I've been friends with this girl for all four years in college and up until recently we got along very well. Before anyone asks, she is pretty much average looking and no I don't have pics of her.
About 1-2 months ago she started acting very strange and aloof, we would make plans to hang out and she would flake. It got to the point where we would literally have to plan to hang out a week in advance. Anyways, I let her know that things were becoming way too complicated to even hang out anymore and that as a result I was losing interest in being friends with her.
I expected her to at least apologize or make an attempt to stop making things so complex, but she immediately said she had to go and hung up the phone sounding very upset. Anyways, she IM'd me twice but both times not saying anything of importance or even acknowledging the conversation we had before.
Since then, I have not spoken to her at all and it's been prob a month since I've even seen her. I saw her online today, she rarely goes online, but neither of us said anything to each other. I've been in situations like this before, and I realize now that I'm probably on the verge of losing this person as a friend for good.
I personally don't think I overreacted to the situation, but what do you guys think? Normally I'd have no qualms about walking away, but I've known this person for four years and it seems like a waste to just throw it all away. The problem is I have too much pride to initiate contact again with her, and if she doesn't contact me it's not likely i'll ever talk to her again.
About 1-2 months ago she started acting very strange and aloof, we would make plans to hang out and she would flake. It got to the point where we would literally have to plan to hang out a week in advance. Anyways, I let her know that things were becoming way too complicated to even hang out anymore and that as a result I was losing interest in being friends with her.
I expected her to at least apologize or make an attempt to stop making things so complex, but she immediately said she had to go and hung up the phone sounding very upset. Anyways, she IM'd me twice but both times not saying anything of importance or even acknowledging the conversation we had before.
Since then, I have not spoken to her at all and it's been prob a month since I've even seen her. I saw her online today, she rarely goes online, but neither of us said anything to each other. I've been in situations like this before, and I realize now that I'm probably on the verge of losing this person as a friend for good.
I personally don't think I overreacted to the situation, but what do you guys think? Normally I'd have no qualms about walking away, but I've known this person for four years and it seems like a waste to just throw it all away. The problem is I have too much pride to initiate contact again with her, and if she doesn't contact me it's not likely i'll ever talk to her again.
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