So my new job has been keeping me really busy and I have 2-3 more trips in the next month and a half. Our side business has also been picking up so, even between the two of us, household tasks and choirs are starting to pile up.
Anyone else in a similar situation or has been in a similar situation? Do you just start hiring out more work like lawn care, food prep or even get a maid service?
I work in freelance IT & do an average of 70 hours a week, plus I have a family, and then any time leftover is for hobbies & whatnot (cooking, VR, etc.), so my schedule is fairly defined & packed. My outlet is basically cruising forums online while waiting for computer jobs to finish, lol.
So the first question is, do you want to do the tasks yourself, or do you want to hire them out? Hiring them out can be surprisingly affordable, if your budget allows for it. Plus you not only get your free time back, but you get the mental load of having to handle everything removed - you define the results you want, you hire the appropriate person or company to manage it for you, and as long as you pay your bills & babysit their results to make sure they're doing what you want, then everything is taken care of for you, which is really nice.
For me, however, I'm particular about my stuff & my personal space. I'm not a control freak by any means, but I do like getting the results done my way, because I get irritated when things aren't done the way I want them done. Not to the point of OCD, but like, it took me a really long time to figure out how to combine "I want to do it all myself, my way" with "I have a huge amount of stuff to do, so how do I manage it all, based on my limited schedule & even more limited mental energy to deal with things?". The good news is that I did finally crack the code, and it is extremely easy to manage. I can go into more detail if you want, but I don't want to type it all out if you don't plan on doing it yourself & want to hire it out instead, lol.