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Originally posted by: bubbadu
Originally posted by: Wahsapa
dood, sometimes having a bf or gf doesnt mean anything. hes waaay far away and your right there. if your smooth enough you can hit that in no time.
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Yep thats what I am figuring, I am going to play the nice guy for the next month of so. For example, her car broke down yesterday so I offered to bring her to work and did. Always willing to give extra help, although she really doesnt need any. She in general had a really crappy week, and I tried to help her make it better in general. I am just holding back from any moves right now because there was a boyfriend mentioned.
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Play it cool? Nothing cool about passing up a change to score. Keep it up and she will see you as a friend and the next thing you know someone else will be jumping those bones.
 
Originally posted by: bubbadu
So over this summer, I am taking a 5 day a week, 6 week class. The first day, this very nice looking blonde sits next to me and I immediately gave her the thumbs up. She needed some help with the math program we use and I of course helped out. She was very friendly and was always smiling and laughing, definlty gave a good vibe. Turns out she doesn't go to my school, she goes to Mcgill up in Montreal but is from VT. A couple of days into the class, she said "Hey you want to go to the libary after class" I figured why not and we went to do some work. Well no work got done and we ended up talking for about an hour. This continued for about a week, with no negative signs whatsoever, which I know was too good to be true. Then one day before class, some kid had a (insert vermont town) shirt on and she drops "Do you live there?, my boyfriend is from there" 🙁 That same day, she asked if I wanted to do work after class and I agreed, and again nothing really got accomplished, we just sat and made small talk. I know for a fact that this guy is not around, because shes always working for now or in class. Since then, that was the only mention of a boyfriend. I have noticed that most girls tend to never shut up about their boyfriend, but this one hasnt said a damn thing, even when given a chance to make any sort of comment.. I know I should probaly just relax and let her do her thing, but a piece of me wants to find out if this boyfriend is on the way out. Its just tough to see someone like this slip away to never to be seen again. 😕

Problems:
-Has a boyfriend or so it appears
-Will return to canada in like a month (limited time to work with anyway)
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"tell her you want her to touch your tra la la"
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: bubbadu
So over this summer, I am taking a 5 day a week, 6 week class. The first day, this very nice looking blonde sits next to me and I immediately gave her the thumbs up. She needed some help with the math program we use and I of course helped out. She was very friendly and was always smiling and laughing, definlty gave a good vibe. Turns out she doesn't go to my school, she goes to Mcgill up in Montreal but is from VT. A couple of days into the class, she said "Hey you want to go to the libary after class" I figured why not and we went to do some work. Well no work got done and we ended up talking for about an hour. This continued for about a week, with no negative signs whatsoever, which I know was too good to be true. Then one day before class, some kid had a (insert vermont town) shirt on and she drops "Do you live there?, my boyfriend is from there" 🙁 That same day, she asked if I wanted to do work after class and I agreed, and again nothing really got accomplished, we just sat and made small talk. I know for a fact that this guy is not around, because shes always working for now or in class. Since then, that was the only mention of a boyfriend. I have noticed that most girls tend to never shut up about their boyfriend, but this one hasnt said a damn thing, even when given a chance to make any sort of comment.. I know I should probaly just relax and let her do her thing, but a piece of me wants to find out if this boyfriend is on the way out. Its just tough to see someone like this slip away to never to be seen again. 😕

Problems:
-Has a boyfriend or so it appears
-Will return to canada in like a month (limited time to work with anyway)
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"tell her you want her to touch your tra la la"
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Gunther is da man!
 
^Bump, nothing really happened in the past week, we hung out and did work after class a couple of times, thats about it. Like I said, she had a horrible week last week, so I didnt want to push the boyfriend issue. I still dont know the real reason why she was having such a bad week, but it could be related to him, or at least thats what i hope. I think tomorrow after class i'll somehow work him into the converstation and see how solid that relationship is. If its shakey, I will take it from there.
 
Thats not the point, I just would like to know what happened last week that was crappy. I just find it wierd that shes mentioned this guy once, I figured I would hear about him every 10 seconds to get her point accross that shes taken.
 
Originally posted by: PowderBB3D
Steal a girl from her boyfriend while they're in a rough patch.

You're a hero. :thumbsdown:
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yeah seriously. i was going to give him a thumbs up until that part...

wtf dude :thumbsdown:
 
I have no idea if they are having problems, her week probaly just went crappy in other areas. I figured I would find out what happened, that way at least she knows I care.
 
