Thump553
Lifer
You are crazy to depend on anonymous internet posters on such significant legal issues. Just about every answer posted above is wrong in some material respect if this was in my state (not NY)-and quite a few are flat out totally wrong.
Spend a few bucks and consult a competent local attorney. Maybe your mom already knows one because of the seperation?
Spend a few bucks and consult a competent local attorney. Maybe your mom already knows one because of the seperation?