. Basically, a stupid premise.
 
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Genx87
Wow, a big :thumbsup:

This is the America we were and can be again, and the France which also is and which the retarded xenophobic haters that are our vocal minority will never begin to know.

It is high time we took back our country and our ideals from the Fox led right wing. When we have done rightly in the world, we have been justly loved. When we have been Bush league, we are rightly feared and distrusted.

I want my country back. At our best, we are a LIBERAL nation, which can truly bask in the probity and pragmatic idealism of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Harry S. Truman, Dwight David Eishenhower, and John Fitzgerald Kennedy, NOT Nixon, Reagan, Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld and Rove.

May God once again bless the United States of America! :thumbsup:

Way to cheapen this thread with your partisan political bullshit. Bravo.
 
Originally posted by: glutenberg
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.

If only the French had realized earlier what asses the US would foster they may have thought twice about aiding the Revolutionaries in their struggle. Basically, a stupid premise.

Well, they failed in their intentions, so no they shouldn't have helped the American revolutionaries. They were also one of America's first enemies. It also doesn't seem like a fair trade considering how many Americans died in France (10,000 alone in this one graveyard).
 
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.
What the hell are you talking about??

A future in which Europe would be free of warfare compared to a recent past that had seen multiple major wars. Seems like we did a good thing.
 
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.
What the hell are you talking about??

A future in which Europe would be free of warfare compared to a recent past that had seen multiple major wars. Seems like we did a good thing.

CoW has an abiding hatred of all things Europe, and oftentimes, Canada. It's been in evidence forever but the source must be a truly interesting story.
 
Originally posted by: Mxylplyx
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Genx87
Wow, a big :thumbsup:

This is the America we were and can be again, and the France which also is and which the retarded xenophobic haters that are our vocal minority will never begin to know.

It is high time we took back our country and our ideals from the Fox led right wing. When we have done rightly in the world, we have been justly loved. When we have been Bush league, we are rightly feared and distrusted.

I want my country back. At our best, we are a LIBERAL nation, which can truly bask in the probity and pragmatic idealism of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Harry S. Truman, Dwight David Eishenhower, and John Fitzgerald Kennedy, NOT Nixon, Reagan, Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld and Rove.

May God once again bless the United States of America! :thumbsup:

Way to cheapen this thread with your partisan political bullshit. Bravo.

It's all about taking MY country back from people like you. We were better once, and we can be again. :thumbsup:

 
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.
What the hell are you talking about??

A future in which Europe would be free of warfare compared to a recent past that had seen multiple major wars. Seems like we did a good thing.

I didn't know that Europe was free of warfare. They had a genocide and war last decade.

France was freed to allow to commit genocides in Algeria, Rwanda, etc. after the war. Do you think that the Americans who died did so for a worthy cause when looking back at French history since WW2?
 
@CanOWorms :

Considering the US's intervention in WWII paved the way for them to proactively seek the dismantling of all the former European empires I would have thought you of all people would at least see some benefit from the sacrifices made by those many brave men that fought and died in the country you loathe so much. Or are you suggesting that a Nazi empire is somehow preferable to what we've reached today?

I'm curious how many Europeans you actually know, are we really all so tainted by our history regardless of our own personal character that you detest us all. Or is it merely the nation states themselves?

I for one think what?s being done here has its intentions in the right place regardless of your political leanings.
 
Originally posted by: ShinGouki
@CanOWorms :

Considering the US's intervention in WWII paved the way for them to proactively seek the dismantling of all the former European empires I would have thought you of all people would at least see some benefit from the sacrifices made by those many brave men that fought and died in the country you loathe so much. Or are you suggesting that a Nazi empire is somehow preferable to what we've reached today?

I'm curious how many Europeans you actually know, are we really all so tainted by our history regardless of our own personal character that you detest us all. Or is it merely the nation states themselves?

I for one think what?s being done here has its intentions in the right place regardless of your political leanings.

