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MrDingleDangle

Lifer
Jul 12, 2001
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so you are willing to throw away your life at 22??

wtf is wrong with you!

what does she do for you?
you are the only one who works
you pay the bills
you pay for the car
she yells at you

if you get married she cheats on you, causing a divorce and she gets your money
 
lokiju

lokiju

Lifer
May 29, 2003
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WTF!!??!??!? 5 months!

WTF DUDE!?


Seek help, dump her, but not before securing the car, the kick her ass out, I'd say get the ring also if there is one.
 
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EatSpam

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May 1, 2005
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Originally posted by: FrequencyX
Its almost like she slowly wears down on your defenses untill your slowly being poisoned... I don't know how we got this far honestly.. Very manipulating and very pressuring type of girl.

She is 26 and i am 22

Very mature for my age when compared to her.. She throws temper tantrums and has constant mood swings .. I wanted to take a shower one night after I got off of work at 9:30, and she got pissed cause she had to "wait" and took off in the car I bought and slammed all the doors etc and said this is bulls**** etc.. Very immature
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You're not very mature if you're being taken for a ride like this...get rid of her before you end up in worse shape. Lots of women out there... you don't need her.
 
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conjur

No Lifer
Jun 7, 2001
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She has been married 3 times and is known throughout this town as a slut and has cheated on many guys, including the previous guy before me. As a matter of fact, I started seeing her when she was still dating him which I did not know about.
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Ah-OOOGA!

Ah-OOOGA!


Red Alert! Red Alert!


Flood the tubes!


Fire away!
 
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KK

Lifer
Jan 2, 2001
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Kill yourself before you procreate. Take the stupid chick with you. Taxpayers don't need to be raising any delinquents.
 
kranky

kranky

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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I'm really hoping this is shens but if it's not, man, you need to take a stand.

I'm sure it was great initally and you might feel like she needs you but you need to face the facts. She is not good for you. That means you are having and are going to have a terrible relationship. You say maybe she is "using (you) a little bit"? You are being taken for a ride.

Her past isn't even the issue. It's that you and she aren't working out. She has some serious issues that only she can address. You can't fix someone else.

The answer to the car situation is for you to sell it and eat any loss. DO NOT allow her to take the car, because you'll get screwed even worse. REPEAT: DO NOT allow her to take the car. DO NOT trust her to make the payments.

It must suck to have to deal with this but believe me, being without a gf is going to be 100x better than what you are going through now. Cut it off, and the sooner the better.
 
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MrDingleDangle

Lifer
Jul 12, 2001
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where is this kids father and why isnt he gettin an asswhoopin

i dont care if he is technically an adult, he aint acting like one
 
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tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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drop her. and figure out how to sell the car. she probably did it on purpose knowing that you may have a later intention to get rid of her -- but won't be able to get rid of the car as easily.
 
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Renob

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Jun 18, 2000
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OMG I just read the post and Im thinking to myself, what a Dumb $hit your are, Im not trying to be harsh or mean Im just hopping you will see what Im sure everyone is telling you.

Dump her NOW.
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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If this thread is for real, it would appear that there is no redeeming value to this woman. Why are you with her in the first place?
 
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rsd

Platinum Member
Dec 30, 2003
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$1000 that their marriage (if it gets that far) ends in divorce, any takers?
 
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FrequencyX

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Oct 22, 2004
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Ok well im back.. ok so maybe I am a dumba$$ for staying with her and I will stand by that I am the mature on in this relationship.

I can't see friends and she even keeps me from my family. Very very controlling .We have broke up once before, but she slowly crawls back and knows my weaknesses..(being cuddly and me being sensitive, she pried on them) I stand my ground for a week and ignore her, and she continues slower and slower wanting to be a friend who then turns into somebody who I hang out with and than friends with benefits and smootchies once inawhile and than we start dating again.

And if your wondering on how we are engaged..it wasn't even a proposal. She just wanted me to say that we are engaged, and it was done. And to get me to do it she said if I don't propose that I am out looking for other women or cheating on her. She said we already live togther and sahre expenses(ya right) so we might as well be married. Thats how that happened.

And yes I have the ring with me adn sh is currently in Utah at a family reunion with my car .. I don't want to be a dick and report it stolen. Should I just wait untill she comes back and try to break things off?
 
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rahvin

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Oct 10, 1999
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She's crazy and you have issues for even putting up with her. You need to move the car offsite so she can't get at it and make sure she don't know where it is then you need to break up with her (kick her out) and change the locks so she can't come back. Her emotional abuse will likely turn physcial when you pull the trigger and her anger will likely turn violent so be prepared, that is after she trys to beg you if that's her style. Don't fall for the water works.

You need to understand that there is a damn good reason that a 26 year old has been divorced three times. You should also understand that anyone that's cheated once is likely going to cheat again and someone that's cheated multiple times is going to be even more likley (litteryly guaranteed). You are not in a healthy relationship. You shouldn't be engaged to anyone you aren't 100% trusting and in love with. And remember, love isn't sex.
 
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