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Originally posted by: Mursilis
Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: alchemize
So what is the strongest anti-gay marriage argument, in your mind?
Logically, nothing. There is no reason two consenting adults may not do whatever they want to each other (ideally).

Why only two? By your logic, wouldn't three or more consenting adults be allowed to enter into a multi-party marriage (forgot the sociological name for that sort of marriage)?

What would be the problem with this? If all persons involved are consenting adults, who are you and I to tell them what they cannot do?
 
Originally posted by: halik
common now you can argue for any kind of oxymoron / idiocy using "well according to PETA... " 😉
Word. According to NAMBLA, grown men should be able to fondle little boys. The majority thinks otherwise. 😛
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Originally posted by: Mursilis
Why only two? By your logic, wouldn't three or more consenting adults be allowed to enter into a multi-party marriage (forgot the sociological name for that sort of marriage)?

What would be the problem with this? If all persons involved are consenting adults, who are you and I to tell them what they cannot do?
My oversight - I didn't think people would be picking at my wording. 😛 Sure, if two-plus consenting adults want to get hitched together, let 'em. I know that Islam technically allows the marriage of one man to multiple women anyways (but not one woman to multiple men).
 
Originally posted by: cobalt
Originally posted by: CADsortaGUY
Originally posted by: yllus
This is a really dumb question. First, refresh in your own mind the definition of what's required to complete a contract.

Heterosexual adult marrying a heterosexual adult = Two sentient beings coming to a meeting of the minds to marry. Both parties are considered persons in the eyes of the law. No problem.

Homosexual adult marrying a homosexual adult = Two sentient beings coming to a meeting of the minds to marry. Both parties are considered persons in the eyes of the law. No problem.

Heterosexual adult marrying a dog = One sentient being, one dog. Meetings of the minds? No. Both parties are NOT considered persons in the eyes of the law. Problem.

Heterosexual adult marrying a car = One sentient being, one car. Meetings of the minds? No. Both parties are NOT considered persons in the eyes of the law. Problem.

I and many others are for allowing a person in the eyes of the law - who is otherwise allowed to drink, smoke or join the military and die for their country - to choose to be with anyone they wish. Simple.

According to PETA - Turkeys are "sentient" beings. 😉

CsG

Well who listens to PETA? Their brains have been deprived of meat for so long, how could you believe anything they say? 😉
I believe they eat meat regularly, its just that they prefer others not to so their will be more meat for the meat lovers. 🙂
Peta is all about raising money to buy more meat rather then saving animals from being eaten. They are scam artist who bites more then they can chew.
Their is never enough meat for everyone that's why their is fish, crab, shrimp, oyster as well and even dog meat in Asia due to lack of chickens, pigs, and cows. Proof that if that less people eat meat, then their will be more available for others who crave it most.

Meat, its what for dinner tonight 😉

Did you know that only peasants were allowed to eat vegetable in ancient times? Only the nobles were worthy of eating meat.

 
How will my life have meaning if I cannot marry my Griffin Kompressor B4c?

Besides, you haven't met some of the spouses I've met. Some of them are certainly NON-HUMAN OBJECTS.


😕

-Robert
 
This sounds like a slipperly slope argument, "where do we draw the line" and all that. From what I can see in this thread, some people at least seem to think that if gay marriage is legalized, then why not polygamy, or incest, or marrying your dog, or your car? This comes up every single time gay marriage is discussed and it's just as invalid an argument this time as it was the last 6 dozen times it was put forward.

Here's the problem, everyone has their own line, and the people who think gay marriage (and nothing else) should be changed to be legal draw the line EXACTLY THE SAME WAY the people who think only "regular" marriage should be allowed. All the situations are different, but I don't think very many people approve of gay marriage because they think all kinds of marriage should be legal. Asking why they don't think all kinds of marriage should be legal (after all, they think gay marriage should be legal) is silly. After all, YOU think one kind of marriage should be legal, while others remain illegal, so why can't they?
 
This reminds of when Pee-Wee said he loved fruit salad...

They said he should marry it...

and...he did...they even had a ceremony
 
I remember well what former Canadian prime minister Pierre Trudeau said: "the state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation."

