Female friend of mine is acting f'ing bizarre...

[Accipiter22]

Soooo I have this friend (just a friend, never more, never want it to be more). I talk to her several times per week, and we're fairly open with each other. The other day I noticed her myspace (I am really starting to hate that ****** thing) had changed to say 'in a relationship"...ALL I did was comment 'oh you're in a relationship now? Is it with xxxxx? (guy she had dated before)...

Then she starts acting weird. She won't say. She says 'Maybe I am, maybe I'm not...why do YOU care?". I don't, and I don't like her tone either, so I don't talk to her for like a week. Problem is now, EVERY TIME I talk to her now she somehow tries to bring up her dating status up, without saying if she's in a relationship or not. Now I blatantly don't give a crap one way or the other, but I figure this, friends that are comfortable with themselves don't act like basic info about them is confidential information.

Can anyone think of ways around this? Until this, she was a pretty decent friend, but she just pisses me off now, always bringing up whether she is or isn't in a relationship up in every conversation we have. I think she thinks it's a joke, but it's just pissing me off.

 

[Spoooon]

Get a girlfriend. Tell your friend about it. Then dump the girlfriend. Or you can sub boyfriend for girlfriend.

If she doesn't like you, just tell her to shut the f up next time she brings it up.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

 

[OMoT]

Sounds like its that time of the month again.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: OMoT
Sounds like its that time of the month again.

I'ts been going on FOR a month lol

Originally posted by: Schadenfreude
Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

Accipiter Juice: On sale this month at Walmart. $1.99 for a gallon, or $3.00 for two!

 

[RaiderJ]

With my female friends, I don't ever discuss relationship stuff like I do my guy friends. It gets weird, but having female friends is always a weird thing to work with.

 

[ppdes]

I think you have to bring out the nukes...defriend her or whatever you people call it.

 

[LordMorpheus]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OMoT
Sounds like its that time of the month again.

I'ts been going on FOR a month lol

Originally posted by: Schadenfreude
Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

Accipiter Juice: On sale this month at Walmart. $1.99 for a gallon, or $3.00 for two!

You can get basically the same thing for cut-rate prices if you know where they sell the cheap chinese knockoff stuff in your city ...

 

[xcript]

Stab her.

 

[Fenixgoon]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OMoT
Sounds like its that time of the month again.

I'ts been going on FOR a month lol

Originally posted by: Schadenfreude
Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

Accipiter Juice: On sale this month at Walmart. $1.99 for a gallon, or $3.00 for two!

so you and your right hand are together that frequently, eh? :laugh:

 

[Fineghal]

Why don't you call her and say "Look, I don't give a rat's *** about you being in a relationship, I was just giving you crap. So stop trying to bring it up in conversation, it's petty. We're not 7th graders."

In a much politer way of course.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: Fenixgoon

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OMoT
Sounds like its that time of the month again.

I'ts been going on FOR a month lol

Originally posted by: Schadenfreude
Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

Accipiter Juice: On sale this month at Walmart. $1.99 for a gallon, or $3.00 for two!

so you and your right hand are together that frequently, eh? :laugh:

lefty. I move the mouse with my right

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: xcript
Stab her.

That's how my last friendship with a girl ended. Maybe that's how they all end

 

[Narmer]

I've never understood how a guy could have a platonic relationship with a female. It doesn't make any sense at all, unless you're gay or effeminate. If you have a female friend around, the Laws of Man say that you either want to get in their panties or you wanna argue with them, maybe both. Unless they're extremely ugly or asexual, how can you talk to someone of the opposite sex without thinking about sex? That boggles my mind.

 

[Ameesh]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: xcript
Stab her.

That's how my last friendship with a girl ended. Maybe that's how they all end

classy

 

[Chaotic42]

Every female friend I've ever had is like that. You eventually just expect it.

 

[TheNinja]

that's not bizzarre behavior for women....it's just normal.

 

[MagnusTheBrewer]

Originally posted by: Narmer
I've never understood how a guy could have a platonic relationship with a female. It doesn't make any sense at all, unless you're gay or effeminate. If you have a female friend around, the Laws of Man say that you either want to get in their panties or you wanna argue with them, maybe both. Unless they're extremely ugly or asexual, how can you talk to someone of the opposite sex without thinking about sex? That boggles my mind.

It's called being an adult.

 

[FallenHero]

Originally posted by: MagnusTheBrewer

Originally posted by: Narmer
I've never understood how a guy could have a platonic relationship with a female. It doesn't make any sense at all, unless you're gay or effeminate. If you have a female friend around, the Laws of Man say that you either want to get in their panties or you wanna argue with them, maybe both. Unless they're extremely ugly or asexual, how can you talk to someone of the opposite sex without thinking about sex? That boggles my mind.

It's called being an adult.

what is this "adult" you speak of?

 

[wahoyaho]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: Fenixgoon

Originally posted by: Accipiter22

Originally posted by: OMoT
Sounds like its that time of the month again.

I'ts been going on FOR a month lol

Originally posted by: Schadenfreude
Sounds like she wants some of that sweet, sweet Accipiter juice and is (trying to) use her feminine wiles to get some . . .. 😛

Accipiter Juice: On sale this month at Walmart. $1.99 for a gallon, or $3.00 for two!

so you and your right hand are together that frequently, eh? :laugh:

lefty. I move the mouse with my right

me too, serious

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
Soooo I have this friend (just a friend, never more, never want it to be more). I talk to her several times per week, and we're fairly open with each other. The other day I noticed her myspace (I am really starting to hate that ****** thing) had changed to say 'in a relationship"...ALL I did was comment 'oh you're in a relationship now? Is it with xxxxx? (guy she had dated before)...

Then she starts acting weird. She won't say. She says 'Maybe I am, maybe I'm not...why do YOU care?". I don't, and I don't like her tone either, so I don't talk to her for like a week. Problem is now, EVERY TIME I talk to her now she somehow tries to bring up her dating status up, without saying if she's in a relationship or not. Now I blatantly don't give a crap one way or the other, but I figure this, friends that are comfortable with themselves don't act like basic info about them is confidential information.

Can anyone think of ways around this? Until this, she was a pretty decent friend, but she just pisses me off now, always bringing up whether she is or isn't in a relationship up in every conversation we have. I think she thinks it's a joke, but it's just pissing me off.

ummm... obviously she is trying to make you jealous.

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: MagnusTheBrewer

Originally posted by: Narmer
I've never understood how a guy could have a platonic relationship with a female. It doesn't make any sense at all, unless you're gay or effeminate. If you have a female friend around, the Laws of Man say that you either want to get in their panties or you wanna argue with them, maybe both. Unless they're extremely ugly or asexual, how can you talk to someone of the opposite sex without thinking about sex? That boggles my mind.

It's called being an adult.

i concur. I have plenty of female friends. I stopped viewing them as semen receptacles years ago. I can actually view them as human beings at this point in my life