Flirting

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Lifer
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Do you think there is anything morally wrong with flirting when you're involved/married with another person?
 

ElFenix

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since flirting doesn't mean anything then no. if it means something it's not flirting.
 

PanzerIV

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Flirting is very natural. Getting married doesn't mean you are a social outcast who shuns the attention of the opposite sex. If you were to carry it further and have an extramarital affair then you would have problems but simply flirting is harmless and happens all of the time.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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If you're flirting with someone other than your significant other, you're not really committed to them to begin with.
 

sillymofo

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Psssstt... strippers and waitresses are "suppose" to be flirty. Think nothing more of it, and go wash your hands and face.
 

amcdonald

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Its disrespectful to the person you are involved with. If you wouldn't want your girlfriend flirting with guys, then don't flirt... if neither of you mind then i guess its ok.
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: amcdonald
Its disrespectful to the person you are involved with. If you wouldn't want your girlfriend flirting with guys, then don't flirt... if neither of you mind then i guess its ok.

 

JulesMaximus

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As long as it's not the same person you are flirting with repeatedly I don't see any harm in it.
 

WhiteKnight

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I wouldn't want my gf doing it and I avoid flirting with other girls, but that's just me/us. I don't think that there's anything intrinsically wrong with it as long as it doesn't go too far.
 

Aharami

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Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
If you're flirting with someone other than your significant other, you're not really committed to them to begin with.

not true. you can flirt slightly with an attractive person without even knowing it
but as to the question...it probably isnt morally wrong, but i wouldnt want my gf to flirt with other guys and ive always gone by "do onto others as you expect them to do onto you." so i dont. i might be friendlier if a really hot chick is talkin to me...but i wouldnt call that "flirting"
 

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Lifer
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Wow, looks like we're split pretty much down the middle here, keep it up my little droogies!
 

Nanotech

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Disrespectful, YES....Morally wrong, NO.

Personally though I don't partake in flirting with other woman simply because I would not appreciate my woman flirting with other men. However, that doesn't mean I don't often think about it! ;)
 

isasir

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I don't see it as a big deal.

I've flirted with waitresses in front of my past two girlfriends and neither has a problem with it. In fact, they've both gone so far as to say they kinda like that I do it.... :confused:
 

vi edit

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My wife and I both do it. Flirting a bit with a receptionist or somebody at a service counter usually gets you better service.
 

dquan97

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I think it shouldn't be done just so you don't tempt yourself into something further than "flirting"
 

AmericasTeam

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Originally posted by: vi_edit
My wife and I both do it. Flirting a bit with a receptionist or somebody at a service counter usually gets you better service.

And who wouldn't want to be 'serviced' better ?
 
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Lola

I suppose some, maybe most think its ok, but i wouldnt do it just out of respect of my Fiance/husband