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Beige

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Although joke remarks are welcome i would still like some serious answers on the topic. you know what i dont like...when women or girl only imply and like give hint games and were like suposed to get it?..why arent they more straight forward .

Now i know not all women are like this but it sure seems like alot are from personal experience and from observation in real life not tv.

My view is this: its not that we dont get it..its just we dont want to put the effort of gettting it.I look forward to everyones opinions and ideas especially from women.
 
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Adica

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It's interesting to hear all these theories from you men. Let's see what else you can come up with.:)
 
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meltdown75

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Originally posted by: Adica
It's interesting to hear all these theories from you men. Let's see what else you can come up with.:)
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here's another one. women suck. well, until you marry them :p
 
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doze

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It's all about luck. I think women like men because we don't get it, gives them the advantage. The harder we try the less we actually get, or when we think we got it, it turns out wrong.
 
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necine

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Originally posted by: Leper Messiah
Women want what they can't have, or what appears to be disinterested in them.
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This is true... You have to have the utmost confidence that you can get any girl. It's all about confidence, and not calling until you have established a relationship. Generally, just be a prick.
 
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Rainsford

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Originally posted by: necine
Originally posted by: Leper Messiah
Women want what they can't have, or what appears to be disinterested in them.
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This is true... You have to have the utmost confidence that you can get any girl. It's all about confidence, and not calling until you have established a relationship. Generally, just be a prick.
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Having confidence is not the same thing as being a prick. In fact, most guys who act like pricks do so BECAUSE they lack real confidence. While this may attract girls too stupid to know the difference, is that who you really want anyways?
 
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Leper Messiah

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: necine
Originally posted by: Leper Messiah
Women want what they can't have, or what appears to be disinterested in them.
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This is true... You have to have the utmost confidence that you can get any girl. It's all about confidence, and not calling until you have established a relationship. Generally, just be a prick.
Click to expand...

Having confidence is not the same thing as being a prick. In fact, most guys who act like pricks do so BECAUSE they lack real confidence. While this may attract girls too stupid to know the difference, is that who you really want anyways?
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depends if you're out for a booty call or an actual relationship.
 
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Rainsford

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As for "getting it"...guys and girls simply think and communicate differently. Women are all about subtle communication, a girl will spend several hours with her friends going over and over every little thing a guy said or did, trying to find some hidden meaning. The idea that us guys HAVE no hidden meaning is lost them, because girls do it, they assume we do too.
 
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Rainsford

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Originally posted by: Leper Messiah
Originally posted by: Rainsford
Originally posted by: necine
Originally posted by: Leper Messiah
Women want what they can't have, or what appears to be disinterested in them.
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This is true... You have to have the utmost confidence that you can get any girl. It's all about confidence, and not calling until you have established a relationship. Generally, just be a prick.
Click to expand...

Having confidence is not the same thing as being a prick. In fact, most guys who act like pricks do so BECAUSE they lack real confidence. While this may attract girls too stupid to know the difference, is that who you really want anyways?
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depends if you're out for a booty call or an actual relationship.
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Fair enough, guess I'm not usually the booty call type, so that does tend to color my approach ;)
 
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Beige

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
As for "getting it"...guys and girls simply think and communicate differently. Women are all about subtle communication, a girl will spend several hours with her friends going over and over every little thing a guy said or did, trying to find some hidden meaning. The idea that us guys HAVE no hidden meaning is lost them, because girls do it, they assume we do too.
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that hidden meaning stuff makes some sense to me.
 
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CQuinn

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" when women or girl only imply and like give hint games and were like suposed to get it?..why arent they more straight forward ."

That's what they wonder about you... from thier point of view they are being straigtforward, but you are not listening to the
right words to hear what they are trying to get across.

Women (to some degree) like to discuss what is bothering them as a way of working out thier problems, by communicating
they work thru the emotional connection they may feel to the problem, and put themselves in a better position to seek
or offer support within a community of others who are also working on the same (or similar) problems.

Men (to some degree) like to deal with what is bothering them by themselves, then talk about the solution they came up
with, the challenge of working thru the problem, or ask for enough help so they can go on to fix the rest of the problem
on thier own.

What guys tend to not understand is that women leave hints and imply things as a way to draw you into a more interesting
conversation, so they can talk thru many problems together. What girls tend not to understand is that guys see leaving
hints and implying things as not being intersted in getting to the point and talking about how to fix the problem at hand.

As a Guy, you may need to practice a little patience in hearing your lady friend out when she wants to leave hints, it will
help encourage her to talk thru what is on her mind as she gets to the "point" of what she started talking to you about
in the first place. (Keep in mind, sometimes the whole point is that she might just want to talk to you because she thinks
of you as someone she can trust to have a conversation with).

And when you feel comfortable enough to give her space to talk, you can talk back to her about guys sometimes needing
time to themselves to reflect on the things you have been talking about... (ie a nice way of saying: "Leave me alone for a
little while so I can watch the game")

 
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The Linuxator

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TBH I gave up on women after a 42 page thread about an attempt to get this Girl that was giving me all the right signs, I just couldn't take the mind games.

I couldn't "get it", if you are a girl and you know I care for you, and if you feel the same way that I do about you , then WTF blow everything up ? Why play mind games that might make the dude who was thinking "OMG she Rux0rz" think "OMG dat girl is da Sux0rz, I sm done with her, I will find me some girl that will give me some real feedback."

If you are a girl and you are reading this, it might not be too late to not become the "Sux0rz " in the eye of the guy who really cares for you, Dial 1-800-LINUXATOR for advice about not playing mind games with the guy of your dreams. ;)
 
moshquerade

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Beige
Although joke remarks are welcome i would still like some serious answers on the topic. you know what i dont like...when women or girl only imply and like give hint games and were like suposed to get it?..why arent they more straight forward .

Now i know not all women are like this but it sure seems like alot are from personal experience and from observation in real life not tv.

My view is this: its not that we dont get it..its just we dont want to put the effort of gettting it.I look forward to everyones opinions and ideas especially from women.
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don't hate the playa, hate the game.

it really is a game, and i think we each have our own way of playing it.

 
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Azndude2190

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
TBH I gave up on women after a 42 page thread about an attempt to get this Girl that was giving me all the right signs, I just couldn't take the mind games.

I couldn't "get it", if you are a girl and you know I care for you, and if you feel the same way that I do about you , then WTF blow everything up ? Why play mind games that might make the dude who was thinking "OMG she Rux0rz" think "OMG dat girl is da Sux0rz, I sm done with her, I will find me some girl that will give me some real feedback."

If you are a girl and you are reading this, it might not be too late to not become the "Sux0rz " in the eye of the guy who really cares for you, Dial 1-800-LINUXATOR for advice about not playing mind games with the guy of your dreams. ;)
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Obviously she doesnt care as much about you as you think...but there are plenty of fishes in the sea
 
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Ornery

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After 24 years of marriage, I can safely say they seem to think we can read their minds. Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus spells it all out very simply, concisely and accurately, no matter what detractors may say.

Honestly, women can't seem to just flat out tell you what's bugging them, you're supposed to "just know". Their body language is enough to clue you in, as far as they're concerned. Oh, and once they do decide to discuss a problem, they're not particularly interested in "solving" that problem, they just like to vent, so save your breath, and keep your solutions to yourself
 
GuitarDaddy

GuitarDaddy

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The interactions between men and women in dating practices is extremely difficult and confusing for both sexes. There is no rulebook:)

But when compared to arranged marriages, or assigned partnerships dating its definately a better option.
 
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