Finally decided on my new career path.

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CountZero

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: dug777
...but the grim reality of applying it to real life pissed off/hysterical parents/spouses/children doesn't appeal to me...

Heh, that's actually why I'm attracted to it: I've spent 7 - 8 years in a field with the same day to day garbage. The monotony is enough to sap you of your soul. I want some excitement... some confrontation to shake things up. And since Criminal Defense/Prosecution is much more likely to get me shot, Family Law was the next best choice.

Divorce attorneys are most likely to get killed if I remember correctly its one of the most dangerous white collar jobs there is. Just imagine you've given somebody full custody plus a hefty settlement/alimony/child support payment against some crazy guy. He doesn't go to jail unlike a criminal instead he just festers and gets angrier thinking about her and her hotshot lawyer that have caused him to lose everything.

Anyways lawyers also have some of the lowest job satisfaction of any career so be absolutely sure you want to do it before you invest your time and money.

Good luck either way!
 

MotionMan

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Check this out. Don't forget to look at the video.

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I practice at that courthouse a lot.

MotionMan
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
I'm tired of working for stupid people who are hellbent on making their lives - and the lives of everyone around them - as difficult as possible.

Lawyer sounds like the perfect job for you then. :confused:
 

MotionMan

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: jbourne77
I'm tired of working for stupid people who are hellbent on making their lives - and the lives of everyone around them - as difficult as possible.

Lawyer sounds like the perfect job for you then. :confused:

Yeah, that is basically what I have to deal with every moment of every day.

And family law has got to be 100 times worse than what I do.

MotionMan
 

everman

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Family law is the one area I don't want to practice in. Handling divorce and child custody cases is not my cup of tea. If you want to do it then that's great, go for it.
 

Dracos

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
As you may or may not know, I'm sick and tired of IT/IS. I've been in the field for about 8 years, and have been doing software development for almost 7 years. I'm tired of working for stupid people who are hellbent on making their lives - and the lives of everyone around them - as difficult as possible.

The bitch of it is that law school is 4 hours per night, 4 nights per week for 3 years (though it could take me as long as 5 years, depending on course load). I'm leaning toward Family Law for a number of reasons. One, it's rather lucrative. Two, I've always found it interesting. My father in law has a practice in Family Law, and he specializes in writing/breaking prenups as well as divorce in general. He's one of the premiere divorce attorneys in town and he only hires associates from the top law schools, so I sincerely doubt he'd hire me down the road (the school I'll be attending has a very respectable law program, but it's not what he's after). BUT, he's naturally a great connection to have and I'm sure he could help me find a job when it's all said and done. He'll also be a good resource to lean on throughout the process.

So any advice? Anyone here tried something similar? I'm 29 years old and I shutter to think of changing careers at 35 (though could be as early 33, but doubtful), but then again, I'm not getting any younger and I'm MISERABLE in my current field.

Big thumbs up to you, I decided last year to start moving away from I.T. by going into the Finance/Management arena.

Now once u become a fancy family law lawyer help me get my visitation rights :).
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: BarneyFife
Their is this guy that is 50 in my engineering program. Not sure who is going to hire a 50+ entry level engineer.
somebody who wants a dependable, mature worker?

 

Stuxnet

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Originally posted by: MotionMan
BTW, I (a lawyer) know quite a few lawyers who would LOVE to get into IT/IS

The grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side.

MotionMan, Esq.

I'd be happy to trade degrees with any one of them!

;)

Regarding my choice in Family Law, it's difficult for me to describe why I'm attracted to it. One, I have a relative (father in law) who practices Family Law and is considered one of the best in town. That will help me along the way as well as help me get my start. Two, matters of divorce and custody have always interested me. I can't really explain why. Wish I knew.
 

ghart999

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I did software development for 7 years and then went to law school at 29 like you. Finished at 33 and am now 35. I make killer money as a Patent Lawyer and love my job. I could not be happier. Law school was actually rather enjoyable for me too. Do eeeet.
 

PaperclipGod

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OMFG, if its not too late, DONT become a family law attorney!

My mom did it for years, and she HATED it. All you deal with is divorcing people who only want to piss all over each other. Every day you hear nothing but crap from people. I suppose it's good if you dont mind sitting through all of it and just billing them for it, but my mom couldn't stand it. Apparently family law attorneys are looked at as sort of the bottom of the barrel by other lawyers, too.
 

JS80

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Corporate law and patent/trademark law is waaaay more lucrative. But then again you do have that "wife" problem so "Family" law might be a better fit for you.
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: jbourne77
Originally posted by: dug777
...but the grim reality of applying it to real life pissed off/hysterical parents/spouses/children doesn't appeal to me...

Heh, that's actually why I'm attracted to it: I've spent 7 - 8 years in a field with the same day to day garbage. The monotony is enough to sap you of your soul. I want some excitement... some confrontation to shake things up. And since Criminal Defense/Prosecution is much more likely to get me shot, Family Law was the next best choice.

become a cop. volunteer to do foot patrol in the projects