First Impressions

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
i noticed how they are dressed, if their hair is fixed, how they speak, if they look me in the eye when they talk to me...

Bingo. And then when they aren't looking me in the eye, it gives me a chance to check them out

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: Skoorb

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
i noticed how they are dressed, if their hair is fixed, how they speak, if they look me in the eye when they talk to me...

Bingo. And then when they aren't looking me in the eye, it gives me a chance to check them out

all i can say to your response is HOW'D U GET 50K+ POSTS??

 

[nissan720]

I usually introduce myself.

 

[Atomicus]

I think "I hope she can hold a conversation and has a nice voice"

Gotta be able to talk to them, otherwise its a waste of time.

 

[mrrman]

Will there be a second date or not...meaning will I show up...

 

[Xyclone]

How pretty/hot they are, how they're dressed, if she has a nice personality (funny, relaxed, etc.), if she's fun, cool to hang out with usually gives me a good first impression.

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: alimoalem

Originally posted by: Skoorb

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
i noticed how they are dressed, if their hair is fixed, how they speak, if they look me in the eye when they talk to me...

Bingo. And then when they aren't looking me in the eye, it gives me a chance to check them out

all i can say to your response is HOW'D U GET 50K+ POSTS??

he hacks.

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: mrrman
Will there be a second date or not...meaning will I show up...

this isn't necessarily on a date. in general, if u meet a girl/guy, what first pops into your head?

 

[mrrman]

ah, personality of a person...spunk, is she pretty to me...if shes a dull person, I would not see her again

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
"Does she notice me looking at her breasts? I surely hope not."

That's what peripherial vision is for!

 

[hypn0tik]

Notice her eyes and smile. Then proceed to check her out.

 

[George P Burdell]

Originally posted by: InverseOfNeo
First, I have to actually show up for the date to notice her.

Just send her flowers and an apology card already, will ya?

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell

Originally posted by: InverseOfNeo
First, I have to actually show up for the date to notice her.

Just send her flowers and an apology card already, will ya?

i think he meant he has to first be interested....or he just forgot about her lol

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

Ladder theory anyone?

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[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: alimoalem
well the girl that asked me asked if it's true guys first think "can i beat him up"....what u guys think of that?

Well I've been involved with martial arts rather heavily, add to the fact that I'm asian and my university is situated in a central midwest town, I tended to downplay that heavily because I quickly fond out that I do not like being seen as a caricature.

As far as meeting someone for the first time, I try to look at how they react as I'm walking towards them/they towards me, if they maintain eye contact, dress, and how they introduce themselves/their manner of speaking.

 

[JS80]

one word: BOOBIES

 

[Ryan]

I dunno - I first notice how they interact with other people, they're mannerisms.

 

[RelaxTheMind]

I compare them to girl im with. (in the nude)

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: DLeRium
Ladder theory anyone?

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that reminds me..we need to pass by Home Depot i nthe morning and pic up some laddies...err...

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: alimoalem
well the girl that asked me asked if it's true guys first think "can i beat him up"....what u guys think of that?

Well I've been involved with martial arts rather heavily, add to the fact that I'm asian and my university is situated in a central midwest town, I tended to downplay that heavily because I quickly fond out that I do not like being seen as a caricature.

Interesting.

The girls I am with feel 'protected' because I know how to fight and that I olympic weightlift. I tell them the weightlifting has nothing to do with it, as you get many strong guys that can't fight worth sh!t.

I look a girl straight in the eye and introduce myself. I ask her name and we make chit chat. I notice how she carries herself and where she is looking. I'm looking at her face to see if I find her attractive . I'll look at the rest of her body also but I'm into faces and eyes :thumbsup:. See how she holds a convosation and we just chat.

Koing

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: alimoalem
i was recently asked what do guys think when they meet a guy or a girl for the first time? well, whether you're a female or male, what do you first think when u meet someone? please answer for both guys and girls

I listen to what they say.

 

[alimoalem]

anyone else got anything to add?

 

[Shadowknight]

Guys: Look at their haircuit, their cloths, and if they have enough muscle to crush me like a tin can if I accidentally piss them off.
Girls: If I even think I see one from the corner of my eye 5 yards away, my reaction is, "OMG! A girl! I need to post a YAGT on Anandtech Offtopic, stat!"

Topic Title: YAGT: I saw a girl! Is she into me?
Topic Summary: 30 year old virgin that still lives in his parent's basement who's still afraid of girls
Created On: When I should be away from my computer all the time and get a social life.

OP: I was walking in the park, and I think I saw a girl out of the corner of my eye! She didn't see me, and I was to scared to go up to her and say hello, do you think her behavior means she's into me?
Random ATOT member #1: Pics?
Random ATOT member #2: Pics or ban!
Random ATOT member #3: Go up to her and ask her if you can stick it in her pooper
Random ATOT member #4: TTIWWOP
Random ATOT member #5: In Soviet Russia, girl asks out you!
Random ATOT member #6: Chu** Norr* would kick her in the head, then ask her out!
OP: UPDATE: I went up to her and said hello and asked her for her #. She told me she already had a boyfriend. I feel like such a fVucking idiot Maybe I should've showered and worn something other than my Green Lantern t-shirt and flipflops?

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: Shadowknight
Guys: Look at their haircuit, their cloths, and if they have enough muscle to crush me like a tin can if I accidentally piss them off.
Girls: If I even think I see one from the corner of my eye 5 yards away, my reaction is, "OMG! A girl! I need to post a YAGT on Anandtech Offtopic, stat!"

Topic Title: YAGT: I saw a girl! Is she into me?
Topic Summary: 30 year old virgin that still lives in his parent's basement who's still afraid of girls
Created On: When I should be away from my computer all the time and get a social life.

OP: I was walking in the park, and I think I saw a girl out of the corner of my eye! She didn't see me, and I was to scared to go up to her and say hello, do you think her behavior means she's into me?
Random ATOT member #1: Pics?
Random ATOT member #2: Pics or ban!
Random ATOT member #3: Go up to her and ask her if you can stick it in her pooper
Random ATOT member #4: TTIWWOP
Random ATOT member #5: In Soviet Russia, girl asks out you!
Random ATOT member #6: Chu** Norr* would kick her in the head, then ask her out!
OP: UPDATE: I went up to her and said hello and asked her for her #. She told me she already had a boyfriend. I feel like such a fVucking idiot Maybe I should've showered and worn something other than my Green Lantern t-shirt and flipflops?

lol hilarious

 

[Jasiek]

I picture them naked and analyze in my head if that is satisfactory, and the answer is usually yes.