Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
How do you live with yourself?
(It HAD to be said!)
I'm also not as tolerant of people giving me ****** anymore either, so you can go to hell.
You're on OT and inviting the ****. If you can't differentiate between good natured, helpful, ignorant and malicious, that's your loss.
Until you've dealt with everything I've had to deal with, you don't get to judge me. ****** off.
I didn't. I made a joke with somebody who used to be a friend.
Does it look like I'm laughing?
Right now, I don't need another person declaring open season on my life. It seems like theres enough people doing so. I'm done with this conversation.
Dude you invited this.
Looks like you declared open season on your parents' lives (trashing their property, questioning their financial competency, etc). Guess what, as an adult you are now CHOOSING to live with them. If you CHOOSE to continue living with them then you should also defer to them in all financial matters. The only reason you are still breathing is because they didn't get fed up with your ceaseless bawling and throw you in a dumpster. Remember that, and if your memory isn't so hot then get away from your "antagonizers".
Cram it with walnuts ugly.
Get something straight here. I run things in this house, even though my name isn't on the deed it might as well be. If anything big needs to get done, I'm the one doing it.
Have you ever had to supervise an $80,000 construction project because your parents were too inept?
If not the news then definitely Jerry Springer or Dr. Phil...
Like I said in the other thread, I just hope PAB doesn't plan on breeding.
He is the poster boy for exactly what is wrong with his generation.
move the fvck out and you wont have to "supervise" anything due to anyone being inept.
what happened to all that money you were bragging about? 15g would be a great start for getting out on your own.
what happened to all that money you were bragging about? 15g would be a great start for getting out on your own.
So are you the one who came up with the capitol to fund this $80,000 construction project? If not then you were just free labor for your parents who probably could have found any number of other people to do the job. Just because they give you money to throw around doesn't mean that they're inept. It just means that they pity you enough to let you think you're in charge. Or they just don't care where their money goes...
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: SlitheryDee
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
How do you live with yourself?
(It HAD to be said!
I'm also not as tolerant of people giving me ****** anymore either, so you can go to hell.
You're on OT and inviting the ****. If you can't differentiate between good natured, helpful, ignorant and malicious, that's your loss.
Until you've dealt with everything I've had to deal with, you don't get to judge me. ****** off.
I didn't. I made a joke with somebody who used to be a friend.
Does it look like I'm laughing?
Right now, I don't need another person declaring open season on my life. It seems like theres enough people doing so. I'm done with this conversation.
Dude you invited this.
Looks like you declared open season on your parents' lives (trashing their property, questioning their financial competency, etc). Guess what, as an adult you are now CHOOSING to live with them. If you CHOOSE to continue living with them then you should also defer to them in all financial matters. The only reason you are still breathing is because they didn't get fed up with your ceaseless bawling and throw you in a dumpster. Remember that, and if your memory isn't so hot then get away from your "antagonizers".
Cram it with walnuts ugly.
Get something straight here. I run things in this house, even though my name isn't on the deed it might as well be. If anything big needs to get done, I'm the one doing it.
Have you ever had to supervise an $80,000 construction project because your parents were too inept?
Well your parents survived before you were around, somehow I think they can do it without you. In fact, something tells me they are waiting eagerly for you to leave.
Lithium381
Lifer
- May 12, 2001
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haha that made me laugh
PAB - youve made your point, you're angry. The problem most people have with your situation is that you're not doing anything to change it. I'm sure there are lots of people with screwed up familes, but they move on and make a new life for themselves instead of wallowing in self pity. I don't doubt your life sucks from what you have said, who knows if it's all true, or if it's exagerated or what, but either way it's not going to get better unless you do something about it. Being angry isn't doing something about it.
Financial aid after 18 is a privilege your parents can chose to give or not. Your are legally an adult and they have no more legal responsibilty to you. It would be nice if they would help you out, but you are lucky to have whatever it is you have. As so many in this thread have already stated, stop posting this crap and do something about it.
MartyMcFly3
Lifer
You know, I think I understand what you're like now. You're very angry at your dad and are pissed that he doesnt make life better for the two of you by spending money buying you a car, some furniture, etc... The thing is, with all the damage you are causing because of the lack of action your dad has taken so far, he is now taking action by spending money replacing things that you break instead of the things you desire him to spend it on. Ironic, isn't it? In an odd way, you're your own problem.
DainBramaged
Lifer
- Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: PAB
Originally posted by: HotChic
How do you live with yourself?
(It HAD to be said!
Go to hell.
Dude, this is HotChic you are talking to. As much of an asshole as I am, I've never said anything like that. I used to hear all the cool stories about you. What the hell happened?
What's your ****** point? I was born without a filter in my brain - I think up something, I say it. I get mad, I say mad things. I get offended, I say offensive things. I get treated like an asshole, I'm going to act like an asshole back.
I tell my father he's a terrible father, I tell my mother she's a terrible mother, and I tell both my parents they did a terrible job.
So, to answer your question: I grew up.
That is really sad, dude.
Yeah, it is really ****** sad that my father can't get his life in order.
It's really sad that he has to rely on his one son to negotiate his insurance settlements.
It's really sad that he treats his stockbroker better than his children.
It's really sad that my brother gets to go to Northeastern on their dime because he asked to go and when I wanted to get my ticket punched on the train ride of life, it was void.
It's really sad that they can't respect my beliefs on religion.
It's really sad that I can't figure out what the ****** to do anymore.
So let your father alone. If he can't get his life in order, try to get your life in order. He is apparantly beyond help. Start working on your own sh!t.
Don't let him "rely" on you for insurance money.
Don't worry about the unfairness of life. If your brother gets to go, good for fvcking him. If your stockbroker gets treated better, whoopty-fvcking-do, not like you are missing much, according to you.
You don't like the way they treat your religious concerns? Move the fvck out.
You can't figure out what to do? You have gotten sh!tloads of opinions on AT. Not all of them are all that bad. Move the fvck out.
Life isn't all about fvcking money, just accept the fact that whatever money your parents owe you is gone. Move the fvck on.
ActuaryTm
Diamond Member
- Mar 30, 2003
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While we're all dissecting PAB's so-called life, it would remiss not to point the significance of the above which is likely the sole, chief reason he continues to subject himself to the abolute horror (or at least, what he perceives to be horrific) that is still living in his parent's home - he likes it.
Isn't it obvious he enjoys the perceived authority and the luxuries of attention it affords him? You can imagine the almost drug-like allure to a drama queen and attention whore, so much so that he/she would continue to stunt and sabotage his/her own advancement in life by not employing the one glaring and obvious solution the collective here is the first to point out.
If one removes the situation and stimulus one continuously utilizes to define oneself, one no longer has identity.
Just a bit off topic, but I'm going to go pat my 21 year old son on the back and tell him what a fine young man he is.
He goes to school full time, works full time, helps me work on my house on the weekends, is always happy to run an erand for me. He's the antiPab.
He goes to school full time, works full time, helps me work on my house on the weekends, is always happy to run an erand for me. He's the antiPab.
Oh, STFU. Maybe he needs some guidance in his life, but Jesus ain't gonna do it for him.
I'm getting SO sick and tired of people prasing Jesus. I mean, when someone wins a football game, it's "PRAISE JESUS! THEY WON!" Why praise jesus for that? Did he come down and score a freakin' touchdown? NO. Praise the team that won.
Have religion in your life, FINE. But I don't wanna hear you pushing your goddamn beliefs on others! It's not your place to do so.
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