Your argument rings hollow to me.
People do die of natural and other causes approaching 100% (not everyone has died yet so it’s not 100%)
Kids however don’t. In the US they have the following chances to die:
- 0-1 years old 0.58%
- 1-4 years old 0.025%
- 5-15 years old 0.013%
Even the worst country has an infant mortality rate over the 1st year of 6%.
Trying to conceive under your definition of life and death however is a 30-70% chance of death depending on the age of the parents when trying to conceive.
Taking the abortion drug RU486 runs 91-98% chance depending on the week after conceiving it’s taken.
So your argument is making a choice that has a 90% chance to result in the death of an innocent child is immoral but making a choice with a 70% chance of death is moral because:
- Everybody dies so that’s no reason not to do what you want (even though born kids actually have 100 times less chance of dying)
- You don’t want that to happen so you aren’t responsible if it does. (Even though it’s a directly foreseeable outcome from your decision)
Maybe you think it’s ok because God told you be fruitful and multiply. So any spontaneous abortion doesn’t really count as a dead kid. But did it ever occur to you that maybe it doesn’t count that early in pregnancy because it really isn’t a person yet?