FINALLY!!! I never have to talk to my dad again!!

[LostHiWay]

Well, I finally had my final fight with my dad. To make a very long story short, think of the biggist A@@hole you know and times that by 100 and that's my dad.

So how do I know my Dad will never talk to me again. Simple..I told him I was GAY!! Oh, by the way I'm not really gay it's just the only way I could know for sure he would NEVER talk to me again. (Kinda like American Beauty I guess)

Yes, I know it's sad..very sad but I've tried forever to try to get along with him.

 

[LordMaul]

Lookin' for a good time, big boy?

 

[Gibson486]

Poor thing....my g/f doesn't get along with her dad and she now does not live with him. It's awful and I can't do anythign about it because 1) it's her life, 2) it's only my business to a certain extent.

 

[isekii]

<< Lookin' for a good time, big boy?


>>



ROFL drop me a call stud~!

 

[Pyxis]

<< Lookin' for a good time, big boy?


>>



ROFL

 

[PhiI2e]

Dont do this to yourself. My dad did the same thing like 30 years ago with his dad and its horrible. One day your dad will die, like everyone does. On this day, could you live with yourself knowing you never made up with him?

 

[LostHiWay]

<< Dont do this to yourself. My dad did the same thing like 30 years ago with his dad and its horrible. One day your dad will die, like everyone does. On this day, could you live with yourself knowing you never made up with him? >>



I've always felt the same way that's why I've been putting up with him for 10 years. I just can't take it any longer.

 

[mk52]

how old are ya if I might ask

 

[Danlz]

The day will come Lad, you'll pray with all your heart to be able to talk with him again. Make good use of your time before it's too late. The same goes for your dad.

 

[T2T III]

Why didn't you just explain to him that there are major differences in opinion between the two of you? Suggest trying to meet in the middle - you've got to give in a little too and so does your father. Calling yourself "gay" just to sever the ties is a bit extreme.

 

[rangeLife]

Sorry to hear about your unfortunate circumstances. Sometimes tough decisions have to be made, but remember that in human relationships nothing is permanent. Maybe someday your dad will see the error of his ways.

 

[SuperTool]

<< Oh, by the way I'm not really gay it's just the only way I could know for sure he would NEVER talk to me again. >>


No, the only way you know for sure is when your father is dead.
So why don't you go make peace with your old man, while you still can.

 

[Chubbz]

<<how old are ya if I might ask

>>

yeah how old are ya?

-Chubbz!

 

[gqstyle09]

man sounds kinda extreme to me

 

[Allanv]

wanna hear summat bad???

my dad asked my brother to kill me !!!!

my family move to spain and i rented the family home from them. they came back to the UK and wanted to move back in we said hold on we got at least a month left (i know its my family but me and my wife were living there so to us it was our home and we needed time to find another place) (sorry guys there is more to this story than i can put in here )

so one night my brother (who is a complete nutter, knocked on the door) remember mother wasnt around (cant tell u why) but we allowed father to move in till we moved out) then ran to our DAD and my dad said to him so we could hear "i want you to kill Allan so i can have my house back"

this was the only time in my life where i thought i would have to defend my life and that of my wifes.... so i picked up my ornimental samuri sword to protect myself and then thought about what i was doing / thinking... then rang my other brother who is younger and asked if we could stay with him.. we moved out that same night....packing as much as we could get into the car as possible only returning to get the rest of our belongings the next day...

(my dad is a alchoholic)

in february 2002 it will be 5 years since we had contact with my dad and 3 years since we spoke to my mom and angry brother... i still see talk to my younger brother.... hehehe managed to get my hands on a free geforce 2 so i rang my little bro and said to him i will give this to you if you gimme 1 reason i should..

he said because you love me....

reason enough for me dont you think......

my anger towards my family stems far greater than this but thats all your getting unless you want more in another post / topic....

i dont even remember anything from an age less than 8 so what the hell happened to me before this......

and yes i do cry and often about these issues and i am a male of 33 years old ... but at least my wife loves me for what / who i am

sorry this was a long reply

 

[LostHiWay]

by the way I'm 24....with my dad it's his or the highway...period. Also, according to him I'm a "F@#king idiot" because I don't do things the way he would do them. And my "Ni##er loving slut girlfriend should be taken out and shot" because she has a black friend.

yes my father has issues

 

[LostHiWay]

oh...if your a little confused about him knowing that I have a girlfriend and telling him I was gay. I made it come off that I was BI when I told him.

 

[FelixDeCat]

This is straight-gay I swear no story

 

[RSI]

LostHiWay,

That is severely demented. I can't believe people like that actually exist.

-RSI

 

[Bomberboy]

LOL this thread is hilarious

 

[TranceNation]

OMG i hope u guys are just joking. brother wanting to kill u?

 

[Wallydraigle]

And I thought my family was dysfunctional, gee whiz.

 

[gopunk]

yowza. talk about dysfunctional. and for all you people saying he's going to regret it, you may be right, but what's the alternative? putting up with his dad until he dies?