<< For a family, small cars suck. >>
Often true. However, many mothers and fathers will tell you they'd prefer a minivan, etc.
<< No elbow room, less safe and frequently anemic. >>
Most people I know like a bigger vehicle when they have kids, but the car being anemic is not really the problem. Mothers with 3 year old kids aren't going to be drag racing too often. As for being less safe, that simply isn't true. Some of the smaller Japanese and German cars have excellent safety ratings. Many don't but the same can be said about bigger cars. Big size does not equal safe. For example, the Beetle compact is rated as being safer than most mid-size American cars.
<< Your local cops drive what would more likely be the smarter solution for a family. >>
See above re: minivan.
<< If you live in the mountains, I'd still go for whatever the cops and rangers use in that area for my family too. >>
Well, some cops drive SUVs, which may be practical for some families. The rest still drive the same type of cruisers. I don't understand why you think police and families should drive the same cars.