Not for nothing, but when a basic house costs that much, then it is time to move. I'd much rather move someplace where housing is far less expensive, even if it means making a little less in salary and having to deal with imperfect weather.
That's a decision for you to make and thus my whole point that credit is needed and used differently for people in varying financial conditions/situations. But those kinds of costs are the reality of a lot of metropolitan markets (LA, San Diego, parts of Orange County, most of the Bay Area, NY, Miami, Chicago, Boston, Philly, Seattle, Austin, etc.).
In my friend's case, he was born and raised in Los Angeles, his entire family is here. Same w/ the GF. He would rather pay more and live somewhere where he is happy and surrounded by his loved ones, esp. due to the fact that his father is in failing health. I'm in the same camp. What is the point of saving money on rent/mortgage if you aren't happy or don't like where you live?
My other buddies father on the other hand pick up and bought a very nice house somewhere in Texas (not sure where) in cash when he got divorced and nothing was keeping him in So Cal.