Flowers on a first date?

aphex

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Yes, No?

Were going to see spiderman, its my first time going to just a movie for a first date...
 

Atrail

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I have done it before, we went to a see Miss Saigon (the musical) and ate at a really nice resturant though.
Just going to see Spiderman, not a good idea IMO.
 

eakers

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its not necessary but if you do dont go crazy and get roses just get something cute (like a gerber or something)


girls loooooove getting flowers!

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Czar

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too cheesy for my tast, but I'm a guy so what do I know about what girls want.

better skip it and just be yourself, if everything goes well ask her on a second date, if she approves then bring flowers :)
 

Hammer

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I wouldn't do it. It looks like you're trying to hard. If you do decide to get her something, make it a single rose. But I would still advise against it.
 

jcuadrado

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No roses period...also...have you done your homework?...do you know what she's like more or less? I've met many of girls when I was heavily dating...and many of them actually said that they loved flowers...but not on the first date....some feel pressure because of the flower but others don't...that's where you come in..if you do give her a non-rose flower...you have to make her feel at ease....use humor when appropriate...they like that too. :)

I also recommend you read some of the "girl" magazines....you can learn alot with them. :)
 

Shelly21

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I think it depends on your age.

if you're in highschool... girls are usually more materialistic. so It is somewhat important. however, it might backfire as they might end up expecting a flower in future dates.

if you're in college... i'd say no.

also depends on how close you're to that person. as i don't have any more info. that's all the advice I can give you.

 

pyonir

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hmm i would go with two dozen red long stem roses, babies breath, greens.... a big teddy bear....a box of chocolates too. and then give her a gift, wrapped in a satin like paper. and that gift should be a nightie. with a condom taped to it. and a note that says: now that we got this crap outta the way...lets do it!


good luck! :p
 

MazerRackham

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Originally posted by: hammer09
I wouldn't do it. It looks like you're trying to hard. If you do decide to get her something, make it a single rose. But I would still advise against it.

Yeah, don't do it dude. It's hard, but you've got to have chicks think you're not that interested in them at first, otherwise they will bore of you quickly ;)

IMHO, I think you should only get a woman flowers after copulation. But that's just my opinion, and YMMV ;)
 

N8Magic

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Originally posted by: pyonir
hmm i would go with two dozen red long stem roses, babies breath, greens.... a big teddy bear....a box of chocolates too. and then give her a gift, wrapped in a satin like paper. and that gift should be a nightie. with a condom taped to it. and a note that says: now that we got this crap outta the way...lets do it!

good luck! :p

Booyah! :p
 

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Originally posted by: pyonir
hmm i would go with two dozen red long stem roses, babies breath, greens.... a big teddy bear....a box of chocolates too. and then give her a gift, wrapped in a satin like paper. and that gift should be a nightie. with a condom taped to it. and a note that says: now that we got this crap outta the way...lets do it!


good luck! :p

blow me pyonir :D

hahaha, im off... decided against it... If we go out to dinner sometime, i'll bring some :D
 

pyonir

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Originally posted by: aphexIIblow me pyonir :D

hahaha, im off... decided against it... If we go out to dinner sometime, i'll bring some :D

isn't that what she is for?! :Q

:D have fun bro.
 

Bleep

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Not having dated for a long time but I think Women are pretty much the same, here is my opinion for what it is worth.
NO flowers. If the date goes well and you want to date again SOON then send flowers or flower with a nice card telling her what a wonderfull time you had.
Bleep
 

eleutheria

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If you are going to see Spider-Man, I suggest that you buy her a single spider mum (yes, it is a real flower.)
 

DaiShan

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Originally posted by: eakers
its not necessary but if you do dont go crazy and get roses just get something cute (like a gerber or something)


girls loooooove getting flowers!

*kat. <-- rhythms running over me and wash away my fears the back beat of humanity and sweeten my tears theres something thats connected us down throughout the years


no need to feel so lonely everyones addicted to bass.
Bass - Read Halik's sig about audiophilia.
 

jcuadrado

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Originally posted by: Bleep
Not having dated for a long time but I think Women are pretty much the same, here is my opinion for what it is worth.
NO flowers. If the date goes well and you want to date again SOON then send flowers or flower with a nice card telling her what a wonderfull time you had.
Bleep


almost...young padawan :) what you said about the date going well and SOON giving something is great work...but the part about the women are pretty much the same is deceiving...in a way yes....but in a lot more ways...no! :)
 

Shelly21

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Originally posted by: Bleep
Not having dated for a long time but I think Women are pretty much the same, here is my opinion for what it is worth.
NO flowers. If the date goes well and you want to date again SOON then send flowers or flower with a nice card telling her what a wonderfull time you had.
Bleep

That's a good idea... and the best place to send it is at her work.... she'd be the envy of all other girls there.
hmmmm I guess that depends on where she works.