Proactively seek the dismantling of their empires? That is putting a huge revisionist spin to it. After WW2 many of the European powers re-asserted control over their colonies and actively fought against independence. What do you call the Algerian War, First Indochina War, etc.

The job just wasn't finished. After the Nazis were defeated, the French & others should not have been allowed to re-establish themselves as world powers. These people could have sacrificed for so much more but instead we threw away their lives for a hollow victory.
 
Originally posted by: sirjonk
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
At least they're taking care of them. But it's unfortunate that so many American graves are there. Their deaths didn't really change anything. The Nazis were stopped only to allow the French to reign in their place. I don't think that many would have sacrificed their lives if they realized what was in store in the future.
What the hell are you talking about??

A future in which Europe would be free of warfare compared to a recent past that had seen multiple major wars. Seems like we did a good thing.

CoW has an abiding hatred of all things Europe, and oftentimes, Canada. It's been in evidence forever but the source must be a truly interesting story.

🙁 Is this true, CanOWorms? I thought we were pals!
 
"Proactively seek the dismantling of their empires? That is putting a huge revisionist spin to it. After WW2 many of the European powers re-asserted control over their colonies and actively fought against independence. What do you call the Algerian War, First Indochina War, etc. "

I'm not suggesting that the US is responsible for the decline of European Colonialism however it most certainly did accelerate + encourage that decline. That's not conspiracy theory or revisionism as far as I know it's fairly commonly accepted? America as a country founded on principles of self determination has always been ill at ease with the concept of Empire *I should point out that this is one of the things that I personally like about the US*. At a political level the US did actively encourage and seek a more rapid climbdown from the former days of colonialism.

I'm really starting to drag things off topic here though so if you want to discuss it further please start a thread, I for one am shutting up about that here.

I do think it's a shame that you can't find anything even slightly positive in the act itself regardless of whether you think the final outcome of the war itself was worth the loss.

"Malcolm was particularly touched because her uncle's immediate family are all now dead, and no one had ever visited his grave."
To try and find some common ground with you here and take the topic away from the war / empire and purely to a human level.

To me the result of this act is that a family member of the man that died has had the damage of that loss at least slightly blunted and knows that he will not be forgotten or abandoned in some foreign land that didn't even care about the sacrifice he made.
 
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Genx87
Wow, a big :thumbsup:

This is the America we were and can be again, and the France which also is and which the retarded xenophobic haters that are our vocal minority will never begin to know.

It is high time we took back our country and our ideals from the Fox led right wing. When we have done rightly in the world, we have been justly loved. When we have been Bush league, we are rightly feared and distrusted.

I want my country back. At our best, we are a LIBERAL nation, which can truly bask in the probity and pragmatic idealism of Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Harry S. Truman, Dwight David Eishenhower, and John Fitzgerald Kennedy, NOT Nixon, Reagan, Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld and Rove.

May God once again bless the United States of America! :thumbsup:

If you actually watch what happens in the UN, its the French that are the "xenophobic haters" They will literally do ANYTHING just to be on the opposite side of whatever the US delegation is in favor of. And if the US delegation switches sides on an issue, the French will typically come up with a reason to question the US's position and re-align themselves to be the US's opposite.

Despite whatever stereotypes of a french-hating-right-wing-red-neck-FOX-new-watching-teh-eval-etc you want to propagate here, general population surveys of both US and France show that the french are WAY more aggressive in thier mindsets to other countries (especially USA) than americans are.
 
Honestly, I don't want to be rude but, don't take this as a sign of strong ties between USA and France. Frenchmen don't care about the US and they take every opportunity to make fun of it.
 
Originally posted by: sammyunltd
Honestly, I don't want to be rude but, don't take this as a sign of strong ties between USA and France. Frenchmen don't care about the US and they take every opportunity to make fun of it.

Frenchman care about whats for dinner....


On most days I agree with them
 
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