No such thing as a "perfect" girl. She wouldn't be hanging out with some dude she just met for no particular reason if she was "perfect'.
But wait, she just wants some hot sex while she's away from home.....maybe she is perfect. 😉
 
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
if you gave her the thumbs up when she sat down next to you, she might have gotten the impression youre a little slow in the head, which is why she's been acting so nice.
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hahahaha, omg I laughed so hard at that after reading it all up to that point
 
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: bubbadu
So over this summer, I am taking a 5 day a week, 6 week class. The first day, this very nice looking blonde sits next to me and I immediately gave her the thumbs up. She needed some help with the math program we use and I of course helped out. She was very friendly and was always smiling and laughing, definlty gave a good vibe. Turns out she doesn't go to my school, she goes to Mcgill up in Montreal but is from VT. A couple of days into the class, she said "Hey you want to go to the libary after class" I figured why not and we went to do some work. Well no work got done and we ended up talking for about an hour. This continued for about a week, with no negative signs whatsoever, which I know was too good to be true. Then one day before class, some kid had a (insert vermont town) shirt on and she drops "Do you live there?, my boyfriend is from there" 🙁 That same day, she asked if I wanted to do work after class and I agreed, and again nothing really got accomplished, we just sat and made small talk. I know for a fact that this guy is not around, because shes always working for now or in class. Since then, that was the only mention of a boyfriend. I have noticed that most girls tend to never shut up about their boyfriend, but this one hasnt said a damn thing, even when given a chance to make any sort of comment.. I know I should probaly just relax and let her do her thing, but a piece of me wants to find out if this boyfriend is on the way out. Its just tough to see someone like this slip away to never to be seen again. 😕

Problems:
-Has a boyfriend or so it appears
-Will return to canada in like a month (limited time to work with anyway)
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"tell her you want her to touch your tra la la"
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heh
 
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: Ameesh
Originally posted by: bubbadu
So over this summer, I am taking a 5 day a week, 6 week class. The first day, this very nice looking blonde sits next to me and I immediately gave her the thumbs up. She needed some help with the math program we use and I of course helped out. She was very friendly and was always smiling and laughing, definlty gave a good vibe. Turns out she doesn't go to my school, she goes to Mcgill up in Montreal but is from VT. A couple of days into the class, she said "Hey you want to go to the libary after class" I figured why not and we went to do some work. Well no work got done and we ended up talking for about an hour. This continued for about a week, with no negative signs whatsoever, which I know was too good to be true. Then one day before class, some kid had a (insert vermont town) shirt on and she drops "Do you live there?, my boyfriend is from there" 🙁 That same day, she asked if I wanted to do work after class and I agreed, and again nothing really got accomplished, we just sat and made small talk. I know for a fact that this guy is not around, because shes always working for now or in class. Since then, that was the only mention of a boyfriend. I have noticed that most girls tend to never shut up about their boyfriend, but this one hasnt said a damn thing, even when given a chance to make any sort of comment.. I know I should probaly just relax and let her do her thing, but a piece of me wants to find out if this boyfriend is on the way out. Its just tough to see someone like this slip away to never to be seen again. 😕

Problems:
-Has a boyfriend or so it appears
-Will return to canada in like a month (limited time to work with anyway)
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"tell her you want her to touch your tra la la"
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Gunther is da man!
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You sir, are a true hero. :beer:
 
Are you guys in Burlington? I love visiting that place, there are always fine chicks wandering around on church street. 😎
 
Yeah she'll cheat on the BF with you.... but unlike some other people in this thread... don't assume you'll replace him. You're more like a temporary intimacy replacement tool. When's all said and done, she'll probably be back with the bf.

-Max
 
Originally posted by: Doboji
Yeah she'll cheat on the BF with you.... but unlike some other people in this thread... don't assume you'll replace him. You're more like a temporary intimacy replacement tool. When's all said and done, she'll probably be back with the bf.

-Max
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Right on, except, there is no guarantee he will see any action. some girls, damn them, are actually faithful. she could just be looking for the regular male attention she is lacking from her bf (not the special male attention)
 
Originally posted by: bubbadu
Thats not the point, I just would like to know what happened last week that was crappy. I just find it wierd that shes mentioned this guy once, I figured I would hear about him every 10 seconds to get her point accross that shes taken.
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As an addendum to my other post..

maybe she figured you were mature enough to handle the fact that she only had to mention it once... ?? However, they might be stretching it a wee bit aye?
 
I found the perfect girl once... but she was 5 years older (I was 16) and I was dating her sister at the time.

now she's married, but man. if they ever got divoriced, I'd be in my car and on the way 🙂
 
you've got nothing to lose by continuing to do what you're doing. That is, unless you have someone waiting in the wings already.

The way I see it, dog-eat-dog world.
 
Originally posted by: bubbadu
^Bump, nothing really happened in the past week, we hung out and did work after class a couple of times, thats about it. Like I said, she had a horrible week last week, so I didnt want to push the boyfriend issue. I still dont know the real reason why she was having such a bad week, but it could be related to him, or at least thats what i hope. I think tomorrow after class i'll somehow work him into the converstation and see how solid that relationship is. If its shakey, I will take it from there.
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bubbadu, if you're trying to score, then bringing up her bf isnt going to do you any good. it'll will only work towards her conscience, and you may not get any. like other had said, if she can cheat on her bf, then she can cheat on you. definitely not a keeper. like the saying goes...once a cheater, always a cheater.
 
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