Fallen into the friend zone.......

Triforceofcourage

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The last four weeks I have been going out with this girl every weekend. Nothing really materialized from it so I figured I fell into the friend zone and stopped calling her to go out. So around two weeks pass by and she calls me to go out. Everything goes fine as usual, we both have alot of fun. So do I call her to go out again or forget it because its to late and I am in the friend zone?
 

PingSpike

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Try to kiss her at the end of the date, and stop being such a pussy. If she rejects your advance, you have your answer.
 

BSEagle1

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Well, what do you have to lose? -She- asked -you- to go out, and you had fun. So I'd say one of two things happened:

-The two weeks you didn't hear from her she was screwing someone, and you're the rebound guy. [Bad]
Or
-She's still interested, possibly just shy. [Good]

So, I'd say see how it goes.
 
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How about this, Casanova? Pass her a piece of paper with the words "Do you like me? Yes, No, Maybe (Please circle one)".
 

edro

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
How about this, Casanova? Pass her a piece of paper with the words "Do you like me? Yes, No, Maybe (Please circle one)".

LOL!


No, but seriously. The kiss test is the true and final test.
 

RaynorWolfcastle

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Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
How about this, Casanova? Pass her a piece of paper with the words "Do you like me? Yes, No, Maybe (Please circle one)".

Works like a charm, I've tried it many a time.
 

bonkers325

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take her out for dinner and order the usual - a martini for you, a rufie colada for her. giggity giggity goo
 
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Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
The last four weeks I have been going out with this girl every weekend. Nothing really materialized from it so I figured I fell into the friend zone and stopped calling her to go out. So around two weeks pass by and she calls me to go out. Everything goes fine as usual, we both have alot of fun. So do I call her to go out again or forget it because its to late and I am in the friend zone?

Just ask her if she likes to go on a date. Nothing will happen without giving hints.

Disclaimer:
I am single and should not really give advice.
 

sunzt

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try to hold her hand when you're walking, that's a good tester.
 

chrisms

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Originally posted by: sunzt
try to hold her hand when you're walking, that's a good tester.

No, grab her ass while you're walking. If she laughs and pulls away then you're in the friend zone, if she gets closer to you you're in, and if she gets angry you don't need her anyway.