It's really as simple as that. If they're a consenting adult and no serious harm is done, it shouldn't be illegal. It may not be moral in the eyes of some, but personal religious conviction shouldn't be forced upon others on a state level. After all, even if you seriously believe in encouraging a moral lifestyle, how can someone act out of genuine belief against their will?
 
Originally posted by: nick1985
this is a serious question, where do you draw the line? if an activist group wanted to marry their dogs, would you let them? what if a bunch of people wanted to wed their cars, would you let them? your argument, that we should not discriminate, applies here, does it not?

i'm interested in hearing why you think interracial marriage is ok, but homosexual marriage is not. or do you think interracial marriage should be illegal too?

the problem with marrying cars and dogs is that our laws are based on people, not animals or objects. if you kick the tires of your car, would you be guilty of domestic violence? what happens when you die, does all your money go to your car? just wouldn't work.
 
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the problem with marrying cars and dogs is that our laws are based on people, not animals or objects. if you kick the tires of your car, would you be guilty of domestic violence? what happens when you die, does all your money go to your car? just wouldn't work.[/quote]


That's funny.

I think what's important to recognize in this argument is that I'm right and everybody else is wrong.
 
Originally posted by: judasmachine
The Greeks, the Romans, and even the American Indian had no problem with homosexuals, why do we? It's apparently been around since the beginning of time, and will be around till the end of time.
The Greeks and Romans accepted homosexuality without allowing homosexual marriages. Were they bigots? Was their reasoning faith-based as people here claim all arguments against homosexual marriages must be?

Yllus, if you want to allow any consenting adults to marry, then you must be willing to allow incest, correct? After all, both me and my sister are above the age of consent, so we should be able to do as we see fit.
 
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: judasmachine
The Greeks, the Romans, and even the American Indian had no problem with homosexuals, why do we? It's apparently been around since the beginning of time, and will be around till the end of time.
The Greeks and Romans accepted homosexuality without allowing homosexual marriages. Were they bigots? Was their reasoning faith-based as people here claim all arguments against homosexual marriages must be?

Yllus, if you want to allow any consenting adults to marry, then you must be willing to allow incest, correct? After all, both me and my sister are above the age of consent, so we should be able to do as we see fit.

Well, marriages served a very different societal sole in those ancient mediteranian cultures. I'm not sure it is even legitimate to compare the contemporary and ancient institutions of marriage in the way you are doing, I think you would be engaging in a fallacy of equivocation. Worlds apart.
 
Well, marriages served a very different societal sole in those ancient mediteranian cultures. I'm not sure it is even legitimate to compare the contemporary and ancient institutions of marriage in the way you are doing, I think you would be engaging in a fallacy of equivocation. Worlds apart.

Aye, that he would. Marriage back then was more of a financial arrangement, or an agreement between families. It's sort of like permanent roomates that make babies.
 
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Yllus, if you want to allow any consenting adults to marry, then you must be willing to allow incest, correct? After all, both me and my sister are above the age of consent, so we should be able to do as we see fit.

You would allow only adult, heterosexual couples that are not genetically related to marry. I would allow adult, heterosexual OR homosexual couples that are not genetically related to marry. Please explain why your descision on who may marry is any less arbitrary than mine?

 
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Yllus, if you want to allow any consenting adults to marry, then you must be willing to allow incest, correct? After all, both me and my sister are above the age of consent, so we should be able to do as we see fit.

If there are indeed brother-sister couples (or brother-brother couples, sister-sister couples) chomping at the bit to marry, then that is something worth talking about. To date, tho, I have not encountered such a couple (IRL, or in media) seeking to marry. At any rate, legalisation of marriage for close genetic relatives is an entirely separate issue to that of legalization of same-sex marriage. A gay marriage thread isn't the place for such a discussion, imo. Check your 'slippery slop' at the door, m8. 🙂


 
Originally posted by: nick1985
wow. almost 20% of P&N thinks people should be allowed to marry animals and cars.

simply stunning.

I betcha 20% of the people on P&N are lying to make it look like gay marriage supporters are wackos.
 
There is a legitimate reason to ban incestual marriage, as it causes genetic problems. Whereas with Gay marriage the only negative aspect I have heard is that it damages our "moral structure"... honestly I doubt gay marriage is gonna make people more privy to stealing and murdering.
 
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