Bullshit. You can pull numbers out of your ass all day long & you won't convince anybody but yourself. $130K gross family income is somewhere well north of the 80th percentile. It's not like we're a nation of paupers.
Here's an example of a married couple in MN, two kids, and each spouse earns $70,000 for a combined income of $140,000. Assuming they both claim two exemptions, contribute 6% to 401k, and one pays $600/mo for family health insurance that gives them $8100/mo in net income.
-$2,000 Mortgage
-$150 Cable TV and internet
-$150 Cell Phones
-$200 Electricity and Natural Gas
-$100 Car Insurance
-$400 Car payment
-$50 Water/Sewer
-$50 Life Insurance
-$300 Student Loan payment
-$100 Other various bills
-$1000 Food
-$200 Clothes
-$100 Medical expenses (prescriptions, co-pays, etc.)
-$400 Entertainment
-$200 Gasoline
-$500 Roth IRA savings
-$200 Fun money
That leaves $2,000/month to save.
Even $140k doesn't go very far. This is just a standard middle class family. A six figure income isn't what it used to be.