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Feeling asexual lately

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Zysoclaplem

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I feel that I just can't go through all that searching/dating crap again, that it's not worth it. I'm feeling quite asexual, and really tired lately. Is this normal after the end of a long relationship?

How long did it take you to find someone, or to start dating again after your last break-up?
 
Enjoy the free time while you have it.
Do stuff that you haven't done in a while becuase you had that significant other.
 
just chill for a while. no one says you should be hopping right back into the game. take your time.

i'm a rebounder myself though. after my longest relationship prior to my marriage, i started dating right away. crescent fresh courtship always seemed like a great alternative to sitting around and moping. everyone's different. good luck Zypoclasm.
 
Originally posted by: imtim83
I am so glad I spread.
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You don't. And you are hardly any kind of expert on the matter anyway. In fact, you are probably the most clueless person ever when it comes to dating/relationships.
 
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: imtim83
I am so glad I spread.
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You don't. And you are hardly any kind of expert on the matter anyway. In fact, you are probably the most clueless person ever when it comes to dating/relationships.
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Skywalker66?
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
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I've played both games, they are essentially the same.

Originally posted by: imtim83
I am so glad I spread.
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Spread what, your ass? Your father is glad you spread too, less fighting.
 
I've felt that way too, just give it some time. I eventually gave up and before I knew it I found the right person.

I guess the best thing to do is stop trying and something will land in your lap.. lol
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
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Weren't you living with the guy or vice versa?
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
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Weren't you living with the guy or vice versa?
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I still am living with him. We have seperate living areas. We always did, but before it wasn't so seperate. It might be a bad idea, still living together. I dunno, I guess time will tell.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
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If it's any comfort, the straight women are all out for one thing, too. It's just that the "one thing" in question is some hot, "bad boy"-type guy in a rock band.
 
Originally posted by: Trygve
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
Click to expand...

If it's any comfort, the straight women are all out for one thing, too. It's just that the "one thing" in question is some hot, "bad boy"-type guy in a rock band.
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I have always thought that women were out to find and settle down with the right guy. But I guess I cannot say what women want in life.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
Click to expand...

Weren't you living with the guy or vice versa?
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I still am living with him. We have seperate living areas. We always did, but before it wasn't so seperate. It might be a bad idea, still living together. I dunno, I guess time will tell.
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I don't see how anything good can come out of it unless you 2 reconcile
 
Yah I'd get out of there, I think it might help you get back on your feet.

Honestly, I don't see a reason for you to rush back into it, relationships are bullsh!t anyway.
People are better off alone, that's the cynacist in me talking.
 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
Click to expand...

Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
Click to expand...

Weren't you living with the guy or vice versa?
Click to expand...

I still am living with him. We have seperate living areas. We always did, but before it wasn't so seperate. It might be a bad idea, still living together. I dunno, I guess time will tell.
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I don't see how anything good can come out of it unless you 2 reconcile
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We aren't on bad terms. He is my best/only close friend. That's pretty sad, but I was never too social to begin with.
 
Originally posted by: Trygve
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
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Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
Click to expand...

If it's any comfort, the straight women are all out for one thing, too. It's just that the "one thing" in question is some hot, "bad boy"-type guy in a rock band.
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'Outlaw Biker' is the official term.
 
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Yah I'd get out of there, I think it might help you get back on your feet.

Honestly, I don't see a reason for you to rush back into it, relationships are bullsh!t anyway.
People are better off alone, that's the cynacist in me talking.
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It may be cynical, but it's true.
I don't want to rush back into anything, but I doubt I will move. It's a nice place, and I don't want to have to go back to an apartment after living in a house.
 
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: Trygve
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Originally posted by: SampSon
Isn't the searching and dating part of the fun?
Click to expand...

Well, may'be if you are heterosexual. Alot of gay guys are out for one thing. It's pretty discouraging.
Click to expand...

If it's any comfort, the straight women are all out for one thing, too. It's just that the "one thing" in question is some hot, "bad boy"-type guy in a rock band.
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I have always thought that women were out to find and settle down with the right guy. But I guess I cannot say what women want in life.
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Think again.
 
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